The Trolls are really correct about something and that is how they can delude themselves. They set out to and accomplish coming to the wrong conclusions by extending the truth to altered assumptions about reality that are gross exaggerations as it relates to most because of their own mental illness.
For example here is a typical troll claim: You go to Russia/Ukraine etc to find a wife that is of a caliber that you can not get here in the USA. They say that the reason this is the case is because everyone here can not compete with other men for the woman of your choice and so we have to go to the FSU to get the girl we have not caught here.
Duh, well dang, I hope this is true or you might as well color me stupid. What would be the reason for spending all the money required, all the hassle etc. only to come home with what is exactly right here in our own back yard and easily obtainable? Remember the analogy that Claire gave that people do not go to a grocery store a long ways a way when there is one in your neighborhood for no reason (assuming they both offer what you want at the same price).
Now, here is where their assumption goes wrong. Claire would then explain what this reason is by first choosing to ignore that fact that there are men who simply take a look at the majority of women in their own back yard and then take a look at the women in the FSU and say "My things look nice over there, I think I will take a look see". Some women will perceive this as a big slap in the face. Mainly man haters will look for anything to validate themselves and their distorted perceptions and their desire to express this in the form of criticizing men in general. The distorted concept of men who have to buy their mail order brides is too good to pass up for these trolls.
Of course there are a lot of nice women in the USA. It is not about that. Some guys just want nice along with slender, a bit younger, and more attractive all in one package let alone the perception that many FSU women have more old world values that used to be prevalent in the USA. It is a simple fact that the number of women who fit all of these descriptions is decreasing in the USA. The older you get, more women as compared to their male counterparts have difficulty staying in physical shape so, that category only gets worse with time. So, by the nature of the beast you are going to have a lot of guys all really wanting women who have loads of attention and mathematically your odds of success drop when you seek a woman that pretty much has a lot of it all if you get the drift. So, in this sense you fail to compete if you do not get what it is you desire. But then again, some men's standards are higher than others and the higher your standards the more stiff the competition and the greater chance to strike out more often than if your standards were lower. BTW that is what trolls want you to do, lower your standards. Then you are a nice guy.
So, to feed the desire to criticize men it would be counter productive to their agenda to see anything that does not serve their purpose. So, we all have to be lusers as Claire would say. Trolls are unhappy or damaged people who feel out of control with their destiny and they resent plain and simple someone who is attempting to take control of theirs.
What they do not realize is that their posting makes a mockery of themselves. The most amazing part of this is that they actually can not see this which reflects how sick most of them really are.
How could any of us be like Claire and thus be of a troll mentality? - Simple - say that all AW are fat, controlling, only interested in money and have no class.
But some people have the fisherman mentality - i.e. go fishing where the most fish are. Hey it works. Anyone who has compared the Internet ads of the women from the USA as compared to the FSU knows they (the FSU) must have schools of nice fish waiting for a sincere man to net one. Looking at ads of FSU women is like nothing but choices choices choices whereas looking at the ads of AW you realize that you are going to have to look a lot longer and harder. Yes if you are persistent you very well might find what you want but then again that fisherman mentality gets one to thinking.
And if you are like many and just can not get out to meet women good or bad, the Internet is a very simple inexpensive introduction tool. I got introduced to this by accident. I accidently did not put a distance restriction on my search and bingo up came these gorgeous FSU women. If I saw an ad of a woman that I was attracted to, most of the time when I would pull up her profile she was from the FSU. Now at first I said no way am I going to do this but, photo after photo of the same thing happening got me to re-thinking it all.
I have been there, seem them, no illusion
