My horror story:
I’m from San Diego, but I was living in Orlando Florida, I met a guy who was from the Czech Republic visiting to the USA. We were talking and he mentioned his girl friend and showed me a picture of her, she was very pretty and I asked him sort of jokingly, “how did you find such a girl?” He then asked me, why don’t you have yourself a girl? That was a question I was unsure of, was it because my first girlfriend that I had when I was sixteen went out and cheated on me? Or was it because my second girl friend when I was 18 cheated on me? Or perhaps it was all the girls who cheated on their boyfriends with me? Or perhaps it was my best friend Scott who during our college years, slept with countless girls, many of which were married, and one who gave him herpes, which he then in turn gave another young 17 year old girl herpes? Or maybe it was because of the girl I met when in Orlando, a very sweet and nice Indian girl, who had a boyfriend who was temporarily in Boston at the time, I was talking with her and liked her a great deal, but would never start anything with her since she already had a boyfriend, I respected her and admired her, all until the time she informed me that her boyfriend would never cheat on her, but if either of them were to cheat, “it would be her to do it”.
Well there went that respect for her. Or maybe it was Michelle in Connecticut, a beautiful girl who had a boyfriend, and as she told him over the payphone that she loved him, she then went out with me that night and later came over to my house to be with me. Or maybe it was Lori in Orlando, the hot looking blonde I went out with for over a month, all until the time I found out that every guy on the entire lake had done her, I was just a Johnny come lately, and she went on to find even more guys to do after me.
Such a hard question, why don’t I have a girl? Hmmm, maybe it was my own mother who cheated on my dad? Or maybe it was my two stepmothers who cheated on my dad? Or maybe it was Terry who cheated on my uncle? Or maybe it was my other uncle’s wife who cheated on him? Or maybe it was all the other girls who I have personally seen cheating on their boyfriends and husbands? Do I know of a girl who has not or does not cheat? Hmmm, let me think about that for a second, ………..no, I don’t know of any.
But I can tell you what I do know, I know of a whole bunch of men out there who believe their wives are faithful to them, that much is certain. So then, I tell my new friend Vladimir the answer of, “these girls around here are no good, I don’t like them”. He told me he understands, and doesn’t blame me; he suggested that I find a girl in Prague, Czech Republic. I said sure, would love to, etc etc, not taking it seriously at all.
A month or so later, I get these pictures with letters of girls, very nice looking girls who sounded sincere, who said the things a man wants to hear. I must have gotten a hundred of them over a month or two. One of them looked special to me, spoke very good English, was from Moscow, and had an email address. So I decided I would just write her an email to see what would happen. I wrote a short email asking her to write back if she can speak English with me. Two days later I received an email from her, and she sounded so kind, so sweet, so smart, and so interested in me, all without even seeing my picture. I asked her if I could call her, she said yes, so I called her and we started talking with each other. Her voice was so soft, so sweet and kind, I thought she was the nicest girl I had ever spoken with in my entire life, a 1000 times better than any American woman I had ever met.
I sold my car, I sold my belongings and moved back to San Diego, where I got a passport and plane ticket and flew to meet her. She was very nice looking, and she could cook incredibly well. We actually got into a big fight while I was there, but I had already fallen in love with her via the phone. I came back home and started working in San Diego, we talked everyday and I ran up a 1000 a month phone bill. Plus I sent her about 5000 dollars via Western Union over the entire time we waited till she could come here. I fly to see here a second time for New Years in Prague, and we had a great time together, I was so happy to have a girl like her, an absolute dream come true for me.
Six months later, on June 13th 2001, she flew to meet with me in San Diego, and we started our relationship, on July 3rd, 2001 we got married at the Venetian in Las Vegas, and had a great time together, the picture you can see through the link below was taken at the Bellagio after we were married.
Once we were married, all the problems started to surface, I found out that she is lazy, she doesn’t clean anything ever, she won’t even do her own laundry let alone mine, she won’t go shopping for food, she won’t water the plants, she won’t pay bills, she won’t clean the bathrooms, she won’t do the dishes, she does not plan ahead, she cannot think that the rent needs to be paid, or anything like that. She takes the credit cards and buys herself cosmetics, needs to spend 150 on her hair every 2 months, needs to buy this, but that. She would eat soup, and with every spoonful, spill it all over the carpet, drink Cranberry juice, and spill in all the floor and the carpet. She got mad once and threw a watermelon against the wall, of which I was stuck cleaning it up. Her teeth were a disaster, and she had bad breath from this, I took her to the dentist in Mexico and 2000 dollars later her teeth are fine now. I bought a brand new 16,000 dollar sports car for her, one month later she rolled it and totaled it out, so I bought her another 20,000 dollar sports car to replace it. I have endured 500 a month phone bills from her calling her mother, and friends, I have endured working 7 days a week to support her, I taught her how to drive, I made her resume for her, I took her to job interviews. She landed a job as a Secretary at Karl Strauss in San Diego, she lasted for about 2 months before they finally fired her for coming to work late everyday.
