Medellin vs Cali - "The Chick Scene"

[Researcher]

      Most of these old geezers know the deal.Any of them I ran across seem to know why the young woman was with them. The were playin' "Let's make a Deal" from the very start.

      Researcher

[Zon]

I think it is a bad sign to be liked by EVERYONE.  So, I am comfortable that Researcher and FT are offended by my very existence.   I have been known to speak my mind, and at times be blunt, and uncomplimentary ... I wonder if I have ever had the pleasure of insulting either one of you in person?

There is no arguement by the way,  both of you have objected to my business affairs over and over and over again.  I am looking at a small hotel with a casino in Panama now.  Took a small interest in a club in the Northeast last month.  And, have an interest in a platform of films that are released every month - I think this year we are going to win an award at AVN.  All of this is no doubt objectionable to you because they have an "adult theme".  To some people, I AM A HAPPY PIG ...  I do not care about the well meaning opinions of others.  There is no arguement.   


But, I do not understand why you are so energized?   I know FT is married to a black girl from the coast.  Most Costeniaa are pretty simple and easy to please.  You do not travel or explore SA ... Why don't you get on with life? Seriously, I am just curious why one would spend so much time in a place like this in your position.  I know less about Reseacher.  But, to look me up on dating sites!?!?!?  that is a liitle spooky.   Any of this seem unusual to you ...

[maritime04]

"Just for experiments sake, cut her completely off for a while and see what happens."
 
is that not kind of cruel and in line with "playing games"? why not just use common sense, i heard once a good women will try and save you money by finding deals and discounts, and shows an intrest in helping out, IE part-time work. If some is is depending on you to help them out, why play games like that.

[benjio]

"Just for experiments sake, cut her completely off for a while and see what happens."
 
is that not kind of cruel and in line with "playing games"? why not just use common sense, i heard once a good women will try and save you money by finding deals and discounts, and shows an intrest in helping out, IE part-time work. If some is is depending on you to help them out, why play games like that.

Maritime,
 
Completely hypothetical comment...of course I wouldn't expect a guy in a commited relationship to actually do something like that.

[benjio]

I think it is a bad sign to be liked by EVERYONE.  So, I am comfortable that Researcher and FT are offended by my very existence.   I have been known to speak my mind, and at times be blunt, and uncomplimentary ... I wonder if I have ever had the pleasure of insulting either one of you in person?

There is no arguement by the way,  both of you have objected to my business affairs over and over and over again.  I am looking at a small hotel with a casino in Panama now.  Took a small interest in a club in the Northeast last month.  And, have an interest in a platform of films that are released every month - I think this year we are going to win an award at AVN.  All of this is no doubt objectionable to you because they have an "adult theme".  To some people, I AM A HAPPY PIG ...  I do not care about the well meaning opinions of others.  There is no arguement.   


But, I do not understand why you are so energized?   I know FT is married to a black girl from the coast.  Most Costeniaa are pretty simple and easy to please.  You do not travel or explore SA ... Why don't you get on with life? Seriously, I am just curious why one would spend so much time in a place like this in your position.  I know less about Reseacher.  But, to look me up on dating sites!?!?!?  that is a liitle spooky.   Any of this seem unusual to you ...

Zon,
 
I've stayed away from personally attacking you as I'm not at a judgmental person and I'm one that believes we've all done some shady things at one time or another...especially in the pursuit of monetary gain. But I think you're beginning to have a jaded understanding of everyone's disapproval of your posts.
 
Even you have to agree that someone in your field, keeping the company you do, even if only during work and for occupation's sake, would have sort of a skewed view of relationships with Colombian women. Any dating advice you give here is subjected to a level of scrutiny the average poster doesn't have to concern themselves with because of the industry you're in. Not referring to you personally in any way, but a good example would be me refusing to take advice from a male porn star that's trying to tell me how to make love to my girlfriend or wife. Regardless of his exceptional sexual experience, he's been completely desencitized to the act of making love. It's become a job for him. Something routine. Your story about meeting the two girls for dinner that ended up being prepagos only exacerbated the credibility of the dating advice you post here. I'd like to assume most gringos here looking for true love in Colombia would have walked away from that situation as soon as they recognized what was going on. While someone like you on the other hand, being the type of guy you've admitting to being on this board, kind of just ran with it.
 
