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Author Topic: A passing thought....  (Read 5300 times)
Mark H
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« on: October 17, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

This post is more for newbies than anyone else. I suppose everyone can take something from it if they wish. Those who know me, know I haven't posted in several months. I guess I got tired of the BS around here also. Reading Wayne's post below (which I don't know who Wayne is) prompted this post. I agree with his initial post, not with his subsequent posts. Wayne hit it on the nose in his first post to just let the BS slide by. Of course, his follow up to another poster became the type of rhetoric and insulting chest beating BS that her professed to "why can't you just let it slip by". You see Wayne, you answered your own question when you so aptly jumped to your own defense. Many people on this board and boards like this thrive on pushing buttons. There was a time 2 1/2 years ago when I'd jump down anyones throat that wanted to give it a go. I made no bones about me, who I am, my name, my location, etc... I'm not hiding behind any keyboard and never will. It was senseless and stupid. I broke from the board several times over the last almost 3 years, driven away by the endless attacks, fights, and threats by those not so inclined to divuldge information to allow.....uh meetings...away from the board. Meetings that would end up with parties in jail, hurt, and for what? Get back at the message at hand. Talk about chicks, trips, love, sex, food, booze, rights, wrongs, ups, downs, and whatever the fruck else you want to talk about. Give an opinion, disagree with an opinion but keep it in the confines of human and decent behavior. Realize that anyone who visciously attacks anyone else does so because their sex organ lacks size and substance. Realize they are very upset and disenchanted with their lives and take it out on innocent people on bulletin boards across e-land. Take comfort in the fact that anyone who attacks you, does so because he or she is highly disappointed with themselves and their lives. That's it. No worries.

Be cool,
Mark H.

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thesearch
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« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to A passing thought...., posted by Mark H on Oct 17, 2001

No doubt, you have changed since first posting here. What was the catalyst for the change? Was it in part actually the act of engaging, being drawn in and then observing? Was it in itself its own therapy?

Some people learn from their experiences and simply others find more difficulty in doing this.

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Mark H
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« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: A passing thought...., posted by thesearch on Oct 18, 2001

I think that I have indeed changed alot over the last 2 1/2 years since I first started this endeavour. I think my trips and interactions with alot of people around here and in my own city have mellowed me alot. Secondly, and more importantly, it is useless to engage in negativity and mindless threats. Live your life, do your thing and deal with whatever confronts you. Some dork on a keyboard is no threat to me. I've come to realize that I don't have to defend myself, you, or anyone else who chooses to undertake this pursuit. I have also realized that there are many different types of guys doing this. To each his own. I don't tell anyone how to buy a car so I won't tell anyone how to find a woman. It's funny now to see other guys going at it, realizing that I used to be somewhat opinionated and stubborn myself. I enjoy my new attitude alot more. Also, I know more about this stupid pursuit. I've done it enough now that I know what to do for me. What works for me. That's all. Best to you all.
Mark H.
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Charles
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« Reply #3 on: October 17, 2001, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to A passing thought...., posted by Mark H on Oct 17, 2001

I just ignore those threads.  I have far better things to do than psychoanalyze the motives of others and engage in mindless drivel.  I agree with your observation that with respect to such posts, less is more.
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