Waiting 5 years for Divorce

[stefang]

... in response to Waiting 5 years for Divorce, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

Peter you didn't change your name frome "The Walker" did you?

[Dave H]

... in response to Waiting 5 years for Divorce, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

Hi Peter,

Where do you find these women? The best advice I can offer is to call Jerry Springer. He may fly her over for the show. Then she can persue her husband and obtain a divorce and child support. Life is stranger than fiction!

Dave H.

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Damn!!!, posted by Dave H on Apr 15, 2003

Damn, i found them in filipinaheart if you care to check it.  On their chat line and transfered to yahoo chat.  It was a sad story of how she spent years and her savings to find her abandaning husbad and call him.
It shows the weakpoint of the system and how helpless the women are once they are back in the Philippines even if married. Relax guys i am still single
Jerry wouldn't want srories where the audiance cries anyway.
I bet this is a true story repeated many more times.  No one has checked how many casses like this are out there.  You can't blame them all on the women.

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Damn!!!, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 16, 2003

Hi Peter,

I will pass on Filipinaheart! I don't know any Filipinas who have money in savings, so she must be one of the fortunate few. Well, at least she had enough money left to post her story and chat on the Internet. It seems like she has found the 'weakpoint' in American men...

Dave H.

[Jeff S]

... in response to Waiting 5 years for Divorce, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

Someone needs to smack you back to reality. First go read Dr. Laura's book, "The Ten Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives."  Then go find yourself a happy, secure, SIMPLE girl with good morals who would do anything you asked, except you can't think of anythng you want to ask, since she's already anticipated everything you can imagine, then treat her exactly the same way. THAT's the way it's supposed to work.

Quit trying to rescue damsels in distress! That's the stuff fairy tales are made of, not real life.

That or take Ray's advice and start carrying a picture of your right hand around in your wallet.

Sorry about being so blunt.

- Jeff

[Peter Lee]

... in response to PETER.!!!!, posted by Jeff S on Apr 15, 2003

I didn't get the part about "start carrying a picture of your right hand around in your wallet."  

Please explain dat?

Otherwise it was good advice, thanks.

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: PETER.!!!!, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

It's an old Woodie Allen joke. All of his friends in high school bragged about the sex they were having with their girlfriends who they carried pictures of in their wallets. Since he couldn't get a date...

- Jeff

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Re: Re: PETER.!!!!, posted by Jeff S on Apr 15, 2003

NOW DATS FUNNY
I GET IT
HAHAHAHA

[Ray]

... in response to Waiting 5 years for Divorce, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

ROTFLMAO!

Peter, why don't you hire an attorney for her, contact her husband, and tell him you will pay for everything if he signs the documents. She will have to waive all rights to spousal support and child support (if that's possible). Even then, the guy will probably just laugh at you. As long as she is in the Phils, he gets to keep his money.

She will have to find some dumb-ass sucker to bail her out of her legal problems or she will be waiting a lot longer to come over here. The kid can’t petition mommy until he is 21, not 18.

Quit listening to these silly-ass sob stories and buy yourself a blow-up doll and a jar of Vaseline. You’ll save a ton of money that way! :-)

Ray

[Dave H]

... in response to Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Ray on Apr 15, 2003

Hey Ray,

I like to suggest the 'Ron Jeremy' model blow-up doll. Just bend over and take 12 inches up the ol' wazooo! =8oO

Dave H.

[Peter Lee]

... in response to A Suggestion..., posted by Dave H on Apr 15, 2003


Is dat why the vaseline??? LOL

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: A Suggestion..., posted by Peter Lee on Apr 16, 2003

OUCH!!!

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Ray on Apr 15, 2003


Thanks for the info on stranded in the PI.

I am not personally involved with her and have no intentions of doing so.   But it was a lesson for any readers for what can happen with this poor guy no 1 who pulled the papers for fiancé visa.  Here is a case of after the fact and the ended result when things go bad.  Guy no 2 must have had second thoughts about the marriage after she went back to the PI.  But remember I ask last week about what happens if you bring her over with a fiancé visa and she runs away.  I was told she could stay here any way.  This one didn't and she paid for her mistake.  
It seems that if you marry in the PI and later have second thoughts and change your mind about bringing her to the USA she would be stranded in that case also.   It seemed when I was in the Consulate in Cebu there was a lot of stranded ladies with all kinds of stories to tell.   They were married and could not come over without hubby processing the spousal paper work.  Have you found that to be true?  I know that knowledge is power and so far it has kept me out of trouble.

I love listening to those silly ass sob stories coz it is real life and mistakes that changed and affected lives.

About the blow up doll, I would appreciate a web address to find a nice one.  Since you seem to have knowledge of these kinds of things you could lead me in the right direction. Directions on how you use it in detail would be held with trembling anticipation. I wasn't to sure what to do with the Vaseline but I can get it at any drug store.  It would be interesting on how much money you have saved with this system.  I could use a ton of money! lol

There is a powerful gift that only we humans possess and that is that we can say "what if" it can get us out of a lot of jams.  

Hey Ray!!!  Thanks for your input

[Alvin1]

... in response to Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

My wife has a friend that married an American from the RP December 1998 in a big marriage ceremony.  She is still waiting on him to process the paperwork.  He always has a new excuse about his status.  He has not seen her since the honeymoon.  He still supports her so maybe it is financial and hopefully things will work out for them.  She is really quite a nice young lady that has kept the faith until....

Good luck in your quest.  Jean started posting her site again today, look at it and see what you think.

Alvin

[Alvin1]

... in response to Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

My wife has a friend that married an American from the RP December 1998 in a big marriage ceremony.  She is still waiting on him to process the paperwork.  He always has a new excuse about his status.  He has not seen her since the honeymoon.  He still supports her so maybe it is financial and hopefully things will work out for them.  She is really quite a nice young lady that has kept the faith until....

Good luck in your quest.  Jean started posting her site again today, look at it and see what you think.

Alvin