I for one appreciate your post and read them all. Regardless of the some of the innuendo you sometimes choose to use, your reports have a level of brutal truth I think all gringos without experience need to hear. However, the mongering scene in Colombia, especially in Medellin, is counterproductive to the foreign dating scene. It gives gringos a bad reputation there and tt makes gringos less trustworthy of women that are truly looking for love. To sum it up, all that makes things a lot more complicated for everyone on the "up and up." I'm not suggesting you're part of, or an advocate of that scene now, but my impression is that your presence and your actions in Colombia do more to promote one side and damage the other.

[dennislevy]

maritime04

you got your dander up...fine....

What YOU did was take a bit of a cheap underhandered shot at me, by saying your girlfrined would call me a cheap gringo.

Now...if that s what YOU think of my attitudes...then man  up and say it..directly.  But you put the comment in the mouth of your 20 year old girlfriend.  That s a cheap shot....and  thats how I took it. 

I specifically did NOT attack YOUR girlfriend. I did say that ALL 20 year old chicas who date older gringos  expect a completely free ride....I think  thats a fair assessment, I said MOST 20 year old beautiful chicas (who date older gringos) think the moon and the stars shine out of  their butts....in other words they have an exaggerated sense of entitlement that isnt comensurate with their level of maturity or their accompllshments   

I also said that my assssement that many 20 year old girls who date older gringos have a Colombian boyfiiend closer to their own age in their life...and he benefits in some way from the gringo s  largesse.  And although I didnt say it......... some chicas manage to keep both parts of their life from colliding ffor quite awhile. .....!!!!!! 

But I said that assesment did NOT include your girlfriend, because I don t know her.

You ve described yourself as a man in your 30s..

So, there s a  10 to 19 year difference in the ages between you and your girl. I m on record...with other guys as thinking that the chances for a relationship with a young chica leading  to a successful and stable marriage are slim.  That s only my opinion and im always delighted to be proven wrong.. 

I personally dont think...given what I know about Colombian culture....that in the majority of cases, a 15 year difference betwen a 20 year old chica and a 35 year old foreigner (I m splittng the difference)  will resullt in a stable lasting marriage, unless it s  a colombiana and maybe a latino from outside Colombia..

Do I think that MOST 20 year old chicas in MEDELLIN  OR CARTAGENA  are with older foreign men because they enjoy a much higher standard of living, they get an allowance from papi, nice trips, great meals and free booze....You bet I do................

If a man wants to do it...becase he s visually wired for young girls or as one of the Parque Lleras crowd calls it YWD...Young Women Disease...... then he should go ahead and do it... but he shoudn t bitch about what inevitably almost always happens....And I am not talking about t you specifically, Im making a geeral comment based on my experience in watching lots of guys with much younger girls.

Every man has own ideas and the clash between reality  and fantasy when datng latinas............ is always interesting to watch......

I will say that realtionships with 20 year old chicas and 40 year old women are much different. 

If your girl has exceptional maurity, and is above all of those things...then iI congratulate you...but I never attacked her.

In one post...you said that you lived quiety and you did your own thing, in another you said that you lived large and partied hard...which is it? because you can t do both.....

And you also said that you know how to treat women (and by implicit comparison I don t)  ..but you ve said that you used and paid for hookers, correct?.

On this board we call that MONGERING......its just my own opinion...but if a man REALLY knows how to treat women....... the LAST thing he NEEDS to do is pay for and use prepagos....especially in Colombia!!!!!   When there are so MANY straight women available!!!!!!!!!!!

When I first got to Colombia three years ago..and I was in the agency dating scece...in Bogota------ and  although i was doing and still do straight dating.....I thought it was on me to always open up my wallet.....

