... in response to Re: Re: Re: What does your novia do for ..., posted by grant5432 on Jun 21, 2004It didn't enter my answers.. guess I can't use brackets!!??
She takes the initiative to stand or sit close to you.
--Maybe so sometimes. She does hold my hand.
She compliments you frequently.
--Hardly ever.
She touches you.
--She holds my hand or sometimes kiss me on the cheek or on the
lips.
Her eyes sparkle when she looks at you.
--Maybe I don't know what "sparkle' means, but I haven't seen it.
She's very happy though when I give her a gift like perfume or a DVD she
likes.
She is curious to know everything about you.
--This is one of my big gripes. She never seems interested in me or
my life or what I'm doing or my job, etc. She rarely asks me any
questions about my life here in the US, or my family, etc. She always
just asks "how are you and "what are you doing now"?
She endeavors to discover what's important to you and what makes you
tick, so she asks you a lot of questions about yourself, but not in an
obnoxious, prying or pushy kind of way. (Of course you give her the
absolute minimum amount of info possible.)
--See above. she never seems that interested in my life. At least
when I date here in the US women ask me about my job, family, etc
She gives you small gifts.
--As stated before, she has never given me or surprised me with
anything. I often surprise her with gifts.
She calls you and asks you out.
--Well, when I"m in Peru we both kinda just decide what we're doing
the next day.
She makes a big deal about your birthday.
--She did sent an email card on my birthday (1st day of Feb), but
when I saw her 2 months later in early April there was no belated gift or
anything.
She cooks your favorite meal at least once a month.
--Has never cooked for me. She had me over to her brother's house
once and his wife cooked for me... and her mom cooked for me once.
She does cook but hasn't cooked for me.
She builds up your ego.
--Actually, her sister compliments me more on my attempt at
Spanish. She jokingly criticizes my spanish. She doesn't say anythiing
to boost my ego.
She's supportive.
She's consistently loving and affectionate.
--She's okay in this area, but if I don't do anything she really won't
do anything, like she will never come up behind me and put her arms
around me or anything like that.
When you're sick, she is your dedicated nurse.
--See above posting. Her sister thought of this but it didn't cross
her mind.
She often turns into a playful little girl when she's around you.
--True. but she likes to be like a little girl with everyone (she likes
to be spoiled.
She respects your opinion.
She asks you for advice.
--doesn't really ask me for advice on anything
She's consistent and dependable.
She keeps her word.
She's never late.
She's fiercely loyal.
--I think she is pretty good in these areas. I trust her, and she's
dependable, keeps her word. The only thing I didn't like is when she
used money I had given her to save for plane tickets (if she ever got her
Visa) but she used it instead for her grandmother's surgery.
etc. etc.
--I'm tired. too many to answer!!
