Medellin vs Cali - "The Chick Scene"

[fathertime]

Now, Now,  Robert, one big difference between you and I was that I was commenting on what YOU were saying regarding the intimate details that you have continued to beguile us with regarding your wife.  You on the other hand are commenting directly about another man’s wife and even making mocking comments, which I have not resorted to.   Now I could very easily step over the line as you have done and make some mocking comments regarding your wife’s physique or face as you have now done with mine.   There is a clear difference even a guy with a 4th grade education like yourself could see that. 


The subject was NEVER about my college education, post college eduction, or lack thereof,  you have attempted to hijack the thread and make the new subject though in an effort to protect old pencilneck zon, but it will not work.  As a matter of fact pencilneck is now finally making some of the admissions that mine and Researchers constant badgering has brought forth.  Without our brutal attack on him, he would just float his lies here and much of the audience would have believed it and you were attempting to enable that. 


That was a nice little peace offering but this is not about peace.  When I have something to say, I’m going to say it and if you don’t like it, you can refute the point, but don’t expect me to change my style in anyway so you will stop banging your head with your hand like Dustin Hoffman did in Rainman.  You are free to continue your comments or stop, It really doesn't matter to me, but that is fine I don't hold a grudge against you, although I will probably always tease you to some extent.


Fathertime!

[Zon]

why shave off only 6 years?   Because, many women cut off their search at age 41.   It is an internet search tool, not some holy oath, you braindead overzelous wierdos.

If, after meeting me, she determines I am acceptable phsycially, then what's the harm?  I make a joke out of two things when meeting online, a) her being late   b) my lying about my age.

I fail to see the moral gravity in this!   But, we are different on many levels

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DL "But YOU  dohave  narcissitc personality disorder....you hace no sense of right or wrong. you re completely amoral."

You are right, I am like most modern professionals ... I think nacisistically ( I am not completely without self introspection ).  But, then you move from this to a claim that I have NO sense of right and wrong, and that I am COMPLETELY AMORAL.  Later you suggest that my actions have directly caused HARM TO OTHERS.   WTF?!?!?

You seem OK and sensible 75% of the time, then PFFFFF - I just do not know where the other 25% comes from!

[fathertime]

DL - it appears you desire to be the Wizard of Colombia "the All Good and Knowing"  Are you flippin serious?!?!?!   Instead of putting 46, I put 41 on a DATING PROFILE, and you guys think this rises to a level of character flaw?   HAHAHA.   What world are you living in?  The dating site stuff is 99% a waste of time, and only serves to loosely identify possibilities.  At

Ha you desperate gasbag,    so you finally admit that you are a liar in that regard.  Now if I weren't going on a little safari here in the next couple hours, I'd start pulling out all the BS you have been peddling.  Have no fear I'll be back late tomorrow to expose some more of your utter crapola!  The more posters are aware of what you have been up to the less they will find your 'information' useful, at least the posts regarding  Colombian women.  Other stuff such as descriptions, locations, etc...you at least have a leg to stand on.


Yes Dennislevy is right, feeling regarding your narcissism and inferiority complex. That is probably why you have not been able to find a woman that would put up with you, except for the one that tried to trick you with the fake pregnancy, which you were all to happy to gloat about here at the time!    (I had to slip that one again)


Fathertime!

[robert angel]

FT-->
>>That was a nice little peace offering but this is not about peace.  When I have something to say, I'm going to say it and if you don't like it, you can refute the point, but don't expect me to change my style in anyway so you will stop banging your head with your hand like Dustin Hoffman did in Rainman.  You are free to continue your comments or stop, It really doesn't matter to me, but that is fine I don't hold a grudge against you, although I will probably always tease you to some extent.


Fathertime!<<

 
FT,
 
You are so out of your twisted mind that I actually feel sorry for you. For you to question my, Mickey's or anyone's ability to read--literally, between the lines, whatever, is laughable at best, given your inability to do so yourself. The irony and hypocrisy  in a lot of your spiel is pathetic, to put it nicely. You can't see the forest for the trees! If you could really read, you'd notice I wasn't championing Zon's cause--I was just pointing out the fact that you dole out the same ole shyt on people, time after time.You've got more moves than Ex-lax alright, but they're just as predictably all the same. They're loose, they stink and show what you're made of.