Then interesting things happened. aAter I had been here 4 or 5 months and my Spanish started to kick in....

A woman invited me to her home for lunch and a first  date......SIGHT UNSEEN and paid for the domicilio! ....Why?   A friend of hers had been an ex girlfriend of mine and I had gotten a sterlling refernce. 

Two weeks later....another woman who I had taken out for 2 standard mall dates....dinner and a movie insisted that the third date was her treat.

I had a relationship with a 48 year old executive (originally from medellin)  who stipulated that we alternate paying for dinner dates.....of course I always paid for the hotel room...jejejejeje! 
 
Treating women well does NOT mean ALWAYS throwing money at them. 

I did agree that is certainly polite to pay for transportation....but it s ALSO not necessary..... at least in my dating pool. And many women wont accept it...but a young chica will.....   If you want to pay the freight for young eye candy...because that s the only way they ll show uo for a date with a gringo......that s on you... 

I date (what I think are attractive to beautiful women.....and I look for women to do some small things that show me  they want to take SOME responsibility for progressing a potential relationship.  its true.....that most women dont put thieit  hands in their purses very often in this country when they date...(because of the culture)

But when they do I AM impressed.....and I ll take a real  hard look at that woman.

I almost always ask a a date...if i can pay her taxi......and women will refuse and to me thats a good sign....But I date women in ther late 30s  and up, once again, Im 58.....and I dont date 20 year old girls

Yes, I ve met 224 women in Colombia and I am sure I ll meet more in Equador (where I am right now). You can think its my ego...thats fine...but I date for many reasons...certainly for my social and sex life...but also to improve and practice my Spanish...and to understand  the culture....to avoid loneliness. to have something  to do when I  m on the road.....

OK, you had your ups and I had mine We ve been civil...i think its useless to contune.....but if you want to go again.....Im here, its up to you..
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Have a good day!
Dennis

 

 

[fathertime]

Now see here zonnyboy,  quit trying to make a strawman out of your business to deflect attention off of YOUR hypocrisy. 


1. You grumble about the women having agendas and being less than truthful, yet you lead in with a dating profile lying about your age.


2. Once again you mock others about not being too daring, yet you traveled around Colombia with “BODYGUARDS”…you were the one who was frightened and now you pretend you don’t have a gringo accent…. completely laughable! hahah
 
I could go on and on.


Fathertime!

[Researcher]

I think it is a bad sign to be liked by EVERYONE.  So, I am comfortable that Researcher and FT are offended by my very existence.   I have been known to speak my mind, and at times be blunt, and uncomplimentary ... I wonder if I have ever had the pleasure of insulting either one of you in person?

There is no arguement by the way,  both of you have objected to my business affairs over and over and over again.  I am looking at a small hotel with a casino in Panama now.  Took a small interest in a club in the Northeast last month.  And, have an interest in a platform of films that are released every month - I think this year we are going to win an award at AVN.  All of this is no doubt objectionable to you because they have an "adult theme".  To some people, I AM A HAPPY PIG ...  I do not care about the well meaning opinions of others.  There is no arguement.   


But, I do not understand why you are so energized?   I know FT is married to a black girl from the coast.  Most Costeniaa are pretty simple and easy to please.  You do not travel or explore SA ... Why don't you get on with life? Seriously, I am just curious why one would spend so much time in a place like this in your position.  I know less about Reseacher.  But, to look me up on dating sites!?!?!?  that is a liitle spooky.   Any of this seem unusual to you ...

       Well pencil neck I doubt we have ever crossed paths as I do not frequent the DR sex tourist district nor do I frequent brothels.I could care less whether you exist or not. Your hypocrisy shines through in that you dislike judgemental people and yet you judge wife hunters just like the super religious would judge you for your lifestyle.I don't have a problem with how anyone decides to live, unlike you, who disapproves of guys that want to get married.You may not be one of the super religious judgemental types but you are cut from the same cloth.

   Researcher

[dennislevy]

Micky

In response to your question about my thoughts aobut the Parque LLeras crowd...there isnt much more then I can say...that hasn t been said.

