Update: Need advice

[Oscar]

... in response to Update: Need advice, posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

Why are you asking a board full of complete strangers what you should do in this situation?  Surely you have some family and/or friends in your life to counsel with on important decisions?  I just think to ask questions like these are very inappropriate for a forum like this.  
If you want information on how to go about finding a woman in the FSU or what different cities are like or agencies that are good or bad, that's great, but to be asking people here how to handle your personal life is a bit much, don't you think?

What do you think guys here are going to say about your girl moving back in after all you have said about her?  It really seems to me that you are deliberately trying to manipulate people here David, and I think you should seriously get some sound psychological help.  You have gone from "I will never look at another woman again", to "life just isn't worth living", to "Hey, should I let her come back and take advantage of me?", all within 2 days!

This whole story and your obvious questions really smack of manipulation and I smell a fraud..  Maybe as Ken says, you have a girl here and it was real, but you are really getting weird here and I think you should seek some help, NOT from this board, but from family and hopefully a skilled therapist..

[John LV]

... in response to Re: Update: Need advice, posted by Oscar on Dec 1, 2002

First of all, I don't have any family, my mother was the last and she died Oct 18th 2002 from Cancer at the age of 50, that's correct, my mother had me when she was 15 years old.

Secondly, I have always lived a secluded life, I have never had a job where I could meet people, I have always had the type of job that keeps me secluded, I never go to bars, or clubs, and don't do anything where I could meet anyone, and as I get older, this only becomes more true.

So I have no friends, and haven't for many years now.

So these strangers as you call them, are all that I have, and many of them are older than me, and although I do consider myself extremely intelligent and knowledgeable, I lack wisdom.

And men who are 50 years old, are much wiser than me, and I am not foolish enough not to understand that they can help me, they can give me good advice, and I would be wise to listen to them.

One of the ways one becomes so knowledgeable is by learning from others, everyone has knowledge to some degree, and as a Philosopher, I try to absorb that knowledge.

I hope I have made things a little clearer.

David

[Oscar]

... in response to Re: Re: Update: Need advice, posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

You are 35 and have NEVER had a job where you ever met any people?  Your Mother had NO family and you had NO family friends of any kind?  Uh, huh..
Even if this were all true, which I have a hard time believing, would it not make more sense for you to seek clergy, since you seem to believe so strongly in God?  It would make even more sense to go therapy to speak about these things rather than asking for and just taking advice from a bunch of strangers you have never met on such personal issues!
I'm sorry David but what I really see is a guy with some real issues that strongly need to be addressed, jerking around a lot of people here..

[John LV]

... in response to All you "have made clearer" is..., posted by Oscar on Dec 1, 2002

Well, I'm sorry you feel that way.

[Oscar]

... in response to Re: All you "have made clearer"..., posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

Why be sorry?  Because I feel you need some real help from both clergy and a good therapist??  Why are you sorry I feel that way? I think these two simple suggestions would be of greater benefit than anything you will get here on this board concerning your very personal issues from people you don't even know...

[John LV]

... in response to You didn't address one thing in my post ..., posted by Oscar on Dec 1, 2002

I'm am very certain that there are many good religious leaders out there, the problem is I don't trust any of them. I have been to Church, and what I have found I do not like, some of those people are some of the biggest hypocrites around.

Try to understand that evil is intelligent, evil seeks and loves power, one of the best places for evil to prosper and hide is the one place where you would never expect to find it, namely the Church, the Catholic church in particular, although I don't exclude the Christian church either though.

There is no man alive who can lead me in spiritual matters, I understand the Bible better than most any human being currently alive, and God and Jesus Christ are my leaders, they can help me better than any other.

As far as therapist are concerned, try to understand that as a scientist and philosopher, we laugh at psychologist and psychiatrist, we do not respect their profession, just as we do not respect chiropractors, or palm readers, or psychics, or fortune tellers, or astrology.

I know more about the human brain through nuero science than any psychologist ever thought about knowing, he could not teach me anything, but I could however teach him.

For instance, most every psychologist alive doesn't even know the basic common denominator of all human behavior, and without that knowledge, it would be impossible to understand why humans do what they do.

