Mexicana's should not be overlooked...

[Randy G]

When I was in Mexico, I would read this forum from time to time and was dismayed at the apparent lack of knowledge on this forum about the Latina's closest to you here in the USA, Mexicana's. Please, no stories about border towns or Mexicana's here in the USA. The overwhelming majority of Chicana's here are from very poor areas of the country, with little or no education and are most likely Indian. I don't begrudege them at all for wanting to come here, but they have created a culture here that is neither Mexican or American.
The middle and upper class that IS in Mexico has no need or desire to come to the USA, other than to study English at the University level. They also know that almost all American's classify all Mexicans as looking like the Chicano's or Cholo's that live here in the USA.
What men have no idea of is the high quality of Mexicana that is just south of the border. In GDL, they are mostly white or morena clara, very tall, beautiful with the Tapatia (GDL girl) trademark big, pretty eyes. Even better are the blondes from the small towns in Jalisco, Japanese Mexicana's, Sonoran girls of Syrian descent, the unbelievably rich Chilanga's of D.F., German chica's in Chihuahua, the girls of Italian or Lebanese descent in Puebla, and the cream of the crop, the Sinaloense's. The girls from Sinaloa have to be the best looking girls in the world. I know this is a Colombia obsessed forum, but my vote for the best goes to the tall pretty Sinaloense's. And so close to the USA!
Please, one must also drop whatever sterotypes they have about Mexican cities or culture too. These women are tops in feminity, meaning they will spend a lot of time in the salon and gym. Most are steeped in Catholicism, meaning that they have solid values. The people there in the mid to upper classes all have cell phones, Expeditions and Volvos, wear Tommy Hilfiger, take vacations to the beach and stay at the Westin also and have the best and most glamourous parties ever. Turn on one of the Telenovelas on Univision where the people are 20 something (Amigos & Rivales?) and that is a pretty accurate representation of the new Mexico.
My fiancee always tells people that there are many differant types of Mexican's, as there are many types of Americans. The USA isn't the only place where people have emigrated.
Case in point; this afternoon, I took my fiancee (tall, light brown hair and blue eyes) and her little 12 year old niece (blonde with blue eyes, looks like a Swede) to a real Mexican restaurant for Torta's, because they were kind of homesick for real Mexican food. The waitress, who was from Guerrero state in Mexico, spoke to the girls in broken English, and was answered in Spanish. Even she thought the girls were Gringas, although they dress like Mexicana's.
When I was at the university, I had a chance to compare large numbers of Gringas to Mexicana's, right next to each other. No contest, in fact we had to pity the poor Gringa's who showed up for school looking like they just crawled out of bed. Most were completely void of the gregarious personalities I have found in Latina's.
One thing I will tell you is that the college age boys, some of whom looked like they stepped out of an Abercrombie & Fitch ad, complained about dating back home in the USA with Gringa's to me. By the end of the semester, the majority had Latina girlfriends they had to grudgingly leave behind, saying they would never date another Gringa again. Randy G...

[SANCHO]

... in response to Mexicana's should not be overlooked..., posted by Randy G on Jul 12, 2001

Hey Randy! I remember when you were first planning your Mexico trip and am happy to hear it worked out well for you, I knew it would! and thanks for the great informative post!         P.S Im surprised that you even returned to the USA to live since you discovered one of our best kept secrets!!
              cuidate amigo!  ...El SANCHO

[KADAMS]

... in response to Re: Mexicana's should not be overlooked...., posted by SANCHO on Jul 13, 2001

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[Houndog]

... in response to Sancho o lechero?  n/t, posted by KADAMS on Jul 13, 2001

LOL

[SANCHO]

... in response to Re: Sancho o lechero?   Si..!, posted by Houndog on Jul 14, 2001

Dont worry dog, I saw the photo you posted, your safe! LOL!

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: Sancho o lechero?   lol, posted by SANCHO on Jul 14, 2001

..yea..get some sack and post your pics...what are you afraid of your odds ?? reality ?? the truth ?? everyone ??...lol...moo..

HD

[SANCHO]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Sancho o lechero?   lol, posted by Houndog on Jul 14, 2001

Like I said, your safe with me "buddy", but that Nicaraguan guy from down your street who's been talking in spanish with your lady might be a threat, better lock her back up and buy her some more arts and crafts to keep her out of society and from making friends??? uh oh! .....beloved SANCHO  LOL!!!

