One Girl on Three Sites!! ??

[Ken Power]

Hello gents

Does anyone know if agencies put member limitations on their ladies?  Are they allowed to belong to more than one agency at a time?  I ask because I have seen one girls  picture/bio. on "at least" three sites.  I admire her assertiveness, but it seems a little excessive.  Maybe I'm wrong.

Ken

[denvermike]

... in response to One Girl on Three Sites!! ??, posted by Ken Power on Dec 13, 2001

Hi Ken,

It just my opinion, she is doing the same thing you are, so what's wrong with that?  

Just keep in mind that all the girls have contacts with lots of guys through websites and email.  You would be a bit naive if you think that you are the only one that she is talking to.

Good luck
mike

[Pete E]

... in response to One Girl on Three Sites!! ??, posted by Ken Power on Dec 13, 2001

If I was one off these girls I would sign up for all free agencies.Why not get maximum exposure?On the other hand it is a sign of a somewhat sophisticated girl who might be more likely to be a user.I would just meet her and see what you think.Trust your intuition.Don´t let the little head take over.Remember for every horror story there are many red flags ignored.

Pete

Pete

[digital1942]

... in response to One Girl on Three Sites!! ??, posted by Ken Power on Dec 13, 2001


You definetly should worry, as this is a red flag for a scammer.  And if her first name is Ruby, she is a scammer.

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: One Girl on Three Sites!! ??, posted by digital1942 on Dec 14, 2001


Oh Yeah, Lotta credibility here.....NOT!!!!

[digital1942]

... in response to Just registered, first post....trashing ..., posted by Hoda on Dec 14, 2001

I have met her boyfriend a tall young Colombian.  She makes a living off of gullable American men.  Men who want to listen can check out these links.  As for you goofy - get lost!  

1.  All Colombian Girls

   Ruby Amparo   
   Fifth Gallery of Girls 25-30
          Code RB 1843

2.  Latin Best

   Here she calls herself Ruby Burbano.  Check Album #12

3.  Latin Euro  http://www.latineuro.com/CC14.shtml

   Ruby  Number C73

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Just registered, first post....trash..., posted by digital1942 on Dec 14, 2001


S.O.S....

You got goofed by a girl, so you think by trashing her without details makes your post/opinion valid. You probably were tossing dollars & got your feelings hurt. TOO DAYYUM BAADD!!!! When a man looks at more than one site or visits more than one agency, does that make him a PLAYER or a HO-STROLLER? You got the tasted slapped out of your mouth, so now you're pissed cause you got PLAYED...Ha-ha-ha!

Punks jump up, to get BEAT-DOWN!!! GOT MILK S.O.S.

[Jim L]

... in response to Re: Just registered, first post....trash..., posted by digital1942 on Dec 14, 2001


I have met this woman in Cali.  She introduced herself to me at a party at the old LL Crystal Palace in May 2000.  She also introduced me to another woman that was with her: Dorian, her hermana gemela, although they didn't seem to look much alike to me.

Later that evening she introduced me to her boyfriend and suggested the four of us go out to some clubs after the party, to which I politely declined.

The boyfriend was Mauricio from LL and I assume this is the "tall young Colombian" you are referring to. I saw her again this past April - again with Mauricio.

Beyond this I don't know much about her; what her angle is or if she even has one.  But the multiple names and the fact that she's even in the books if she's involved with a Colombian guy does raise some questions.

Can you provide any details?

[digital1942]

... in response to Re: Re: Just registered, first post....t..., posted by Jim L on Dec 14, 2001

You were wiser than me to turn her down.  I have been told that she is an old-timer that has been around for a long time and has taken men for mucho dinero.  I am sure she will continue to be successful since most guys when taken are embarrassed and go away quietly and certainly do not want to be subjected to the attacks, skepticism, and so forth that can be easily launched against them.  In any case, thinking men have enough information now decide for themselves.  I have since moved on.

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Just registered, first post...., posted by digital1942 on Dec 14, 2001

I met Ruby too at LL in May 2000. She was also hanging around this Maurico guy, who is about 6'1, light skinned, with hazzle eyes, with brownish blondish hair. Also, this guy is much younger than she is by about 5 years or a little more. However, it wasn't clear to me if they were going together, but she was just driving around with him in a used but sporty suv.

