... in response to Brazil Trip - Salvador (2), posted by Brazilophile on Jun 15, 2004[This message has been edited by Cali James]
You're not thinking clearly Brazilophile, this woman has no value system. She tells you she's religious but her words to you indicate she's lacking in principles and character. Run away from this situation, you can do much much better. A person of integrity wouldn't meet other guys on the side while they have a boyfriend in waiting. Her "out of curiosity" meeting with you is much more likely a excercise in shopping the field (i.e looking for better offers).
A lot of really bad people hide behind religion to disguise their true self and intentions. You got a good glimpse of her true character when she told you she was more or less willing to marry anyone to get out of her situation. This is not a person who believes in things sacred. This is an opportunist willing to play with people's feelings, love, and emotions to get what she wants. Don't entertain any thoughts of this woman, she's bad news. Ask yourself truthfully, why you'd be willing to settle for something that has "disaster" written all over it and is so obvious to see.
P.S. There are "evangelical" like movements within Catholicism. I happened upon a "charasmatic" Mass one time and promised I'd never ever return as it appeared too much like an evangelical Protestant service for my liking.