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Sancho o lechero?   lol, posted by SANCHO on Jul 16, 2001

Keep Dreamin idiot....I followed my own advice and found one with a dream...and I'm it...instead of a plan...so while you're out spreading herpes, my wife and I will be at the movies, or the park, or shopping, or any other number of things couples do. And when I'm at work she has all the things of her dreams to keep her happy and busy....painting, designing, decorating, gardening....you know...NORMAL STUFF...and remember...while you're sneakin in the back door somewhere somebodies sneakin in your back door...so don't forget to keep lookin over your shoulder to make sure they're not gainin on you...LOL

HD

[SANCHO]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Sancho o lechero?   ..., posted by Houndog on Jul 16, 2001

hee hee hee, this is your only life right here, I know it! everybody here knows it! and you know it as your compulsive posting here documents the fact, and thats what irks you so! it appears that your anti social behaviour, cries for attention, alcoholism problem, and internet addiction is probably taking its toll on you! and the clock is running! tik tok tik tok tik tok........LOL     beloved primo SANCHO

[Hamlet]

... in response to Mexicana's should not be overlooked..., posted by Randy G on Jul 12, 2001

Randy,

That was a fascinating discourse on Mexican culture that I appreciate greatly.  Thank you.

Hamlet

[Pete E]

... in response to Mexicana's should not be overlooked..., posted by Randy G on Jul 12, 2001

Randy,
You may be right,but it looks like lower odds than Colombia.
(Colombia is a sure thing if you are at all realistic about what you expect).Alot of guys have a limited amount of time.
My other fear is a guy might give get discouraged and give up before really finding the happy hunting ground.
Also,the agency route is non threatening for a guy that may be to shy to try and approach strange women.A guy can breeze in to town and meet alot of women quickly.If you have months to live there,know people  or take classes I immagine you could do alright in mexico.I must also admit I am influenced  by women I have know of mexican decent here.Not the same as Colombiana's at all.
But hey,if it looks good to you,go for it.Lets hear some success stories.

Pete

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Mexicana's should not be overlooked...., posted by Pete E on Jul 12, 2001

Randy,
I did sort of a knee jerk reaction to your post then read more carefully,plus your posts down below.You do a good job of describing the Mexico you discovered.I just get concerned when guys might go off on something low probability and then give up.
One other Question.The Ladies of south america,especially Colombia,are known for nice bubble butts,which seems rare amoung the ladies of northern Mexico.They seem to be kind of broad shouldered and narrow hipped.Does that change as you go south in Mexico?

Pete

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Mexicana's should not be overlooked...., posted by Pete E on Jul 12, 2001

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[Jeff S]

... in response to Mexicana's should not be overlooked..., posted by Randy G on Jul 12, 2001

You asked for no border town stories, but I feel like I have to. The Tijuana that sailors on leave have been whispering about since WWII, has changed tremendously. There's a burgeoning middle class there with the huge explosion of American and Japanese factories over the past couple decades bringing engineers, bookkeepers, secretaries, etc, along with educated, skilled labor up from central Mexico to fill the needs of the maquiladoras. Last week I took three thirty-something single guys who grew up in San Diego, down there on business and we stayed late for a little night life. They'd been traveling down there all their lives to the tourist traps and were shocked at the resturaunts and night spots where the Mexicans go. We're talking valets, women dressed to the nines, live bands, etc, etc. Many of the women speak English fluently, and most can make themselves understood well. All three of teh gringos came home shaking their heads in disbelief at how different it was from their previous experiences in the tourist part of town. All three are making plans to return with some of my single Mexican friends and do some serious wife hunting.
-- Jeff S.

[cedro]

... in response to Re: Mexicana's should not be overlooked...., posted by Jeff S on Jul 12, 2001

I am currently corresponding with a girl in Tijuana.  She is 30 years old and is very nice.  Its been a long time since I've been to TJ.  But I will go soon to meet this girl and see what happens.  Im also interested in checking out TJ and places to meet women.  Ive heard from other sources that there are alot of single women there.  One of the reasons I belive that are alot of single women there in TJ is because of the maquiladoras.   What Ive been wanting to know is how to meet those women.