 
While you might feel that aligning yourself in that (or any regard) with Researcher somehow is accurate or plausible and somehow justifies your girlish, churlish ways, is a weak crutch indeed, another ruse you try to put out there to try and make you appear to be on a higher plane than you actually are. Sure, Researcher gets on an interesting bender sometimes, and no, he doesn't back off easily either, but all in all, he has more class in his arse than you have in your entire little body. Maybe if you learn to suck up to him a little more, he'll let you carry his jock strap--maybe I'll send you a little 'lawn jockey' outfit, so you can feel a little class  and pride about your work and appearance in that capacity--you'd be a natch!.



 
As for my proposing 'hey--lets have a little peace--put it there' and you soundly rejecting it, that only further goes to show what a classless, little panty waist you really are. I'll bet all those hits to the head you took on the play ground really took a toll. So go ahead and tease, you spineless little cretin. After all, isn't that what little girls and inadequate, insecure, mentally deficient little boys do best?....

[Researcher]

why shave off only 6 years?   Because, many women cut off their search at age 41.   It is an internet search tool, not some holy oath, you braindead overzelous wierdos.

If, after meeting me, she determines I am acceptable phsycially, then what's the harm?  I make a joke out of two things when meeting online, a) her being late   b) my lying about my age.

I fail to see the moral gravity in this!   But, we are different on many levels

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DL "But YOU  dohave  narcissitc personality disorder....you hace no sense of right or wrong. you re completely amoral."

You are right, I am like most modern professionals ... I think nacisistically ( I am not completely without self introspection ).  But, then you move from this to a claim that I have NO sense of right and wrong, and that I am COMPLETELY AMORAL.  Later you suggest that my actions have directly caused HARM TO OTHERS.   WTF?!?!?

You seem OK and sensible 75% of the time, then PFFFFF - I just do not know where the other 25% comes from!

    6 years?46-41=5 years.....hmmmm....using the word "there" in place of "their", can't do basic math.....poor ol' illiterate zon...

     Maybe lying about his age is just a part of zon's "organic" approach to dating.Yeah organic, isn't bullsh!t organic? hahaha!

      Researcher     

[dennislevy]

Amorality, the inability to distinguish between right and wrong  is a classic part of narcissitic personality disrder.

See Diagnostic Stanard Manual of Mental Disorders, IV (fourth edition),

refer to Cluster B erratic personality disorders

Narciisstic Personality Disorder. . 

Zon, I beleive you hurt a lot of women with your investments in a quote edgy, ill conceived businesses unquote.

 

[fathertime]

ha robertTHEangel!  You really got undies tied in a knot now, it still reminds of DustinHoffman in Rainman though.  What you didn’t like was that I was entirely accurate in the difference between what I said about YOUR behavior and what the comments you made about MY WIFE?  My post was a criticism of you, your post was an attempted mockery of my wife, which as classless as I might be, I have not returned in kind, although clearly I take the same course you did.  Don’ worry I don’t use the ‘report to the moderator’ like you do, I’m not so sensitive as you have proven to be and I rather like your words to stay as they are. 


I’ve aligned myself with the truth in the case of zonnyboy and you have aligned yourself with what has proven to be false.  You wanted to make a big deal out of what education level I have achieved as if it were proof of something and it turns out you barely made it from 4th grade, but I don’t hold that against you!
 
Oh by the way Mr 4th grade education, it isn’t ‘panty waist’  it is panty waste, as in waste in the dumpster, similar to what was truly floating around in that smallish head of yours! 


Yes you can count on vigorous examination of certain aspects of zonny’s posts, and there is obviously good reason.   I’ve been rather critical of him well before most others were, so there is no following in anybody’s footsteps, but I applaud Researcher for sticking with it as well.  I get a kick out of how you try to control how everybody else posts, as if you are still stuck in that 4th grade class of yours. 
 
