Waiting 5 years for Divorce

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

[This message has been edited by Ray]

Peter, you’re a sucker for a sob story and I think you got suckered with this one. Her story just doesn’t hold up.

First, if she came here on a fiancee visa, she must marry the petitioner within 90 days or leave the country immediately. If she doesn’t marry and stays, she is ILLEGAL. If she marries someone else and stays, she is ILLEGAL. She knew if she left the country she wouldn’t be able to get back in because she was ILLEGAL.

Of course we can never know the whole truth from hearing one side, but I think she’s telling you a fake sob story. Here’s another more plausible version to consider.

Stranded Girl falls in love with Guy-1, but Guy-1 is a cheap ass and won’t bother to file for a visa and marry her. All Guy-1 wants is to get into her young hot panties. She tries to think of a way to get a visa so she can go visit Guy-1. She is turned down for a visitor visa 3 times.

Then she meets Guy-2 on line and Guy-2 falls head-over-penis for her. He flies to the Phils, gets a whiff of her scent, and proposes. Guy-2 files for a fiancee visa and she flies in to meet him. After a few hours with Guy-2, she phones Guy-1 and tells him her panties are all wet and she can’t wait to see him. Since Guy-1 lives across town, he beats ass over there and swoops her away.

Guy-1 cannot resist her charms so he finally marries her. When they try to file for AOS, she is told that there is no way that she will be allowed to stay after marrying the wrong guy on a fiancee visa. Stranded Girl stays anyway (ILLEGALLY) and eventually gets knocked up by Guy-1 and has a baby. Guy-1 gets tired of her crap and kicks her out. She gets picked up and turned over to INS because her visa has long expired. They deport her ass back to the Phils.

Now Stranded Girl is stuck. How can she ever get back to the States. Guy-2 ain’t gona bring her back here because she will divorce his ass and take everything he owns, even the vacuum cleaner. Then she meets Peter on-line. She tells Peter a real sad story and tries to sucker him into helping her. If only she can find some sucker to pay for her divorce, then Guy-3, who she has been corresponding with, will marry her and bring her back to America. Fortunately for Peter, the guys at P-L beat him over the head and he wakes up.

Ray

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Re: Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Ray on Apr 17, 2003

Hey Ray i woke up with all these lumps on my head lol.

I like your story better, especially about the hot panties.

I knew that when she jumped ship and married someone other than the name on her fiance visa she was in trouble.

I get this feeling that anyone who would visit her may get more than just holding hands in da mall lol

[joemc]

... in response to Re: Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Ray on Apr 17, 2003

Hi Ray,
     I am glad we have a guy like you on this board,
     help me Dr. Ray I am falling.

                                        joemc  Dr.Ruth

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Ray on Apr 17, 2003

but I think you're awfuly close to the truth, Ray

......and then Stranded Girl says to Peter "Hello, sailor, maybe you like help nice girl who has problem?" Only this time, Peter's been on liberty in that port once before and now he knows the score (we hope).

[Peter Lee]

... in response to We'll probably never know for sure....., posted by Michael B on Apr 17, 2003

Libery, Port, score??

When i send her money should it be Western Union?? LOL

[Ray]

... in response to We'll probably never know for sure....., posted by Michael B on Apr 17, 2003

But Peter wasn't a sailor, he was in the Air Farce.

The proper line would be something like: "Hey fly boy, you need air-start?" :-)

Ray

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Re: We'll probably never know for sure....., posted by Ray on Apr 17, 2003


Just for the record ! !
I was also in the 173rd Airborn Brigade as a hanky popper.  Had my hanky popped a few times.

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Peter Lee on Apr 15, 2003

Hi Peter,

You had me worried! I thought you might be jumping from the frying pan into the fire. ;o)))

There are men in Western countries that are married or engaged to Filipinas that have no desire or intention of bringing them over, for various reasons...planning to retire soon in the Philippines, divorce and child custody laws that favor women, girlfriend or wife in home country, not wanting her to become 'Americanized'... I know of an American lawyer (East Coast - not Stephen) ;o)) who I am certain is playing a game with his Filipina "fiancee" and his child. He said it is too expensive () to pursue a spousal or fiancee visa and that he will retire and live in the Philippines in 5 years or so. He has made regular trips (I suspect 'business trips')every few months, over the past few years to visit them. (seems more expensive to me)

Dave H.

[Peter Lee]

... in response to It Happens..., posted by Dave H on Apr 15, 2003


I can't imagine sitting in dat seat on Philippine Airline for over 20 hours just to get some.  But with the laws favoring women in the USA he must think so.  I am close to retirement age and thinking of retireing there myself.  Options options options

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: It Happens..., posted by Peter Lee on Apr 16, 2003

Hi Peter,

A nice cheap, relaxing, tropical vacation out of NYC every few months and some loyal, hot, young putang waiting as you get off the plane...it helps those PAL flights go smoothly. Especially when you're flying First Class and hanging out in the Mabuhay Lounge. Much better than hanging out in the US with the nagging 'old lady.'

Dave H.

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Not So Bad..., posted by Dave H on Apr 16, 2003

So should i try it?

Some of em can't even get married coz they cant get a divorce.

They can't get to the US either!

might be better that the blowup doll LOL

[SteveB]

... in response to Stranded in the Philippines?, posted by Ray on Apr 15, 2003

Your advise sounded like a new tv show to me???lol Maybe it could be filmed in PI and USA, then you can have excuse to travel more often??  Peter lee does sound like a scammer magnet???

Steveb

[Mita]

... in response to Dr. Ray?, posted by SteveB on Apr 15, 2003

That is not a bad idea!  we can collate the weirdest stories adn come up with a great comedy....the film "American Adobo" was a success in the Philippines and Filipino communities...why not another one?

[Peter Lee]

... in response to Dr. Ray?, posted by SteveB on Apr 15, 2003

Peter lee does sound like a scammer magnet???

Well maybe i am, and maybe i am looking for what red flags look like and how they originate.  

Maybe I am gaining knowledge for future problems.

Maybe I want to see what happens in the worst cases and what was done about it.

Maybe I realize for me to make decissions that can change my whole life the more knowledge the better.

The old Russian saying trust but varify is what got me to find out just how simple my gf was.

With this boards advice I found out things I would not have found out till to late.

Many have gone though what I have and will never post it.

Now if we could find a producer???

[Ray]

... in response to Dr. Ray?, posted by SteveB on Apr 15, 2003

Sounds good to me (ROTFFLMAOTNTPIMGDP!)

Do you want to be my manager?

Ray