Personally, I would stay away from that group, even if it means staying away from the new LL.

Being honest,
Aaron

[Patrick]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Just registered, first post...., posted by digital1942 on Dec 14, 2001

We've had quite a few people come into the three message boards here making up stories.  Sometimes they register several user names and change the stories.  The usual operating mode is to register without any information listed in the their profile, then start immediately with negative posts.  I wouls assume most of these types are simply disgusted with the whole concept of marrying a woman overseas (i.e. "Mail order bride") and know very little about it.

The more detail a poster gives, both about himself and about what happened, the more believable negative stories become.  I'd suggest letting the guys know how it is she "took men for mucho dinero."  Did she get you to send her money?  If so, what kind of story did she use to do it? That's the kind of information that can help men to avoid the same mistakes.  

I realize that you're angry and probably are simply using the message board to vent, but please give something back for the opportunity of venting here by posting details so others might be better prepared to avoid this kind of thing.

[pack]

... in response to Detail, details, details, posted by Patrick on Dec 14, 2001

absolutely correct...we want to know about these kind of women...but you must give us the details...more info please!

[jesse]

... in response to Detail, details, details, posted by Patrick on Dec 14, 2001

The woman in question is Ruby.  She is well known by most who have visited Cali.  She is the girlfriend of Mauricio, who runs Latin Love/the new version of the Crystal Palace.

If you invite her out, she will need to bring a translator, who is also her boyfriend.  A few agencies know her scam and have removed her from the books, others may or may not know, and she is in all of those agencies, as well as a few address seller sites.

I have personally been at parties where she was at, where she came escorted with Mauricio.  I even saw him get mad and act like he wanted to fight when another Colombian male flirted with her. She is 30 and Mauricio is 20, so he's trying to keep a hold of his good thing.

At least one other guy has posted about his "date/adventure with her" and her "translator/boyfriend" and I know of one other American male who is too embarrassed to post about how he got taken.

[pack]

... in response to Re: Detail, details, details, posted by jesse on Dec 14, 2001

sounds like the boyfriend is involved also...doesnt lok good for LL?

[El Diablo]

... in response to Re: Re: Detail, details, details, posted by pack on Dec 14, 2001


I think everyone who has spent any time in Cali has run into the two sisters at one time or another.  My 1st trip in October of 1999, the two of them showed up at LL one night about 8 PM and managed to talk this American, mid 30's into taking them out to dinner.  The sister, not Ruby, had been showing up at LL at all hours trying to get this guy to show interest her.  He was clearly not interested but ended up accepting their invitation somewhat begrudgingly.  I was going to have dinner with my amiga and as things turned out we got dragged along with them.   It was funny, the sisters drove us to Rancho de Jonas in an SUV and when dinner was over they pulled up to a gas station and filled the ENTIRE tank despite having only driven a few kilometers.  Take a guess who paid!! lol  This particular encounter is not untypical of Cali it seems to me.  The other gringo wasn't interested in the gal yet it didn't stop him from making out with her!!  From my perspective, it's not clear who was using who.

As far as Mauricio is concerned, I've always liked him and found him to be trustworthy.  I used to drop in at LL a lot and I never saw any suspicious behavior from him.  I  believe he hooked up with Ruby some time while I was living in Cali.  They obviously met through LL and it seemed to me anyway to be kind of an on again off again relationship.  My impression is that it was not a very serious relationship, you know similar to ones we used to have when we were teenagers.  (At the time Mauricio was about 18 and she was probably mid twenties or so) Anyway to make a short story even longer,  I would see them together occasionly at LL however I don't remember there being anything clandestine or secretive about their dating.  I don't know anything about Ruby dating other guys but I wouldn't necessarily be surprised by it either.  Again I'm not at all convinced that going out with some gringos while dating Mauricio or between dating Mauricio is any worse than what many gringos do.  Just my opinion...

Anyway, I'm not convinced it does any good to identify a particular woman as a scammer.  Nine times out of ten in my opinion there is more to the story than meets the eye and a forum like this only shows one side.  I personally think it's better to help identify those things that might be red flags or things to watch out for when getting to know these girls.

A lot of these girls that aren't overly serious and are using guys and being used themselves aren't that difficult to identify.  I think it takes a bit of dating practice in Cali to do so however and perhaps this is where the problem lies.  

El Diablo