I'm afraid I must hit the road until tomorrow but I'll be back to keep you in line robertangel!


Fathertime!

[Tanuki]

WOW!! This is a real scrap. There are like three different fights going on in this thread.
 

[Zon]

DL - "Zon, I beleive you hurt a lot of women with your investments in a quote edgy, ill conceived businesses unquote." 

It is your right to have an opinion.  You may even suppose things.  But, you have on more than one occassion taken certain logical leaps just because you feel like it.

Clearly, you see that you are a Frommers travel guide wannabe with a tendency to be arguementative?

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But at least DL lives on panel Earth and can be taken seriously.  The other two here are not worth the energy of a comment. 

[robert angel]

 
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Well ft,

Isn't that JUST like you to 'Get out of Dodge', when it starts getting a little hot? Run, Forest run! As I recall, it wasn't me who started the talk about member's wives's here and posts along that line from you have been noted here before. I only cited what YOU yourself WROTE HERE about YOUR OWN wife, so once again, quit wimping out and read your own posts if you want to find 'the source' or feel some urge to divine some 'theory' out of this mess you've created. Or simply look in the mirror. We're tired of your lame excuses and evasive maneuvers. Instead of just blowing smoke all the time, why don't you try sucking it up?


Besides, if we had to determine who has the record number of personal, nasty name calling insults per total number of post's that any P-L member here has made, the way you'd 'win' that record, you'd be looking look like Babe Ruth, playing on steroids when he hit for the Yankees!! He'd have hit 1428 homers, instead of 714!


Yea--I'll take the too long winded per posts, most words per post title probably, but at least they're not like your posts. Every once in a while, when I'm not cracking wise, getting mushy romantic or veering off thread all together--I try and HELP people. Ever read your own crap man? They're like Tabasco based, hemorrhoid ointment.!

Your niggling little posts, in that bizarre bipolar way you have about you, vacillate between creepy innuendos and nasty name calling that would make a 6th grade girl bitch slap a 5th grade boy! Then you try and criticize and chastise others on 'moral issues'? You are seriously deranged! Physician, heal thyself!


The way you repeat the same old crapola, makes reading you feel like some literacy based form of Chinese water torture--drop after drop--all the same style.


Yea--Ray's in the running, but I'd still put him at a VERY distant second to you and at least he's man enough to let you have it with both barrels and you know what to expect usually. Unlike you, Ray doesn't pull any punches or change his stripes. Like him or not, and I'm on both sides there depending on the post, he's a straight shooter and for every post he's made that had me groaning and rolling my eyes--the guy's made at least dozen or more posts that REALLY helped people--saved em grief, money, time and tears. AND gave a lot of us some good belly laughs too. You don't hold a candle to that. Ray may be out of the Navy, but I don't think he's ever quite totally left the battleship--he's still shooting off broadsides, but he's also still serving his nation indirectly here on P-L.


And BTW, it may be part of YOUR game, I have never felt the need to 'report to the moderator' anybody or anything here--I figure there's few here already that pick up on things around here, eventually taking suitable action when needed. I'm not going to run and hide behind anyone's apron, although you seem to suggest it's not a bad idea. I don't know about you, but I'm no 'tattle tale'--it all comes out in the wash eventually anyway.


As for: >>""I'll be back to keep you in line robertangel!""<<

Who the hell made YOU Marshal Dillon around here? --Or are you "Arrnuld'' now with your "I'll be back" B.S.? I'm shaking, man! Can't seem to stand on my own two feet--"I'm All shook up!" -- "I've fallen and I can't get up!"
 
OMG--I forgot--you said you we're going to keep 'teasing me'--isn't that's right, ft? With a macho dude like you putting forth such 'mature threats' I'm really scared now.

Geeze ft, I do have to give you some creds though---actually I'm laughing so hard, I just might bust a kidney and spring a leak! And I don't think I'm the only one amused by your silly antics. All the same, why don't you just save those 'lines' for yourself and meanwhile, keep an eye out for some tall oaks?  Something with a sturdy branch twice your height--what'd that be? Maybe ten feet? Seems to be the general consensus around these parts, is that you're already putting out enough 'line' to make a pretty thick noose for that thin neck of yours. After all, they do say: "Every dog has his day"!


