Cynical? Bitter? Me?

[Hamlet]

... in response to I totally disagree.Analise yourself., posted by Pete E on Aug 15, 2004

Pete,

I have been reading you for some time so I understand your positions and experiences.  Some of us wrestle with the same issues, we just don't post them.

Hamlet

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Pete E on Aug 15, 2004

Pete

Good post and i will agree with your reasons. As many know, i can be cynical as well, but i too have learned some good lessons going through the bad marriage i had with the DEVIL , and a few other relationships with women of questionable intentions.

BUT, i think it is just like the Lottery "IF YOU DO NOT PLAY, YOU HAVE NO CHANCE TO WIN.

It is a numbers game as well as there are more guys that it takes years and many trips south to find the right woman. The guys that score the fairytail on there first or second trip is just such a small percentage  that its almost no use speaking of.

i have met maybe 300 colombian women in the last 3 years , and unfortunatley , most of them i would say had "other" intentions.

The majority were "AGENCY" girls , so if that tells you anything.

My new girl lives in Cali, but was not born and raised there, but in a very small town of about 250 people and she holds the values of a small town girl as well. She also would never be caught dead in an agency as she views it as a desperate place for desperate women looking for desperate men.(her words, not mine)

I do not 100% agree with her on that , but she has valid points on the women i believe as i think many women in the agency circit either have no intention of leaving Cali, but just want to sponge off of the gringo, or you have the ones that want to get to the states at all costs for the "PLAN B" deal. I think maybe 25% of the agency girls you will meet will realy be sincere about wanting a good man for a husband. That leaves 75%maybe that cause posts like this or Pete or the other guys that have had bad experiances as well.

But again, if you do not play , you cannot win. That is why i continue to search and have taken my bottle of BITTER pills and thrown them in the trash.

Pete

look forward to seeing you thursday night my friend. We will have some fun.

KB

[Phoenix]

... in response to Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Kiltboy1 on Aug 15, 2004

- "I think maybe 25% of the agency girls you will meet will really be sincere about wanting a good man for a husband."

What do the other 75% really want?  Do they just want money while they fully indulge in the bad boy dick in the street?  Do these women want good husbands ever?  

I don't understand, I thought Latinas were traditional and wanted a good husband, 2.5 kids, and a dog frolicking in the back yard.

What do these women REALLY want out of life?  

[Pete E]

... in response to The other 75%, posted by Phoenix on Aug 15, 2004

They,like some others,want more than they can get so they settle for a guy to screw over.If any guy will do watch out.
I think the worst would reform for the right guy,temporarily perhaps.But its probably not going to happen.So plan B,any gringo.

Pete

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Kiltboy1 on Aug 15, 2004

I think the percentage of sincere women at the agencies might be higher than 25%.But the percentage of the woman we are likely to pursue,as in the hot onews,it might be lower.
Looking forward to seeing you Thursday.I want to get your take on my new chica.for some reasson my radar is up,maybe she seems too good to be true.She will be a really good test for my new resolve to play it smart,But I just have a FEELING I will do that.
Story.My main sport used to be water skiing.I was a very good recreational skier.Then I tried sking slalom courses.I was not as good as I thought.People told me and told me what to do.It just kind of went in one ear and out the other untill I got it.very late one year in October I was sking a course.I crashed and burned.I lay there in the water and I GOT it.It was almost dark.We skied no more that day or that year,untill the next May.I KNEW what to do.I got all 6 bouys on my first attempt of the year.My friend,who was a better skier than me still couldn't do it.
See you Thursday.Looking forward to it and meeting your woman.hm,will be interesting to get the womans perspective on each other.They can understand better but other issues like jealousy can get in the way.
Pete

[jonno]

... in response to Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Pete E on Aug 15, 2004

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I WOULD love to check out the next "hot chica" either of you two studs bring back to the states.  i wish to be first in line to steal her.  Would save myself time, money and paperwork.

[stefang]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by jonno on Aug 15, 2004

You are the first guy on this board to win my a$$hole of the Planet Love
award. I don't really ever get riled up and even in past disagreements I
believe everybody here just has different views of life. You on the other
hand are not even worth a second of anybody's time. I feel sorry for your
wife, hopefully she changes her mind and finds better. Do us a favor just
leave or hopefully everybody will ignore you.

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by jonno on Aug 15, 2004

Is any of the info in your profile true?  It says you married February, 2004.  Then it said you married "june 25 in barranquilla, colombia".  If you did go to Colombia and used an agency to find a wife you must be real popular with the ladies here in the US, stud.  And if you did marry a Colombiana you'd better hope she never finds out you just posted:

"i wish to be first in line to steal her."

She probably won't find that very amusing.

Steve

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by jonno on Aug 15, 2004

There are too many guys in the US wanting to find a hot chica without the effort of going south.Probably never happen.Better to head south,get your own.
Mine,be it this one or another is not coming to the states because I am not.

Pete

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by jonno on Aug 15, 2004

Your profile says you recently got married to a woman from Barranquilla

You should spend more time trying to make her happy and less time making everone on this forum miserable with your personal attacks

I THINK THAT ABOUT COVERS IT ALL

[Cali James]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Kiltboy1 on Aug 15, 2004

Hey Kiltboy,

I was trying to remember who your wife was.  The 2nd appointment in Bogota in January, my wife and I spent some time with one of the wives from the first trip.  She had been married to a Colombian lawyer previously and was concerned that he wouldn't give permission for her son to come to U.S..  Was that your ex?  

Best regards, James

[Pete E]

... in response to Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Cali James on Aug 16, 2004

James,
Only if she never told him about the lawyer,entirely  possible considering her truthfullness.I heard the whole strory several times.No lawyer in his version.

Pete

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by jonno on Aug 15, 2004

For all of us losers here on this board, i think this is a good time for you to introduce yourself to everyone and to tell us what qualifications you have to be able to dish out advise

how many times you have been to LA ?
Have you been married to a latina or had one here in the states with you ?
why are you such a miserable smuck ?

You seem to bean expert at both advice and just being a miserble person

Please enlighten all of us

Thank You

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Cynical? Bitter? Me?, posted by Pete E on Aug 15, 2004

True Pete

But your woman is a prosessional with a decent job and my girl is a 60 hour a week worker, so at least on paper  they have a  good work ehtic.

My friend Derek met his wife in cali and she was a 60 hour a week worker and not into rumba or anything. She cleans rooms at the sheraton in seattle now and is happy as she can be to be with him and build there life together. But again she was used to work, something that is hard to find by many in cali that are professional students. JAJA--i always loved it when i met a girl that was in her late 20s and in the university. That to me was a way to avoid real work at all costs and to wait it out for a man to come along and take care of her--. Nope, i will take a working girl over a student anyday !!!!!

KB