Those enclaves of men  defintiely exist in Cartagena and Cali.. BQ I m not sure...Bogota I doubt it.....Bogota is too big, and too cold for old guys to play around wiith young girls. as an IN country  lifestyle...as occasional toursits, sure....

I know two of the American men in Parque Lleras fairly well, one is a hostal owner in Parque Lleras  , the other is a Bogota hotelland agency owner who lives in Medellin. iI the past i ve been their client.....at the PL hostal, also at the Bogota agency and hotel....

Ive met about 10 otherr American men usually at Cafe Bon...and listened to them at length about their attitudes toward Colombia, Colombian society, Colombian women....etc.. I thought I was from Earth and they were from Mars when I listened to them, because my views of all those topics are much different.

Without even talking about their attitudes about relationsips  and much younger women....what struck me were two things.
1, None of then spoke any more then badly accented pidgin Spanish and some of them had been in Colombia for years.
2. Their concepts of relationships with Colombians were transactional.

One man close to 70, has a regular driver that he paid 20.000 pesos an hour. Anytime he wants to go somewhere, he calls up this guy.  The driver, a Colombian had lived in the US for 20 years and spoke heavily acented but comprehensible English.  (I met the driver he s a good listner, he lets his  client vent and say some outrageous things....and doesn t blink.....after all 20,000 pesos an hour is good money).

I certainly see the mans rationale, he has someone he can trust and who speaks English...but at the same time it closed off potential conversations he could have had with taxistas. (of course its impossible to do without speaking Spanish).

As for me, if I wanted to go somewhere in the same city, I wouldnt use a driver...I would call a cab or flag one down in the street. And quite often the taxista and i talk about our families, Colombian women..Colombia, football and politics. Its something  I like to do

And that s a non moral oberservation I ll make.....because they havent invested themsleves in the language or the culture, the PL gringos wall themselves off with their money and use retainers who they can communicate with to get their errands or things done.

 

[robert angel]

Re:
 
>>Micky I can see you that don't read too well so I don’t doubt you weren’t able to attend college<<
 
FT,
Did YOU attend and graduate from college?
 
You often talk about how unneccessary a college degree, how those with them are often over paid, ad nauseum  and I was wondering if there may be some sort of correlation here.
 
For the record, I don't feel that a college degree is a neccesity to get a good job and having one certainly doesn't mean you do or don't have tact or common sense, most obviously.
 
But given your track record here, and how you continue to harp on it--DO YOU have one or not?

[Zon]

Benjio - Good comments and quesitons.

1, Why would you not ask a male porn star for sexual advise?  You presume that a guy would be X.Y,Z.   Male performers work once every two weeks, generally.  Some of them are the male equivalent of "bimbos" Others are just young guys that take care of themselves and are good at it. 

2 "I'd like to assume that most gringos are looking for true love."  WHY?  In my experience it is right for some; and not right for others.

3, And, why in the name of God should I have walked away from the situation in which you are referring?   I am SINGLE.  In my book there is nothing wrong with having fun, and sometimes that COULD include a 3some.

4, I have profiting from niche marketing that includes the adult industry and international dating site / excort site internet traffic; but, I doubt anyone who has actually SEEN, or BEEN WITH ME feels that I have put a black eye on the "good image of gringos" in South America.

5, When I go to Colombia, or elsewhere, I try to go places that are off the beaten track.  I like a little danger.  I like level 8 - 10 adventure travel.  And, I like women.  The notion that I am fat, bald guy drinking beer, eating cake, and ordering girls is not accurate.

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FT and Researcher you make a good pair because one is a d$ck, the other a P$ss.    I doubt either of you would be so bold in person.

[Researcher]

Now see here zonnyboy,  quit trying to make a strawman out of your business to deflect attention off of YOUR hypocrisy. 


1. You grumble about the women having agendas and being less than truthful, yet you lead in with a dating profile lying about your age.