Enjoy your trip--Bon Voyage!

[dennislevy]

Zon
Frommers Travel Guide.  I like that!...A tendency to be argumentative...lets just say, if I diagree with soemthing ,  I like a good scrap as long as it stays civil. And there are regular.posters who I ve never argued with., I also think  in clsoe to 900 posts, I ve never called anyone a pencil neck or a dumb ass.  With you I ve made certain leaps..and so far I don t think I ve been proven WRONG.
And  ive got to say, since you set yourself up...you make yoursef a pretty easy target.
 
 
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[Zon]

A discussion board is really not a place for PROOF of any kind.  It is not the real world.  Besides, it is impossible to disprove a negative.  I have not tried.

But, you are 100% right, you are civil almost all the time, and you are a constant source of good, viable information. 

You are a little on the argumentative/ self-rightous side.  However, it is not a requirement to agree, or even like fellow posters.  Respect is sufficient.

[maritime04]

Listen dennise
I think you are overestimating how much a I really care about what you say, you can have your opinions, but when you decided to take japs, and imply things about someone you never met, And that I care deeply about you are going to get a harsh response from me. You are very lucky we are thousands of miles apart. Because I would have beaten you severely…………..
You threw some insults and jabs at me directly and I do not know how to get you to understand HOW MUCH I DO NOT CARE. Although I can provide and e-mail you my passport for my birth date, why would I even lie about my age on a forum? Why would I care enough to lie about that? I agree with you and will even admit a 10 year age gap is difficult, on the personal level it’s not maturity or responsibility or commitment, but some jealousy issues that creeps up, and were dealing with it and it’s my hope we will overcome any problems, to build a lasting relationship.
Yes we have been together two years. It was our choice that before we get married that we live together and ensure that marriage is our future, because getting married is not something you should take lightly.
Again you can question my commitment and insult me as much as you like, but when you crossed the line, and you DID cross the line despite not having the courage or decency to admit it I will react strongly, every man on this forum is an adult, with their own life experiences and would probly react similarly to an insult thrown at the person whom they have chosen to spend their lives.  Regardless of her age.  YOU DO NOT ATTACK A WOMEN…………… implied or directly, internet or in person. and questioning the MOTIVATIONS and making alot of the gernal comments you made could only be taken one way..............
I am all up for conversation and can take criticism; I learn from my mistakes and respect other people opinions, I do not know if you asked questions or were just implying insults, At this point we can go back and forth insulting one another, it seems that you do not mind doing this, for me i have 22 days left till ill be gone having a life, and youll still be here fighting with someone eles, and wating for you next date............
 
Your way to egotistical/arrogant and a little hypocritical to have a decent conversation with.....
 
You make statments how you despise "mongers" yet stay and recommend people stay at a hostal thats owned by someone thats not so in-line with your self-rightous attitude and thoughts..........i highly doubt you gave any lectures and stated real opinions, if you did i would have more respect for you then i do now
 
You make staments like I do not like Coloman males becuase " i have no use for them" Simply becuase they wont buy your next coffee or flirt with you, then sleep with you............................................
 
I like Colombia, the culture and country, there is no doubt some culture shock exists, and guys there do tend to behave "badly" but i take the good with the bad, you can't say you love the country and then say you hate all men born there..................its a stupid comment. But it does show the real and only thing you love about Colombia are the older women willing to buy your coffee and satisfy your ego.
 
I can make allot of general comments about older women in Colombia, and imply things about your friend in Medellin, but these are worthless opinions and only from my perspective, i would not stoop to your level and attack someone i know nothing about in the hopes of insulting you which i can do directly, or in person if you like.....

 
I will apologize here and now for the "chichi pato" comment its what you took as an insult or attack on your lifestyle and set you off, i did not mean to insult you, and in the futuer i will not comment on it.In the past have used "light humor" and as i recall probly in your direction, i forgot your of an older generation. i guess what they say about grumpy old man is true....................
  
