Honduras agency, a go or a no-go??

[pack]

... in response to Kids = prison:-(, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 24, 2002

for some people life begins when you have kids.

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: Kids = prison:-(, posted by pack on Aug 24, 2002

yes you are right.
But I am not one of those people.

HC.

[Pete E]

... in response to Kids = prison:-(, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 24, 2002

From my experience browsing the books of Cali agencies most girls 25- do not have kids.I think other places like DR where I think you are dealing with girls from a lower class they probably are much more likely to have kids.
Most Latina(seems like 99%) do want kids.You better have an understanding with them about it up front.Maybe is just going to cause you problems down the line unless you meet one who trully doesn't care about having kids.If you marry a 25 year old,agree to wait 5 years and then you decide no you are probably going to have one unhappy wife.These women will really start to feel the have kids pressure at 30.
If you trully don't want kids you are probably better off with an older more proffesional woman who has come to terms with that.Bogota is probably your best bet.
For me it was easier accepting a 8 year old step son than dealing with babies or an unhappy wife in the future.He is 11 now and will be in college in 7 years.He is really not a problem and I got a real winner in his mother.
But I understand,kids are an obligation and a limitation and a big expense.If you don't want them it may be a major reason to pass on the best opportunity out there in my opinion,latin women.
You may want to consider your other options.Russian women probably don't care much about kids,but I think are a very bad bet and bad news  in general.Your best option might be a woman from the US,you are young,you can probably do OK,but you are not likely to get the really beautifull woman you can get in Colombia.
You need to really think this through.It could be big future trouble with a latina.

Pete

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: Kids = prison:-(, posted by Pete E on Aug 24, 2002

Pete,
trust me I've been through this.
I want a kid (just one) BUT not now!! And NOT becaue I love em (hell no) but because that I probably wont get any latina hooked here.

Tell you a little story.Suppose that a guy married with a latina chick. They settle to get kids in 5-6 years.Guess what happened....the chica all of a sudden got pregnant after 15 months (after they married)...nice huh.
Later on she told him that she "forget" to take the pill,because she found out that she didn't want to wait 5 years for a kid.
I know I read this story somewere on the net,sorry but I don't know were that was.

So what is a promise worth given by a latina woman??
Does this happen a lot?? What do guys do?? Demand an abortion or just stay with her?

Apparently Latinas are looking something different then gringos.
I am looking for a lifepartner,not to become a male kindergarten teacher.

HC.

PS: don't even start with Ruskies....:-( They s*ck! They absolutely have no morals whatever. only in it for the $$$$,nothing else.

[Pete E]

... in response to Latina tricks..??, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 25, 2002

You are dealing with lainas.They want kids.Thery might"accidentally" get pregnant if thats their real desire.
Abortions are out with 99%+ of latinas,forget that option.
You really need to have an understanding with the woman you hook up with.Your "maybe a kid"thoughts are at odds with almost all latinas desires.Better make sure you don'y just coerce a woman in to you way of thinking just to find out thats not the way she really feels.

Pete

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: women with kids...a no-go area for m..., posted by Pete E on Aug 24, 2002

Pete,

I understand.
But when you make a baby with a woman, it is YOUR kid...ok!!

I didn't look for age....the last crazy girl they hook me up with was 32 and also nagging on me to get kids real fast.
Scr#w that.....mayor downer.

I want  a kid too....BUT NOT NOW!!!!!
Do they think I will make em pregnant when they step off the plane...LOL.

I learned my lesson before....women with kids are most likel;y MORE difficult to handle and will cost even MORE $$$$$...:-(

25-30 yo is my range.NO KIDS.

HC.

[beattledog]

... in response to women with kids...a no-go area for me., posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 23, 2002

If the woman was widowed by a tragic accident and she had children, would you still not accept them?  It is not her fault that her spouse had passed away unexpectedly

Beattledog

[Bueller]

... in response to Re: women with kids...a no-go area for m..., posted by beattledog on Aug 23, 2002

Beattledog, first off, feel free not to take this guy too seriously. He's just the latest incarnation of Erik van Zwier, aka a few other things. Try "holandésmolestoso" instead of "hombrecaliente".

I'd cut divorced women/ women with children a lot more slack in LA than in the US. In the US the bias of the laws against men creates a perverse incentive for women to get what I call "ka-CHING" divorces, where Dad rarely gets to see the kids but has to pay the bills for them anyway. In LA the women have a much rougher go of it and would only get out of a marriage if it were really bad. Personally, I'd be just fine raising children that don't carry my genetic code, with certain conditions, e.g. we are a family *unity*, and there is no "you can't spank my kid", etc.

  I did hear an excellent point, though, from a guy who refuses to date women with children. When a woman confronts him about this and tells him he is selfish for not being willing to raise another man's child, his response is, "is the child yours biologically, or did you adopt him from among the thousands now in foster care?" He says it stops them dead in their tracks. Good point, and since hearing about that I have made it a point one way or the other to find out how a woman feels about adoption. Reproducing one's own genes is not at all an unselfish act.