2. Once again you mock others about not being too daring, yet you traveled around Colombia with “BODYGUARDS”…you were the one who was frightened and now you pretend you don’t have a gringo accent…. completely laughable! hahah
 
I could go on and on.


Fathertime!

      Hey FT, not to mention ol' zon has always preached about meeting women "the natural way" and now he is using an internet website to meet women...hehehe!! Yeah, "the natural way" lying about your age in your profile.What's next? This week he is in the porn industry and next week he'll have a picket sign in his hands that says "Porn is Evil"....but the bodyguards will probably be there to protect him! hahaha!

       Researcher 

[Researcher]

Benjio - Good comments and quesitons.

1, Why would you not ask a male porn star for sexual advise?  You presume that a guy would be X.Y,Z.   Male performers work once every two weeks, generally.  Some of them are the male equivalent of "bimbos" Others are just young guys that take care of themselves and are good at it. 

2 "I'd like to assume that most gringos are looking for true love."  WHY?  In my experience it is right for some; and not right for others.

3, And, why in the name of God should I have walked away from the situation in which you are referring?   I am SINGLE.  In my book there is nothing wrong with having fun, and sometimes that COULD include a 3some.

4, I have profiting from niche marketing that includes the adult industry and international dating site / excort site internet traffic; but, I doubt anyone who has actually SEEN, or BEEN WITH ME feels that I have put a black eye on the "good image of gringos" in South America.

5, When I go to Colombia, or elsewhere, I try to go places that are off the beaten track.  I like a little danger.  I like level 8 - 10 adventure travel.  And, I like women.  The notion that I am fat, bald guy drinking beer, eating cake, and ordering girls is not accurate.

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FT and Researcher you make a good pair because one is a d$ck, the other a P$ss.    I doubt either of you would be so bold in person.

     Zonny you would be surprised at how bold I would be in person.When I travel I don't need or use bodyguards.

      Researcher

[fathertime]

I get a charge out of it when we can get to namecall rather than address the some of the fundamental issues.  You whine about the ladies and their ulterior motives and dishonestly and yet you falsify your age to appear younger!  So why do you feel so inferior that you can’t be up front about your age?


Yes you are very brave in person, that is proven by your use of bodyguards when the rest of us just were willing to wing it in Colombia on our own! Jjajajaj  Maybe you can try to threaten me again, is that what you do also do with the women as well, when they don’t say exactly what you want them to say?  Indeed an intrepid boy you are! 




Fathertime!

[fathertime]

 
But given your track record here, and how you continue to harp on it--DO YOU have one or not?

Sorry Robert you did not ask nicely enough, but I'm only slightly overpaid.   


Fathertime!

[dennislevy]

Zon...you go to places off the beaten track? Level 8 to 10 adventure travel? jejeje

Does that include Parque Lleras in Medellin and Avenida Sexta in Cali?  jejerje

I know you ve been to the DR...but I m under the impression that it was in the sex resort towns in the north.

Just tell us where you ve done level  8 to 10 adventure travel and where you ve experienced.....as you say a little danger.............  Im especially interested to know where you ve been................ in Colombia..................

jejejeje

Dennis

[Researcher]

I get a charge out of it when we can get to namecall rather than address the some of the fundamental issues.  You whine about the ladies and their ulterior motives and dishonestly and yet you falsify your age to appear younger!  So why do you feel so inferior that you can’t be up front about your age?


Yes you are very brave in person, that is proven by your use of bodyguards when the rest of us just were willing to wing it in Colombia on our own! Jjajajaj  Maybe you can try to threaten me again, is that what you do also do with the women as well, when they don’t say exactly what you want them to say?  Indeed an intrepid boy you are! 




Fathertime!

    Hey FT, watch out for those pointy elbows! hahaha!!
 
     Researcher

[fathertime]

      Hey FT, not to mention ol' zon has always preached about meeting women "the natural way" and now he is using an internet website to meet women...hehehe!! Yeah, "the natural way" lying about your age in your profile.What's next? This week he is in the porn industry and next week he'll have a picket sign in his hands that says "Porn is Evil"....but the bodyguards will probably be there to protect him! hahaha!