 
NOW I AM THROUGH WITH YOU.
 
P.S.
Carefull throwing stones, your grammer and spelling are less then perfect, i made a mistake.

[maritime04]

kiltboy no am not from canada

[Researcher]

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But at least DL lives on panel Earth and can be taken seriously.  The other two here are not worth the energy of a comment.

  That's it zon, run away and hide behind your bodyguards like a frightened school girl.I don't doubt that you are not so bold in public.

   Researcher

[Researcher]

A discussion board is really not a place for PROOF of any kind.  It is not the real world.  Besides, it is impossible to disprove a negative.  I have not tried.

    A discussion board isn't a place to troll for business by pretending to be something you are not either.You can't disprove all of your negatives because they are true. hahaha!!!

   
Here's something you can PROVE zon: Post a link to the thread where I took your head off, as you claimed, because of some endorsement of some guy you refer to as JC.Or could it be that this is a lie that you are telling?

    Researcher

[dennislevy]

Maritime04


If you feel that I offended your girlfriend..............I sncerely  apologize to you.  Period.

That s how an apology is made, not at the end of a post  where you take your shots and then you take the apology back with a comment about grumpy men.. VERY CLASSY.....

I stayed at Tom´s hostal NOT because I approve of his dating choices, but because he has the best 60,000 a night peso bedroom I ever saw  in Medellin , on the second floor, big bed, ENORMOUS bathroom, high vaulted wood ceiling lots of character.  The other three bedrooms are bunk beds  typical of a hostal, but I love that single room. Thats why Ive stayed there......

Tom and  I talked about his dating choices, he says thats how he is wired.....I didnt lecture him, I simply listened.

I ll tell you why I had a hunch that you re more then 30 years old and recall, I said if I was wrong....I apologized. ahead of time

You introduced yourself as a man in your 30s....and when I talked about  the challenges of age gaps, you went to the bottom of the 30s...you said you were 30 and the age difference between you and your girl was 10 years .....ALMOST ALL men, ESPECIALLY young men, (and if you are 30, you are a young man) wll state their precise age....They ll say I am 30 or  31 or 34, its something that is hard wired in most men.  I think that  men who give a ten year range range, its usally because they want some wiggle room and they dont want to admit the real age difference between themself and their girl. . ...

Again that s my perception....   If Im wrong, I ve already apologized,  If Im right, you re certainly not going to admit it. 

I never said  I hated Colombian men, I said I didnt hate Colombian men TWICE. Read what I wrote and think...before you vent......I said I didnt have much use for most of them.  Here s an example of why.....You wrote  that you had family i in Colombia and they manipulated your immediate family, pleaded poverty...so they could feather their nests in Colombia.....do I have that right?  If so, I ll bet there were COLOMBIAN MEN involved n making those decisions to take the money from your immediate family....

If you consider yourselF partly Colombian or all Colombian.....well at least you know how I think....

And since i traveled all over Colombia not just to meet women, but to see the country....and just possibly   I ve seen MORE of Colombia then you have,,....,please dont tell me what I love or I don t love about Colombia.

As for me being lucky that you are thousands of miles away.......you re just spillng testosterone on the Internet 
so why waste time huffing and puffing.....

You re right, I do make typos....but I just could not resist....jejeje... 

Have a good day.
Dennis


 

[maritime04]