  I really admire Larry Summers (you may have heard of him through LWL), who has taken on a couple of stepkids and has effectively made them his own children through thoughtful, sustained effort, as opposed to the nearly effortless contribution their so-called "real" father made one time to their lives. I'd be careful about just what kind of family situation I got involved in, but children are people and have more value than just passing on our genes and helping us "live forever".

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: Re: women with kids...a no-go area f..., posted by Bueller on Aug 24, 2002

Dude.

some body allready warned me about some dudes here on this board because they were into flamming bigtime.
Guess they are right:-(

are you just p-o-ed because I don't want a brasilian life mate???
Get a life dude,before you harras other people.

HC.

btw you are talking a lot of cr@p Bueller.
And if somebody wants to take me serious it's up to them and NOT you to decide.

[Bueller]

... in response to Bueller is talking cr@p., posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 24, 2002

I have a really high regard for brasileiras, which is why I beat the drum for them and why I'd be glad to see the likes of you stay away from them.

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Peter Hoekstra is b@ck, posted by Bueller on Aug 24, 2002

yes you are right....you can beat your drum till the cows come home buddy!!
They are pretty..I admit,but they are also very very playfull and hardly the marrying kind. But that's MY opinion.

btw who is Peter Hoekstra?? A friend of yours?

HC.

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: women with kids...a no-go area for m..., posted by beattledog on Aug 23, 2002

Beattledog,

NO. It has nothing to do with divorce or widow.
The kids are not mine....that's the point. I will not (reapeat: will NOT) take care of kids which are NOT biologically mine. period.

Sorry man...been there before and never want to try agan:-(
Women with kids imho are FAR more difficult to handle then women without kids.

That's my opinion. Hope you respect that.

HC.

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to How much time do you have?, posted by Pete E on Aug 22, 2002

Pete,

I just like a relaxed holiday as well....swimming...some diving..beachlife well you get the picture.etc.etc.
I think (with all respect) that Colombia at THIS moment might not be such an relaxed place to go and look for a lady.
Cali? I don't know man....There are maybe TOO much agencies overthere If you know what I mean.
Bogota????nahhhh too many high prof. women,not my cup of tea.
Your arguments are true.....99% of the hondurenas do NOT speak english :-( Ineed they are a VERY poor people.
But like I said...I speak some spanish so I could manage at the basics there.
pretty??? mmmm Their looks are indeed less then Colombianas,I'll give you that. But I am NOT after a beauty contest miss you know..lol
THe inside for me is the most important thing. However I don't want to settle for a "5"....;-)

HC.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: How much time do you have?, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 23, 2002

You might want to consider Cartegena.You can have the beach,relative safety(much safer than most of Colombia)and still have much better odds than Honduras.Santa Masrta maybe,more beach,probably less women or at least agencies.Agencies are important because the women you can meet,not the total number is what is important.
About looking for a 5.Nobody I know is doing that.4's and 5's you don't need to travel for.There are some good 7's available in Colombia,and thats pretty good because I rate the young hot ones around 8.To put my rating system in perspective,there are no 10's.9's are extemely rare even in Colombia,most young movie actresses are 7-8.Bo Dereck was an 8.5 in her prime,not a 10.And a 7 is better than most guys over 40 will ever get here.Its a pyramid system,not linear.0ne woman in thousands are 9+.A 7 is better than 90% of them,so hard to come by,but do able in Colombia.
But numbers are confusing(and probably offensive to our female posters).I will just say if you interview a number of women who look good but not flashy in their photos you will discover some real winners.Just my opinion and experience.
But Honduras probably does fill the vacation requirements.It depends on how important finding a woman is in your plans.
Good luck.If you go report back.We hear little about Honduras.We used to have a guy post here called Honduran Bob but haven't heard from him in awhile.You might find imformation in the archives.

Pete

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: Re: How much time do you have?, posted by Pete E on Aug 23, 2002

Pete,

I don't know about honduras. In fact I am all doubts at this moment. The more I read this stuff the more I get lost...:-(

Cartagena?? Yes...I heard about the place. Seems like a good alternative.

Bo derek a 10??? jee...Even in her prime days (10-15 years ago) I thought she was not more then an " 7.5"....but that's my opinion. I don't like her noose.yuk.

I am not looking for young hot women as a life partner. They are good for fun,you know. Had plenty of doing those were I was trust me...
What I am looking for is a decent normal women aged 25-29,NO kids. Outside a 6.5-8 inside definately a 9....OO yes.

If I go anywere I will send tripreports.Or at least I will try. I know that on a holiday sometimes it's difficult to hang yourself 1-2 hours behind a computer,lol.

Allthough Honduras seems tempting enough,you are probably right. In Colombia are far more agencies and more women which are willing to live abroad.

HC.