       Researcher

Well Rese, I think pencil-neck said the 'organic way' actually, but that technique was only for other posters, he is entitled to use the internet, but not you, I, or joe shmoe!  For him organic means, he is going to use the internet, lie about his age, misrepresent his profession,  and travel to 'level 8-10 adventure areas' to ride donuts down mountain sides in order to prove to himself that he is brave! Now he feels he can mock much older men that choose not to adventure out anymore.   


Oh and your other post was right on the mark, pencil-neck is pretty judgmental of the wife-hunters, considering he  says he hates judgments! The red meat of hypocrisy is never-ending!

Fathertime!

[robert angel]

Re:
 

Sorry Robert you did not ask nicely enough, but I'm only slightly overpaid.   


Fathertime!

FT,
 
Just man up for a change and answer the question. You insisting on politeness and decorum in here is laughable at best, your royal hiney....

Re:
 
>>Micky I can see you that don't read too well so I don’t doubt you weren’t able to attend college<<
 
FT,
Did YOU attend and graduate from college?
 
You often talk about how unneccessary a college degree, how those with them are often over paid, ad nauseum  and I was wondering if there may be some sort of correlation here.
 
For the record, I don't feel that a college degree is a neccesity to get a good job and having one certainly doesn't mean you do or don't have tact or common sense, most obviously.
 
But given your track record here, and how you continue to harp on it--DO YOU have one or not?

Show a little back bone and just answer the question, will ya please?

[Zon]

You old pudwackers don't know what your talking about!   When is the last time any of you stayed up past midnight?

You in Medellin DL - go all the way up to the mountains to Pinal, past Santa Domingo.  Any of you white boys go up there by yourself after dark, 50% 50% you are coming back down.  The police leave Enrique too in when the sun goes down.   How about going to El Centro and playing a game of billiards after 10 PM on any given night?   Not a bad idea to have a friend with a friend - the other guys do.  JAJAJAJA   HEHEHEHE   That oh shucks Arpeas small talk aint going to get you out of a jam in these places.   JEJEJEJE  HOHOHOHO

And that is not considering the late night places.   

Or, getting a guide and hoofing it in the jungles.  My last trip, I was supposed to go to the Lost City, but I did not.  I did spend 3 days at Rio Claro - not high adventure.    Been camping in the Pansi area.   Actually, I have not done as much as I would like to in Colombia (its a big place)

In the DR, I prefer a small place north of Punta Cana, Uvero Alto - don't think it is on a map.  But, there is a high adventure lodge, Alto Zero in Constancia in the middle of the island.  LOVE THE PLACE No body guards necessary here - the DR is very safe. But there are no marriage agencies either, so FT, and all those high school educated hicks might be a little challenged finding there way around.

In addition to being a pornographer  ...  I do try to do charity work when I travel  ... I raised money and donated time to the displaced in Antioqia during my last trip major league sad stuff.   In the DR, it has been a while, the last time I was there, I pitched in for a week in Haiti.  But, that would mean a man could be more than one things ....  which again, seems to be too much for your imaginations to grasp. 

Time for your smart a$$ comments...

[dennislevy]

Zon

I can t challenge you about the DR because I dont know it...

But playing billiards after 10 PM  anywere in Colombia isn t exactly high adenture. . Going up to penal is normal stuff.

but the pansi area? I ll skip the obviious joke......and give you the benefit of the douBt...........I think you made a typo...iI s Pandi...and its a town and municipality in Cundinamaraca....

but Enrique? ??

Enrique is the Spanish name for Henry... jejejejeje!

I think you re referrign to MANRIQUE, the commune in the Northeastern part of Medellin,......since its a bus ride away from the Hospital metro station, I wouldn t exaclty consider it off the beaten track.  its not the best of medellin.....but it certainly isnt level 8 to 10 high adventure

and the late night places...that s not high adventure..those are your normal flesh pols.....

kjejejeje

Brush up on your Spanish............. and your geography......white boy!!!!!!.