This is getting pretty old but you seem to have plenty of interest in continuing this……….
I have 3 weeks left so I will humor you, and then on my flight to Medellin forget you even exist. I apologized for the “chichi pato” comment as you are sensitive to the subject and apparently have strong feelings, and I do apologize, I do not know you and I should not have “joked” around, period.
Everything else I said is my opinion, which I am smart enough to know is worthless, but do not take back, you are rude, arrogant, hypocritical, and apparently despite all the dates you get seem to be very bored. Again my opinions………….
You can say whatever you want about me, insult me as you wish, you know what buttons to push to get me going, you released a protective side of me that I had not seen before, call it huffing and puffing, or testosterone, It’s how I felt, and probly what any other man would say and DO, if some creepy dude on the internet ran off his mouth about someone you cared about. You may or may not understand that.
Actions speak louder than words, when you say you detest certain actions and then go head and tolerate these VERY same things; it speaks a lot about your character. You seem to have the mindset that robbing banks is morally wrong and horrible conduct, yet you have lived with thieves? Because it was a nice room…………….
Regardless it’s your life, live it the way you want to, but you should have some more respect for your fellow posters on this board, any try not to imply and set generalizations about their girlfriends, fiancés or wives. We can make general comments and warn people about hazards out there, but when a man says he is planning to marry or is involved with someone; it is because he determined this is the correct person for him WHO ARE YOU TO DOUBT HER MOTIVATIONS? WHO ARE YOU TO INSULT OR IMPLY BECAUSE OF HER AGE SHE HAS NOTHING INTELLIGENT TO SAY? WHO ARE YOU TO SAY SHE THINKS SUN SHINES OUT OF HER ASS? WHO ARE YOU TO IMPLY SHE WANTS A FREE RIDE.
You took information I made in other posts about my relationship and threw general comment to imply something, you DID NOT HAVE THE BALLS to just come out and say.
Dennis levy you are nobody to lecture about class…………………
Since you do not want this to end
What else you got?
 

[fathertime]

  That's it zon, run away and hide behind your bodyguards like a frightened school girl.I don't doubt that you are not so bold in public.

   Researcher

Careful Researcher, don't make old Mr Pointy Elbow angry he might have his coterie of bodyguards chase you down and stuff his pointy elbow in your mouth.  I find it interesting how Zon tried so hard to protect his soiled reputation, when he said countless times he couldn't care less about it and how useless PL is for advertising and recruiting. 


Fathertime!

[dennislevy]

maritime04

Well respectfully, I think you re ruinning out  of both gas...and logic at the same time.

Thank you for the apology....


Yes, i ve got some years on you...so I do know what buttons to push...but when I referred to spilling testosterone and huffing and puffing, beleive me it was only in the context of you of you saying that I was lucky that we were thousands of miles apart or you owuld severely beat me....

That s just worthless, those silly Internet threats are a waste of words and time.
 
As for beiing protective of your girl..absolutely you ahve every right do that...if I had insulted YOUR girl.........
Ive got lots of faults...I can be argumentative....many women think I cut them too fast, especially on the Internet.....but I don  t believe Im arrogant, certainly not in the latino sense of arrogante. 

I ve got strong opinions, based on my experiences in Colombia.  I try almost ALWAYS to post on stuff that I know.

As for being hYpocritical..that s pretty amusing, almost everyone is in some sense, I ve met maybe 6 people in my life who I thought had very little hypocrisy.....

But, I m not sure if you think my hypocrisy is because I ve stayed at a hostal (because I like the room) but the owner has a different dating philosopy then I do?  So to be spending lodging pesos with him, I am consorting with thieves....or aproving of his dating choices? 

If that s what you are saying, THERE IS NO LOGIC IN THAT!!!!  Its precisely because I liked the room and what the owner does with his personal life is up to him...is why I have stayed there!

I dont DETEST men (again you are  rampng up the voltage with your ramping up of verbs, second time you ve done it) who use prepagos, i said men who did it turned me off, thats a far cry fom DETEST.......... and remember you came on the forum and said you had used prepagos....no one squeezed that tidbit of information out of you.

 As for the comment that I didnt have the balls to say.....Im not sure what youre getting at....

YOU said that YOU didnt speak to the Colombian side of your family because YOU felt that they had taken advantage of your parents ...Correct? i 

And YOU made my point....those kinds of behavior are among the reasons why I dont have much use for most Colombian men...I always  felt as if they were tying to figure out how many pesos they could relieve me of...without actually doing much of anything to earn it. 


Now is that CLEAR ENOUGH FOR YOU OR DO I NEED BIGGER BALLS?   

I NEVER judged your girlfriend.....I carefully exempted her from my comments about MOST 20 year chicas.. .