She has had her work card now for about one year, and during that time she has earned about 2,000 dollars. Her car payment is 383 a month, our Insurance is 350 per month, she ran up 8,000 in credit card bills, she spent 10,000 out of our checking account over about 8 months. We moved to Vegas about 2 months ago now, I sent her through Bartending and Cocktail waitress school, she met another guy there and now she lives with him, isn’t that nice? I have done everything for this girl for the last 2.5 years, given up my whole life, spent countless thousands of dollars, cleaned the whole house, worked seven days a week, etc etc and now she has completely betrayed me.
I moved out of the apartment we were staying at, rented a rental car, and staked out the apartment, sure enough after 14 hours of waiting, she came to the apartment with my 2002 red Mitsubishi Eclipse, and guess who was driving? The guy who she is with now, and they went up into MY apartment together. Well instead of going to jail, I simply got into the Mitsubishi and drove off, and I have the car in a safe place where she cannot find it. She called the police, and told them I stole HER car, and HER bankcard, and god only knows what else.
This girl has turned out to be the worst girl I have ever met in my entire life, and I have met some of the biggest hoes and tramps you could imagine, but they pale in comparison to this girl. She has more nerve than any human being I have ever seen before in my entire life. She suggested to me that if I give her car back, she will live with me as friends, as long as I allow her to go out with other guys. Does that sound like a good deal? Should I go for that deal? Then she told me that if I didn’t give her car back, I would severely regret it because she will get me into huge trouble with the police.
Wow, I’m terrified. So much so, on Monday not only will I be filing for divorce, not only will I go to the INS and report everything that has happened, but I will also file for a restraining order against the woman. Did I mention she started kicking me and hitting me right before she called the police? I should have had her arrested shouldn’t I of? But I have been too nice all this time, but I am getting to the point now where Mr. Nice guy is going away for awhile, Mr. Cold heart is starting to surface, even though it goes against my nature.
She still has all 2,000 lbs of her books from Russia here in the apartment, the very ones that cost me 2000 dollars to ship here to the USA. This weekend, I will be packing those books into boxes, along with all the rest of her stuff, I will hire movers on Monday to move her things into storage where I will pay for 1 or 2 months. I will have the Manager change the locks Monday, and I will park my truck around the corner where hopefully she will think that I’m gone, and that we have been locked out of the apartment by the Manager. I will give all the info to the manager regarding her things in storage, where she can go get them.
I will get over this girl, and I will never forget what has happened, I will never understand for the rest of my life how other human beings can be so cold, so ruthless, so evil, but I know from experience now that they can. They can lie so convincingly, even to the point where they say, “David, I may be a messy girl, but I am not the kind of girl who would cheat on you”, all while she just got back from having sex with this guy and got a really bad bladder infection.
To all of you who have read this, I have told the entire truth, and although I’m not perfect, I’m a thousand times better than she could ever be. She has gone from being the nicest girl I have ever met, making me the happiest guy on this planet, to being the worst human being I have ever met, making me miserable and leaving me with debt coming out my ears. Everyday I wake up and say to myself, this can’t be happening, there is no way in the world this has actually happened, and I’m still waiting to wake up from this nightmare.
I have learned my final lesson, in has nothing to do with American girls, or Russian girls, or Mexican girls, or Chinese girls, its girls themselves, they are all un-trustworthy, they all lie, con, cheat, manipulate, play games, and use men. Every single solitary one of them, period. They are so good at fooling men, even you who are reading this do not believe me, and so it goes, but I know better, I have observed them, I have studied them, I have analyzed them, and now I know for absolute certain, I want nothing to do with them ever again.
I don’t need a wife, I don’t need a companion, it may be extremely difficult, but I can live without them, and if I can’t, I simply will end my life here on this planet. The first woman ever created (Eve) bore the first sin, and sent mankind into exile from Eden, and it was a woman who told Joseph that if he didn’t have sex with her, she would bear false witness and claim he raped her. It was a woman who had John the Baptist beheaded. And if was the wisest man in the whole world, (King Solomon) who said, “ I can find one in a thousand men with whom I can respect, but no woman”.
Woman are trash, there whole being is one of a lie, imagine putting on a bunch of makeup and then saying, “this is what I look like”, what a lie, take off your makeup, that is what you look like. Do you think when they go shopping for clothes it’s to make themselves look sexy for you? Don’t be so naïve, they already have you, it’s to make themselves look good for other men, not you.
Have you ever watched a soap opera? Is it not about lies, deceit, unfaithfulness, etc? Have you ever watched Sex in the City? What is that show about? Have you ever read woman’s magazines before? What do they talk about?
The truth is the hardest thing in the whole world to accept, and although I love the truth, it can be extremely painful, but this life was not meant to be enjoyed, the best you can hope for is to tolerant this life, unless you lower yourself into the pit of Saddam and Gomorrah where woman reside.
That is my story, and everything I have said is the truth, and I will never touch another woman ever again, you can only stay a fool for so long.
David (aka, JohnLV)
Here is our picture together at the Bellagio the day after we were married: http://profiles.yahoo.com/davetrading2002/?.src=prf&.done=http%3a//messages.yahoo.com/bbs%3f.mm=FN%26action=m%26board=4687959%26tid=actc%26sid=4687959%26mid=567714&lg=us
