The final end to this long Saga

[Mike]

... in response to Re: I suspect that most of us believe th..., posted by Phillip on Dec 5, 2002

I feel sorry for his alcoholic brother, you can always find another women but you can't find another brother to lean on.

Mike

[Griffin]

... in response to Re: Re: I suspect that most of us believ..., posted by Mike on Dec 6, 2002

[thesearch]

... in response to I suspect that most of us believe that s..., posted by Griffin on Dec 5, 2002

It is clear that David is not thinking straight right now. He is doing everything he can to undo himself - playing into her hand, reacting emotionally instead of logically. Now, her position has been empowered by him and the system may not serve him well at this point.

He asked for advice, did not even read all his responses I would bet, thus being disrespectful to those whose help he requested, and then did not even take sound advice. He really should not even ask for advice but for someone to tie him up to a chair until he comes to his senses. He is out of control - on self destruct plain and simple.

I am sorry but this MOB stuff is not well suited for people are not adept at reading people or people who are more emotional versus logical. If one or both of these apply it is a recipe for disaster potential.

[Globetrotter]

... in response to Re: I suspect that most of us believe th..., posted by thesearch on Dec 5, 2002

So, So true.....If your logical, emotional and financial ducks are not in a row....stay away!!!

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: Re: I suspect that most of us believ..., posted by Globetrotter on Dec 5, 2002

The problem could be that this MOB thing might attract people in fair numbers who do not have their ducks in order. (Not that they should not have happiness like everyone else. Everyone deserves happiness.)

I think that this might happen because it is just that it is so easy for almost anyone to get one of these ladies to respond to you. From my experience, there is no other place where you can get such ready attention from  beautiful woman as you can from the Internet focusing on the FSU. I remember when I discovered this the first time, I found it hard to believe.

I looked at the profiles of the AW who were on the Internet advertising themselves in my area and compared these profiles and photo's to the FSU ladies and it was like night and day. The AW were commonly not in good physical shape but demanding all sorts of things whereas the FSU gals were usually in good shape with messages totally different from the AW.  

That is what lures some guys into this who are not as well equipped as others to handle what is to follow. However, they find themselves immersed and proceeding.

Most certainly, it has turned out wonderfully for many but for others like DavidSD - they have manifested their own worst nightmare.

[Globetrotter]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: I suspect that most of us be..., posted by thesearch on Dec 5, 2002

Everything you said is true as far as my belief structure is concerned...maybe not everyone's.  Literally anyone can find someone in the FSU who may or may not have an agenda.
Therefore, the time and evaluation while recognizing the risks involved are necessary, before pulling the trigger. If one thinks they will find a nice subserviant housewife that can be easily molded to their lifestyle, they're very sadly mistaken, like our friend David.  

If you've been through a divorce before, don't think it can't happen again, and take the necessary precautions to prepare if should.  But then some only have the capacity to think with their heart instead of their head.  To each their own.

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: I suspect that most of u..., posted by Globetrotter on Dec 5, 2002

sdf

[Robert D]

... in response to The final end to this long Saga, posted by John LV on Dec 3, 2002

never EVER give up the power in a relationship.   Do not abuse it ever, but keep your _ alls, at all cost.     Treat women with great respect, but also love yourself, and love does not mean that you have to allow yourself to be made a sucker of.   EVER.  Stop payment on the car, and tell them to repo it, they will not have problems finding it.  Break the lease if you have to, but get on with your life.

There are busses along every 20 minutes in most places.  Putting up with BS is a no brainer.

Robert D.

[Bubba]

... in response to The final end to this long Saga, posted by John LV on Dec 3, 2002

You may be able to file a chapter 7, you don't need her concent, check with an attorney.  If you can then you can forfeit the car she has and all her possesions.  I have a friend who did this, it may be your only way out. It will mess up your credit but that's going to happen aynway.

[Griffin]

... in response to The final end to this long Saga, posted by John LV on Dec 3, 2002

[vagn]

... in response to The final end to this long Saga, posted by John LV on Dec 3, 2002

I would love to hear what she has to say about all this.

[robobond]

... in response to Natasha sounds like a really great woman..., posted by vagn on Dec 4, 2002

by ignoring everyone's advice (mental & legal help, walking away from the relationship, etc.) and continuing to do really stupid things, JohnDavid literally BEGS to be screwed. Natasha, being and old fashioned and submissive girl, graciously accommodates him. Being that she is most probably laughing her ass off right now, she also has a terrific sense of humor! JohnDavid, when in manic mode, professes to have more intelligence than God himself. Natasha continues to outsmart him so she must be highly intelligent. We've seen her picture so we know she's very attractive. She is certainly not a shy, wallflower type. It also sounds like she has strong sexual drive. This woman has it all EXCEPT she doesn't cook!

Think this is JohnDavid's final post? Don't bet on it - I can smell at least one sequel on the horizon -- that's when MAMANatasha shows up, suitcase in hand, and moves in with the happy couple!

If JohnDavid really wants to snatch his life away from the jaws of defeat and claim a stunning victory, all he has to do is head for Hollywood (the trip would be tax-deductible) and sell this tripe as a mini-series/soap opera/situation comedy (take your pick). Then, with $ millions in hand, he has the last laugh on Natasha...

"CUT! That's a wrap."

And that's my rant, Bob

[wsbill]

... in response to The final end to this long Saga, posted by John LV on Dec 3, 2002

You have very creative imagination.  Go take your meds.

[robobond]

... in response to Re: LOL...great story., posted by wsbill on Dec 3, 2002

n/t

[Richard]

... in response to Re: LOL...great story., posted by wsbill on Dec 3, 2002

I bet David is wishing that there was some kinda medication that would make this nightmare go away.  You and I should be glad we didn't bring anyone over.  There, but for the grace of g*d go I.