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Author Topic: Another letter writing success story !!!  (Read 3396 times)
Sol
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« on: August 05, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

Well, I returned from my trip to Bogota, where I met a VERY sweet, affectionate, traditional, pretty, passionate lady! And, I met her through letter writing! I'm not at all religious about what will work best for any individual; given my self awareness I find it very important to get a base level of intimacy via letters/phone before I jump on that plane. But, I also didn't wait too long; I went to see her two months into our letter writing.

There's a very nice chemistry between the two of us, her family is one I'd be very proud to call my own, and our values are VERY much aligned.

I have to cast my vote for learning Spanish. I'm pretty fluent, having been born in South America and being raised speaking Spanish with my parents and I found that with the shared language the two of us, in a three-day trip, were able to bond even deeper and have wonderful conversations we'd never be able to have without the shared language.

Another thought I had, some guys talk about wanting a "test drive" before marrying the lady. Well, if "test drive" means intercourse to you then I don't believe you need to go nearly that far to know if you'll be compatible in bed. From the very nice dancing, kissing, hugging, and fooling around (which she largely intiated) we did during my visit I have NO doubt that the passion is there. In fact, we stopped one day at the large bookstore in Unicentro and I bought her a tantra book which she has been reading, studying and embracing since I returned to the US. Tantra, for those of you who aren't familiar with it is the art of blending sexuality with spirituality. I've practiced it for a number of years and I'm delighted to meet a lady who's open enough to explore it. With a tantric orientation a couple can bond very deeply and experience tremendous pleasure together without necessarily having intercourse.

Well, I'm not a trip report kind of guy but if you have any questions I'll be happy to answer them.

Sol

p.s. The plan is for me to make several (longer) visits to cement the bonding even deeper and then to be married in December or January.

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muddslinger
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« Reply #1 on: August 05, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Another letter writing success story !!!, posted by Sol on Aug 5, 2001

hi sol, can you tell me a little about bogota, the climate, where to go, what to do, and not what to do ect
muddslinger68@nospam.com
thanks
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Sol
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« Reply #2 on: August 05, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Another letter writing success story..., posted by muddslinger on Aug 5, 2001

Hi Muddslinger,

I'll reply publically since others might be interested too.

I'm certainly not an expert in Bogota, having spent only three days there but here are a few thoughts. Most of these ideas are just common sense when traveling in a large unknown city where you'll stand out.

Don't take random taxis. Always have the hotel, restaurant, club, etc, call you a taxi. In particular, if you're finding yourself needing a taxi at the airport catch one in the area where the airport police regulates them. There'll be lots of people asking if you want a taxi. That's not safe. The best thing is to have someone you know, or someone sent by an agency or hotel, pick you up.

I'd never go anywhere without having a trusted local person tell you it's safe. In Bogota you won't get kidnapped but you might get robbed. That's the danger - street crime. One night I took my lady to a club to go dancing. We weren't sure which club we wanted to go to so we hired a taxi driver to take us to different places and wait outside for us while we danced. Then he took us back to the hotel. It cost me about $6/hour for this service, which was probably a bit steep, but it made us feel safe.

Consider that you might experience altitude sickness. I didn't but others have. I forget how high Bogota is but I think it's something like 9000'.

The climate varies. This time of year it's cold in the mornings and nights and warm during the day. Bogota, due to its altitude, definitely has a different climate than do the other major cities. A weather web-site like wunderground.com can give you short-term weather forecasts for Bogota.

I don't have a good sense of the neighborhoods in Bogota. Have others on this list recommend areas to go. We had really good food at a steak house 'Estancia Chica' and good food also at 'Casa Paella.' My favorite meals, however, were at the little hole-in-the-wall restaurants. There are plenty of places to dance. I don't do dance steps very well but I have GREAT rhythm and had tremendous fun with my lady.

I stayed at the Andes Plaza Hotel. Very centrally located in what seemed like a good neighborhood. The staff was very nice and helpful, the room was nice and cheap ($37/night) but the free breakfast sucked and I had a couple of other minor gripes with the hotel. So, I'd look for a hotel next time except that, in my case, I've got a standing invitation to stay in my lady's guest room!

Quite honestly, there was nothing about Bogota which thrilled me except for this one special lady. My point is, go where your heart leads you then get a guidebook or help from this list or from locals, to guide you wherever you land.

Good luck to you!

Sol

p.s. In both my trips to Colmbia, the first was to
Medellin, I never experienced or witnessed any crime but I also pay alot of attention to my surroundings and don't take risks if I can avoid them.


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rafael
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« Reply #3 on: August 06, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to re: About Bogota, posted by Sol on Aug 5, 2001

I might need to go to Bogota on business and apreciate the altitude warning and restaurant recommendations etc. I'm sure I'll explore a little, and will post any pertinent info when I return. Not agency or Latina related of course as I'm already married.
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muddslinger
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« Reply #4 on: August 05, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to re: About Bogota, posted by Sol on Aug 5, 2001

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