[Zon]

you three use this thing like a CB radio ...

and, DL, come on, newbies people read this and try to figure out what end is up.  During teh day time, no problems (well, that is not exactly true, less problems).  There are single women from Europe backpacking all over Colombia.  So, it is not a death trap for sure.  BUT, get real Dennis! I do not believe you walk through dangerous neighborhoods, at night,  by yourself, without a second thought.   That is not advisable in Medellin for anybody, and you should know this. 

The nature stuff I do - how can that be of any interest to you guys? 

And the late night places I have gone, and the people I have gone there with, OBVIOUSLY, that aint your guys cup of tea.  Would you like me to say it is just like going to one of those marriage agencies socials ?   (WOOO THAT IS EXCITING.)  Well, it is not.  That's a fact. If you look for ScarFace kinda fun in Colombia, you can find it.  Aint that hard.  Aint that safe. And, I am not trying to glamorize it, it aint smart either.

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Taking a break on Spanish, bro.  I will be back down for 90 days in August.  Then, I will hit it again.  It is a process, not ranking system

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[sticky2]

Wow, FT and Researcher, I've always loved your posts.... but, geez, come on...... you guys are being total trolls right now.  Researcher is obviously just having a laugh ripping on Zon over and over, no big deal... whatever.... but FT, how could you possible rip on RobertAngel?  He's like the nicest guy on this whole forum with great insights and a wonderful attitude.
 
As for Zon, I love his posts, and I think its too bad that people take their time to just rip on this guy repeatedly without adding any real substance to the conversation.  I personally find it fascinating what kind of life a single, well off, pornographer lives while he is in Colombia... not only does my inner pervert enjoy it, but its also great information for areas and kinds of girls that I want to avoid when "wife hunting". 
 
And, Benijo, you know you would've jumped on the threesome.... haha, just admit it bro!
 
Sticky

[dennislevy]

I ve been in some smaller towns at tnight and walked around by myself in Monteria, also in some pueblos in Bolivar near Cartegena.and any number of times in Puerto Colombia near Baranquilla, a small town that I like..

But in the big cities, if I am with a woman in her neighborhood, we always walked together. I remember my first year in Colombia being in Bosa (a huge discrict in South Bogota)  with a novia and we were sitting in the middle of a bunch of Colombians in a chicken restuarant...and it was...different.

After three years, I ve got used to it.

Yes............. learning  to speak Spanish is a process...so don t claim that after two months, your acccent isn t noticed by the locals.....

I m different then Researcher and FT, I m not going  to keep pounding you for what you are.......wjen you aren t verbose ... you ve got somethign to add to the forum...

but  when you make statements about your supposed experiences in Colombia that you can t back up....and youre blowing smoke...............I ll call you on it...as often as I can catch it.

The best remedy.. TELL THE TRUTH! dont embellish, dont exaggerate, don t be grandiose..TELL THE TRUTH .

I havent been to a marriage agency social since Thamksgiving, 2008  at Latin American introductions in Bogota. 

[benjio]

 
And, Benijo, you know you would've jumped on the threesome.... haha, just admit it bro!
 
Sticky

Been there, done that. Fortunately I didn't have to wait to go to Colombia for that experience. I'm just not one to hop on the Internet and tell about it. An overrated experience by the way. I mean you only have so many "things" to put places. I mean the extra tongue on certain parts of your body is nice but you always end up at the same destination no matter how many girls are in the bed with you. I'd honestly much rather be with one girl that REALLY knows what she's doing. Maybe that's just me though...perhaps I was doing it wrong (twice).

I'm at a different point in my life right now dude. The "Zon" lifestyle gets old for any man once you start to dig for something less physical and more emotional. I'm talking about some soul filling, sunrise watching, thinking "this is the reason I was born" type of $H!T. An endless orgy with beautiful strangers without emotional connection leaves more empty than your nuts. More power to Zonny though. Have a freaking ball!! Life is short...do what makes you happy and  leave an explanation for your critics on your Head Stone...