Love versus Sex

[Locii]

... in response to Re: Just Do It !!, posted by Pete E on Apr 17, 2004

Just do what?  Last I knew we were talking about prositution.  Somehow now the thread is Calipro's concern over my well being.

Ciao

[kented]

... in response to Re: Re: Let Me Speak on This, posted by Locii on Apr 15, 2004

Locii is right that there is no clear line to be drawn.  We Nortaños seek women who are more beautiful (sexually attractive) that anyone we could find here and they respect our maturity (financial security).

Any successful relationship is based on mutual benefit and it doesn't bother me in the least that a woman enjoys the fact that I have a little money as long as that isn't her prime motivation.  And if all I saw in a woman was beauty and sex, that would quickly get old too.

[LatinLuver]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Let Me Speak on This, posted by kented on Apr 16, 2004

I was very surprised in my visits to Cali how easy it was for the Calenas to hit you up for money or gifts or cosmetic surgery etc. I had one girl over dinner on my second date ask me if I would buy her implants. She said it in the same manner as if she wanted me to pass the bread.
I don't see the big difference bbetween that and paying for sex. A whore is a whore.
A GOOD girl in LA under the penalty of death will not ask you for money, at least this is what I have found in my travels over there.
So far only the Calenas have I found this to be the case with. I don't have a problem with a girl having to turn tricks on the side to make ends meet. At least you know where you stand going in.
I know the two girls that I liked best from my last trip there and who I thought were on the "up and end" both hit me up for gifts as soon as I returned. They were very blunt about it too. Basically saying if I am your novia you have to buy me things. You can use any term you want, but paying for sex is paying for sex, whether the money is thrown on the bed after the deed or sent by western union.

[Brazilophile]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Let Me Speak on This, posted by LatinLuver on Apr 16, 2004

Basically saying if I am your novia you have to buy me things. You can use any term you want, but paying for sex is paying for sex, whether the money is thrown on the bed after the deed or sent by western union.

LL,

Your statement above is the fundamental reason why several hardcore feminists believe that marriage itself is a form of prostitution and that women won't be "liberated" until that institution has been overhauled in a very major way.