As for 20 year old chicas expecting a free ride...(because its commensurate with their stage in life)...........yes, I think thats fair.    If a 20 year old colombiana puts 200,000 on the table in front of her foreigner and says, honey thats for us............

you be sure to let me know.....

Now, I ve never dated a 20 year old girl..but I ve sat at tables in cafes in Parque Lleras, in the mall at Oviedo, in Plazo Santo Domingo in Cartagena, at the food court in Chipichape in Cali...and countless cafes and restaurants in Bogota, I ve listened to young chicas talk....so I ve formed opinions...

And again that specifcially excludes your girlfriend.

GO BACK AND REREAD MY POSTS....I NEVER SAID ANTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT YOUR GIRL S MOTIVATION OR HER CHARACTER OR HER INTELLIGENCE....

WHAT I DID IMPLY IS THAT IF YOUR GIRL IS THE RARE JEWEL FOR HER AGE I CONGRATULATE YOU: 

SO............... GET MARRIED, HAVE LOTS OF KIDS...BE HAPPY.

Have a good day

Dennis
 

[maritime04]

Round and round we go
 
Ok, well Dennis you seem to think I am all HOT AIR, ill pay for your flight to Medellin, and even pick you up at the airport, YOU DOWN? Yes or no Dennis, just tell me where to send the tickets.............
 
Dennis you implied allot of stuff, you’re an adult you know what you were trying to say, and I will put it to anyone on this board what context I should have taken what you wrote. Now you’re trying to sneak your way out of it. You could just say things got carried away, I was offended by your comment, and apologize for the remarks, but your EGO problem will not let you.
 
Again you take information from other posts twist it to prove a point; I never answered your question about my family from Barranquilla. And guess what WRONG AGAIN. My uncle the father of my family in Colombia, died working as a trash collector in south Florida from cancer, This happened in 87, so I was 7 years old and I do not remember much, but what I do remember was him waking up at 3am every morning to go to work to provide for his family.
 
Dennis my low opinion of you comes from things like this; you take personal stuff or make it up to prove a point on the internet, like its sooooooo important. DUDE GET A LIFE! If I insulted you that’s one thing, but some of the stuff you say at the expense of what???
 
Dennis how about you go over your own posts, and not just here but “gringos” and other forums where you made your opinions of Colombian men. What conclusion should I come up with to describe your views about Colombian Guys? Again Dennis my opinion if you say I am wrong then I am wrong. BIG DEAL…………………..
 
I have my own opinions about older Colombian women, from my family and my gals family and the many years I have lived here, but if I were to start giving those opinions to you right now, it would be because I wanted to imply something, not because I want to say “ooooh well dennis you’ve found the only really good women in Colombia” “ all those things I have said are about the other older women in Colombia” GET REAL DUDE, I do not buy that crap!!!
 
Dennis I could easily prove my age (30) to you with passport photos, copies of my licenses, and merchant marine credentials, and an e-mail from people we both know, BUT I DO NOT CARE ENOUGH TO WIN A STUPID VICTORY ON THE INTERNET!!!! Apparently you do…………
 
You are a hypocrite because you self-riotously attack and imply insults about people who tell the truth about their girlfriend’s age, or whether they have used “prepagos”, IF ANY ONE WANTS TO COME TO DENNIS DEFENSE LET THEM SPEAK………….And yet you stayed with someone who does both, and recommend to people to stay with him. Listen Dennis morals are not just on the internet forums, actions speak louder than words, you had your chance to state your opinions about men who pay for their girlfriends, in person to someone who lived that lifestyle and you did nothing because it was a nice room, but you HAVE THE BALLS HERE to give [snip] to us…………….. That says a lot about you
 
Like I told you before Dennis the only problem I had with you was the insults, the rest is opinion and debate, logic is relative but wind I’ve got plenty of, at least for 19 days……………………………….. I would rather have conversation then toss stupid comments back and forth, but whatever it is you want
 

[Alabamaboy!]

