I finally got my apartment yesterday about 6pm.I will move in today.
I was wondering who is this lady who owns this type of property in Colombia?I was thinking maybe nose in the air old money or wife of drug dealer on the run.
But I am surprised that the lady is a very nice fairly young black woman.Her name is Neubellis Asprilla.The apartment actually belongs to her brother,Faustino Hernan Asprilla who I am told is a famous Colombian soccer player who played on several world cup teams.She was very easy to deal with,a joy after some of my other experiences.I had the lease tranlated to english so I can understand and she agrees to several changes.Then,the money please.I paid 6 months + rent up front plus one months deposit.It was a little over 10,000,000 pesos,only about $3700.But thats a stack of 50,000 peso bills about 3 inches thick.Its a big deal in Colombia to get that kind of money up front.
The apartment is in Juanambu,a strata 6 neighborhood up the hill from Granada,maybe 2 miles from main Avenida Sexta.Its actually
224.74 mt sq ,2470 sq ft.4 bedrooms plus den,5 bathrooms,TV room,laundry area,about a 3000 sq ft patio that overlooks Cali.Private jucuzzi on the Patio.Pool,Gym,extensive on site park like grounds that go up the hillside with walking trails.2 spaces in garage plus storage room and guest parking.Its 1,400,000 pesos
about $500 a month for the apartment.Administatration which is building maitenance, guards with guns ,cable TV,ect is 440,000
about $160 a month.I'm not sure how much energy phone and computer hookup will cost.The whole thing including a maid will probably be about $900 a month.
Today I need to go buy bedding,towels,dishes,blender,toaster,ect.
Its furnished,but I will buy a queen sized bed(about $330 with mattress and night stands) to replace a twin bed in one of the main bedrooms and move the twin to the smaller maids bedroom.There will be no live in maid,I will have one come in twice a week.Its like $7 a day.
OK,if it wasn't a good day already,my 7PM date shows up.Wow.First girl I dated to really get my motor running.We are trying to talk with her limited english and my limited spanish.My Canadian buddy Lenny,who probably will be my first room mate comes in.He helps with translating and we go to Cali Veigo.Veronica who works at LE gets to tag along for the second time in 5 days.I tell her we have an expression in the states,its a tough job but somebody has to do it.
This girl is 31,2 kids,very sparkely,looks better than her good pictures,my kind of body.Lenny says I think you struck gold.I tell him maybe one of us has,with his good spanish he seems to be hitting it off better than me.But both he and Veronica are kind of bragging me up to her,I keep saying what are you saying and they all smile and laugh.Lenny says I don't think you need to look any further.I say we will see when I really get to spend some time with her.Its easy having translaters but less personal.When she kisses me goodnight I tell her next time you and me get to talk.
OK guys,can you believe a woman like this has been at the agency a year and I am her first date? I am tempted to try and explain to her that she really is beautifull,but that lots of these 40 something guys are chasing the early 20's girls and also most want a woman with no kids.To me thats not a problem.I like kids,I did it before no problem(with the kid that is)
and most of these girls either have or want kids and I don't want
to be having babies.Older kids are easier.I have dated several other 30's girls with kids and feel I really need to be carefull not to lead them on,I may be their only chance,ever.They can get their hopes up real fast.Even last night I was starting to feel a little bad for one who is now running second.But I was carefull not to lead her on.
But I have been here before.Beautifull girl,nice and fun person,seems very interested.But untill someone shows me that they are definetly unequivically the girl for me I will keep shoping.This time I want a girl who is crazy about me,adores me,wouldn't dream of disapointing me.Somebody that hugs back in the night instead of being anoyed.And the search is starting to get really fun.Like I told Veronica,its a tough job but someone has to do it.My mother used to say there are too many fish in the sea.I never believed it untill I came to Colombia.
Pete