trolls do have something right ( I am rambling here)

[LP]

... in response to Re: Confidence...., posted by DE on Nov 30, 2001

....all in all a fine post DE.

I'm just never gonna be so down on A/W, there are many fine females here. (lol...I know, I have a pretty good one now but she's Vietnamese. Born there, here 11 years. lol...I'm beginning to think those guys on the Asian board know something we don't.)

If the same effort were put into finding a good A/W as FSU the success could be the same. (Thats the confidence I was speaking of.) Sure, the pool may be smaller and thus the fishing harder, but the upside is the lack of cultural, immigration, lanquage and the many other hassles involved. I'm just surprised at how easily some guys get all caught up in this and can't let go. After all, it's very bad to lose the big focus.

You are *absolutley* correct about one thing: No one has the right to dictate to another the method used to seek happiness.

[DE]

... in response to Nice job......, posted by LP on Nov 30, 2001

AWs depending on your perspective and what you're willing to accept.  No one ever divorces over the good things in a relationship, its usually the things that you can't accept.  Therefore finding the ideal mate, whether she be AW, asian, latin, russian or whatever all comes down to what you are willing to accept in a partner.  No one is perfect.  We all have our imperfections.  It becomes what imperfections in a person are you willing to accept and live with.  I guess, some of us have realized that we are not willing to accept some of the things that we once did or at least thought we could.  Therefore, as you metioned, the fish (keepers) are more difficult to catch and thus, accepting the global pond MAY be more fruitful.  Personally, I was considering several trips to Ukraine next year, but I've been looking at going to Central and South America in the late fall to early spring.  After all, you might as well see the world and experience new and exotic places rather then continiously going to Ukraine or Russia.  Hey, its a BIG POND out there.  Why not try new fishing spots?  If you're not going to settle for less then what you're looking for, don't rule out the world!

[KenC]

... in response to Re: Yikes...., posted by KenC on Nov 30, 2001

n/t

[BubbaGump]

... in response to and Bobs, Bubbagump, Zink and and, posted by KenC on Nov 30, 2001

I'll admit I am not a confident guy with women at all but overall I have a lot of qualities they like.  My ex-wife was just so good looking and exciting that other women kept falling short by comparison.  She was a lousy wife in a lot of ways though and I divorced her knowing I might never meet anybody like that again.  My sister and best friend pegged me a long time ago.  I'm stuck on finding a wife as exciting as the first that's not a b1tch and it's hard since those qualities seem to go together.  As for my ex, she's never been happy with anybody else.

[KenC]

... in response to trolls do have something right  ( I am r..., posted by thesearch on Nov 28, 2001

Search,
Isn't it funny how doing a search on the Internet without boundries has led so many of us (me included) to the FSU countries?  It truly is a matter of "supply and demand".  There ARE many good AW, but there are many MORE good women available elsewhere.
Your fishing analogy reminded me of a time when I went to a trout farm in Michigan for ice fishing.  It wasn't very sporting, but they had 3 different ponds stocked with fish.  The first one had many many fish but they were small.  No skill needed in this one as they just about jumped out of the pond onto the ice.  The second one had larger fish and less of them.  The third had the largest (best in this case) fish but very few of them (making the chances even less of catching any).  My thoughts at that time were I would rather have no fish at all than to "accept" anything less than the very best.  Catching the smaller fish MAY be easier and keep you from starving, but will it make you happy?  LOL
KenC

[thesearch]

... in response to very good post, posted by KenC on Nov 29, 2001

That mentality must have stayed with you because your wife is one of those fish from a similar pond that you set your eyes on relative to the pool of women of life. Nice fishing

[DE]

... in response to trolls do have something right  ( I am r..., posted by thesearch on Nov 28, 2001

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[Cold Warrior]

... in response to trolls do have something right  ( I am r..., posted by thesearch on Nov 28, 2001

My grandfather and most men of his generation married women from their own village or town. My father found his wife 100 miles away but still within the same country.Today with phone,internet and air travel my search for a wife is extended to any part of the globe.A woman is only a phonecall away and can be reached physically in less than 48 hours.The sky is the limit.

[BubbaGump]

... in response to trolls do have something right  ( I am r..., posted by thesearch on Nov 28, 2001

I'm not looking for average women in the US or overseas.  If  I were, I would find plenty of them.  I am going over there to get the best I can find and quite honestly, they're really nothing compared to what I used to get.  I don't see any women at socials comparable to my old girlfriends.  Who would spend 20K or more the get the same thing you could find down the street for nothing?  

I'm also frustrated that American women just won't make a sacrifice for a man if it's just not convenient.  They're demanding more and doing less and American men are trying to accomodate them but then that doesn't help because the bar just gets set a little higher the next time.  I'm tired of being the one that has to make sacrifices.  Maybe successful women are just that way.  They're assertive and they walk over people because they're used to doing it at work.  

If American women think we are so bad, then they should be glad we are going elsewhere and not bothering them.  I've read the feminist boards and they seem to think our purpose is to bring women over from EE to enslave them as our housekeepers and cooks.  They think we are the lowest form of men but  I can tell you that the lowest men will not get a wife over there either.  I know some that tried and they never got anywhere.  EE women have a problem with their men and we have a problem with our women.  That's why we should get together with EE women and do something about it.  

I picture these female trolls as miserable fat women that can't get a date by any means possible and they are taking their misery out on us for seeking something better rather than settling for less.  If you think these men are so repulsive that they could not be married then go to the mall and look around.  What some people settled for is just amazing isn't it.  We're guys that won't settle!  Accept it.

[tim360z]

... in response to And I think you're right, posted by BubbaGump on Nov 28, 2001

The malls?  The malls are kinda tame.  I have always found that the "whales" are abundant in the...supermarket.  Check out the junk food aisle,  next time.

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: And I think you're right, Again, posted by tim360z on Nov 28, 2001

Whenever I really want to see what I'm missing, I just take a stroll trough Wallmart. Reminds me of the buffalo scene in Dances with Wolves.
-- Jeff S.

[thesearch]

... in response to trolls do have something right  ( I am r..., posted by thesearch on Nov 28, 2001

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