And that common denominator is the two controlling forces to all human behavior, everything you do, and everything you don't do, is controlled by "the need to avoid pain, and the desire to gain pleasure", this is our mathematical biological program if you will.

Just as a microprocessor simply measure whether the "circuit is on or off", and thus we can create a language from this and make this language interact with this binary process to make the computer do what we want it to do, so is the human brain similar in its makeup. It too works off a binary process in as much as everything is controlled by both pain and pleasure.

I am currently writing a book which is titled "Quantum Society with respect to Brain Sex Theory", which not only deals with brain sex but also our built in biological program, among many other things thus the title quantum.

So you see Oscar, I am far beyond the help of man on this planet with respect to my current level of knowledge, but like I said, I cannot know everything, and my biggest weakness is a lack of experience, and thus wisdom. This is where other men who are older than I can help me, for I may know a 1000 times what they do, but they have the one thing I do not, wisdom and experience, and the only way I can get those things, is with time, and time cannot be rushed no matter how much I wish I could.

If you are a therapist, I would be happy to discuss anything you would like to, but I appreciate nonetheless your concern for me, because if you had no concern for me, you would not have responded, I may have a great deal of knowledge and understanding, but I'm still just a man like you and need friends, need support from my peers, and need to be accepted.

I thank you for your help.

David

[Oscar]

... in response to Re: You didn't address one thing in my p..., posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

Your arrogance and narrcissistic nature are your own worst enemies.  They will likely prevent you from seeking the kind of help you desperately need..  
Look at these posts David.  If anyone ELSE had written them, you would likely be calling them a nut case!

"So you see Oscar, I am far beyond the help of man on this planet with respect to my current level of knowledge."

And-

"There is no man alive who can lead me in spiritual matters, I understand the Bible better than most any human being currently alive."

And-

"I know more about the human brain through nuero science than any psychologist ever thought about knowing, he could not teach me anything."

David, you have some real issues and they are NOT going to go away WITHOUT some SERIOUS HELP..  All your reading and tremendous knowledge will not help you any more than they have already!  
If what you are doing is NOT working, stop, and try something else!

And NO David, I don't want to "discuss" your issues.  I am not your therapist and this is NOT the place to do that kind of work...

Do yourself a favor- Swallow a little of your pride and get a therapist.  I PROMISE you, in one session they will know exactly where you are and what to do about it!  

[Globetrotter]

... in response to David, you need help-, posted by Oscar on Dec 1, 2002

Oscar, he doesn't want any help even though it's been offered to him.  He has some idea that because he is educated he is smart.  Unfortunately, that is only one piece to life's puzzle.  Smart would be an education in many things including street smarts and interaction for which he has none.

Let him fail on his own.  This guy will lose all by himself.

[robobond]

... in response to Update: Need advice, posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

(and I'm really not sure is this message is for JohnDavid or the readers...)

[wsbill]

... in response to Update: Need advice, posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

So we can hear about you misery some more.

[John LV]

... in response to Re: I think you need to take her back in..., posted by wsbill on Dec 1, 2002

You have always been a strange one wsbill, I see some things don't change.

[wsbill]

... in response to Re: Re: I think you need to take her bac..., posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

at the DYN msg board on yahoo.  Sums up what kind of a luzer you are...

Your vile personality and speaks for itself in all those posts.  What makes you a sensitive person now?  The only valitity you have is from KenC and he is suffering from Stockhomn Syndrome in just meeting you and knowing you.

Clearly, you need friendship and loyality.

In part time to get a puppy dog since it's clear nobody, not even your wife can stand being around your negativity.

[John LV]

... in response to Re: Your the one who is twisted... just ..., posted by wsbill on Dec 1, 2002

Well I'm glad you know me so well, congratulations.

But do you know what else?

I don't need to speak with you anymore.

Have a nice Sunday.

[robobond]

... in response to Update: Need advice, posted by John LV on Dec 1, 2002

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[robobond]

... in response to Re: Update: Need advice, posted by robobond on Dec 1, 2002

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