Need advice

[Charles]

... in response to Re: Need advice, posted by Ryan on Mar 11, 2002

Ryan, I am ashamed of you.  You have been making a real effort to improve your thought process which has been most welcome, and then, out of the blue, another innane post demonstrating your to take or repeat a course in Maturity 101.  I agree with all of the comments expressed in the earlier posts and, if you are a gentlemen, you owe this lady an apology.

[Natalya]

... in response to Re: Need advice, posted by Ryan on Mar 11, 2002

Ryan, go and find AW who won't be all ME ME ME...I'm sure many of them around ...Because if you don't like what you see about RW then how about RW  surely don't care for guys with attitude like yours.

[Stevo]

... in response to Re: Need advice, posted by Ryan on Mar 11, 2002

You can't compare the situations at all.  If you think it's too expensive, then don't bother with RW.

Tootsie is not complaining...just telling it like it is for RW.  What do you think, that RW have the same financial wherewithall as AM?  Better think again.  Tootsie should expect the AM to pay, if you think otherwise you are very naive and immature.

Stevo

[greg2]

... in response to Re: Need advice, posted by Ryan on Mar 11, 2002

Where do you come from talking to this lady like this. You do not know her at all. You have got a hair up your buttt and now can only see things one way - like you have this incredible revelation.

I know this lady. She is not a me me me person. She has contributed to this board many times in the past and shared with men what she knows about Russian women and has been appreciated like every sincere Russian woman who has come here.

I have also personally met this lady. She helped me greatly while I was in Moscow and it was not about ME ME for her. I paid her very little and she drove me all around Moscow and to its outskirts.  She was always available and I could trust that this lady would be there for me when I needed her.  She really would never accept anything except enough to cover her expenses. ME ME - no way.

Now, she is attempting to come back and you only seek to drive her away. You do not start out by attacking, you start out by asking questions.

Ryan, why do you think she is talking about money? You claim it is ME ME attitude. She is only relaying the truth about financial limitations. Her point is that either if it is her or the man that puts money into a meeting, the money can be lost without any results for either party.

She also is telling you that she can not afford to come to the USA if she foots the bill herself - but perhaps one time, and if it fails there is not a second chance with this approach for some time.

She is talking to you about realities of economics for her. She is talking to you about a dilemma and trying to sort it out. She asked for your advice. She is not telling you ME ME.

You know Ryan, I do not think that you should be involved in this process until you quit being so reactionary and until you can appreciate what these women have to deal with.

Ryan, you have actually turned this whole thing on yourself. It is you that is saying ME ME ME not the honest women. You are not being understanding of the woman's situation. It is all about your situation  and thus Ryan - it is you that is all about yourself  and again it is you that is displaying a ME ME ME ME attitude.

Now I know you have read this all wrong with this lady. You have simply made a horse's Asss out of yourself.

Now you apologize to this lady or you will never ever get the benefit of the doubt from me on anything. I will be your worst LP nightmare from today onward if you do not apologize to this lady.

[LP]

... in response to Your head is up your______ Ryan, posted by greg2 on Mar 11, 2002

....I'll take that as a compliment, I *think*. -smile-

The truth is, *I'll* be his worst LP nightmare from today on if he doesn't apologise. After his comment to Barry, his "last post, I promise" crap below and now this, he needs to be whacked upside the head by the real McCoy.

Ryan, whats wrong with you boy? Unlike Tootsie, you haven't offered us a whole lot during your tenure here and now you're taking potshots at her?? Listen clown, like Greg and others, I personally know this lady and you only *wish* you could find someone as classy. Lucky for her kind it'll never happen in your wildest dreams because you haven't a clue as how to treat a real lady, so stop being a frigging weenie for once.

Didn't it even occur to you she may be recovering from her situation and needs even more consideration than a real gentleman would typically afford her? Whatsamatter, forget how you felt when you yourself screwed the pooch? In fact, weren't you just whining about your lack of success in a post below?

Do you always kick people when they may be down? Do you always talk to women from the very culture you're pursuing in this manner? Do you always ask advice of others but offer these pearls of wisdom in return? No *wonder* you be pissin in the wind during your pursuit. You be starting to annoy me boy, and I usually have a fairly thick skin when it comes to morons like you.

A "Me" personality? Thats the *last* thing Tootsie is, and if you knew her you'd see what a stupid statement that really was. Grrr, forget it. I'd rag on you a whole lot more but your history shows it'd do no good anyway. Besides, Greg said it all better than I could, so just apologise and be done with it or some here are gonna run you outta town on a rail.

Just do it. Be a man, for once, or its gonna be you and me on the equivalent of a dusty street at high noon.

[thesearch]

... in response to lol, Thanks Doc,...., posted by LP on Mar 11, 2002

sdf

[hockeybrain]

... in response to Need advice, posted by Tootsie on Mar 11, 2002

I suggest you post yourself on free sites as well as go to the big tour parties as well as belonging to a good local agency that does not charge you anything.  See what responses come in and email the guys you are interested in yourself.  The more exposure you get the better.