I have been pretty busy these days, but I have noticed Dennis that you do seem to write some stupid things sometimes....such as regarding the motivation of a younger woman with an older guy. You clearly say some of those things directed at the person, but you will usually slip in a statement like "I NEVER judged YOUR girlfriend.....I carefully exempted her from my comments about MOST 20 year chicas.. "  You know what you meant with comments like that, but you want to hide behind some carefully crafted  sentences to technically "protect" yourself. But who is so dumb as to not know what you mean?

When you made the stupid remark questioning about the age difference between my gal and myself on another thread, then have the audacity to write something like, "no man, I was not saying it had anything to do with YOUR situation, I was just wondering in general, blah, blah, blah". That just makes you look bad. It would be better if you just say what's on your mind and get it out on the table instead of pussy footing around and playing games.

I really like a lot of the things you write though. I think you contribute a lot to the forum. I just noticed that this thing kind of keeps happening though, and I think that if you really wanted to people to take your stories and wisdom seriously it would be a lot easier to if you were not shanking people with veiled digs like you do at times.

Oh, and you are dating in the 35 and over age group. So man, don't get so high on yourself because a crack head hobo from downtown could have a full dance card in Colombia dating in that age group. Educated or not. There is absolutely no skill or "game" required to date all you want if that is what you are looking for. The only variable to be worked out there is to pull the trigger and commit to a serious relationship with one. Even if you don't marry her, but just have a couple year relationship. Because I know the odds have to be pretty good to find some great candidates after living there so long. So like you yourself have said, you are not really that interested in a long term relationship or marriage at this point in your life. So the serious relationship type advice and such that you dish out here is not so valid because you are not even in the "game". You are completely outside the arena that the rest of us are thinking in. But I do enjoy your information regarding the day to day life in Colombia and some of the cultural stuff.

[Alabamaboy!]

But I want to be clear that I am all for freedom of speech. And everyone should be able to say what they want. We all should be given the equal opportunity to make fools out of ourselves when we feel the urge? Why not? This forum is not real life. It is just an anonymous forum. And if someone wants to let off some steam or whatever, cool. 

[dennislevy]

Maritime 04


Am i down?


Yes!


THANK YOU for  flying me to Medellin, that is exceedling thoughful of you!


Since you re a merchant mariner and you said you were arriving in three weeks, that puts tou nto Medellin around August 1. I am sure you ll want to be with your girl  for a while...without any interruptions  so why dont we say anytime during the second or third week of August?


You pick the date and the flight and your offer to pick me up at Rionegro is gratefully accpeted. wherther you want to buy a refundable ticket is up to you.....


1 way Quito to Medellin or Quito to Bogota to Medellin,,,watever you want to do is fine wth me!.  But I  would not dream of imposing on you for a round trip ticket.


The name on the ticvket should be Dennis levy


You can send the E ticket dennisianlevy@yahoo.com or if you want to do a hard ticket


 DHL Courier service  to


Dennis Levy
Hotel Lumara
Calle Sucre entre Rocafuertre y Pinchacha
Tulcan Equador
phone number 2980402 or 2987137


The courier service usually takes 10 days, so if that is the option you choose, please keep me posted!


Thanks again!


Have a great day!


Dennis

[Tanuki]

I know you guys make it sound like it is lawless down there but, Maritime.  I would think the police would not have a problem putting a gringo in the cage for assaulting and elderly man in the airport.  And; down there, I am sure the local jail would be comparable as being locked up with harden criminals in a US supermax penitentiary. 
 
While it is foolish of Dennis to tempt you, I would think you would want to be the better man and take the offer off the table.  No matter how much bravado is being thrown around this board as of late, I would think most men here would rather spend their time with one arm wrapped around a nice honey.  And, the other arm should be used for tipping a nice cold beer or whatever drink they choose.
 
Enjoy your trip, enjoy your time with your girl and don't worry about Dennis.  He will always be here but you, who knows?  Once you get married you may forget about this board.  You'll be busy with a family and not have time for it.  Dennis on the other hand will need time to kill in batween dates and this will always be a potential outlet to kill time and muse readership with his thoughts.
 
Good day!