"Hitting the wall" at an early age

[Chris F]

From a post below on Cali...Pete mentioned the following which I tend to agree with.

"I see on Cali web pages,where there are lots of good looking early 20's girls,then they fade fast from there."

At least from the three cities I have visited with agencies, (Cali, Bogota, and Lima) I noticed the same thing. Most girls in the agencies close to 30 or older in Cali were a lot less attractive overall then the other cities and web sites I have visited.

I am not saying you cannot find an attractive one in that age range in Cali. ( I am sure Patrick's wife and DallasSteves wife are very beautiful)  I just agree with Pete in that there just appears to be a lot fewer good looking women in the agencies in Cali once they close in on 30.

Comments and opinions welcome!!!!!

[colgre]

... in response to "Hitting the wall" at  an earl..., posted by Chris F on Jun 4, 2004

All women hit the wall somewhat at 30, but I will take a 30+ Caleña any day of the week then a 30+ AW...

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: "Hitting the wall" at  an ..., posted by colgre on Jun 5, 2004

Greg,
Although I kind of started this tread about women letting themselves go and getting dumpy at about 40,some women look good at 40.My ex is almost 38 and looks great,better than when I met her at 33.Clothes ,cosmetics and hair style I guess.My girlfriend looks good at 32.
I was looking at a Barranquilla site.Some women looked real old in their early 30's.Colombian sweethearts in Medellin has lots of good looking 30's and 40's women.
Whats happening with your plans?Mail me.

Pete

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to Re: Re: "Hitting the wall" at ..., posted by Pete E on Jun 5, 2004

My wife is 30 and she still turns my head.  Often I'll look up in the kitchen or the bathroom and she's walking around naked and I get that rush of "Wow, I wish she was mine" like when I used to be single and then I remember she is mine and I smile.  

I now think an older woman with kids is better for me.  I've already got 3 and she doesn't want more so I think she'll keep her figure and I'll be enjoying the view around here for another 10 years easy.  Neither one of us wants to be getting up in the middle of the night to change diapers anymore.

Steve

[colgre]

... in response to Re: Re: "Hitting the wall" at ..., posted by Pete E on Jun 5, 2004

Hey Pete, I know what you meant. I think on the agency sites, we see less good-looking women over 30 because a lot of older women don't sign on to the agency, probably thinking they don't have a chance to get a gringo. I remember seeing plenty of women over 30, even over 40 in Chipi Chapi that blew away the same aged AW's walking around in the malls here.

I will email you later today.

Greg

[Phoenix]

... in response to "Hitting the wall" at  an earl..., posted by Chris F on Jun 4, 2004

[This message has been edited by Phoenix]

I'm sorry to say that as I peruse various web sites, I too noticed an uncomfortable drop-off in looks after 30.  Sometimes this drop was downright shocking.

Largely, this drop seems to be associated with lighter skin complexion.  

I have one word for you, well actually two words - Go Black.

Once you go Black, you will never go back.  

Black girls will hold up better over time and being from Latin America they will not likely turn into a big blob of buttery blubber like her Black American sisters.  They neither have the dysfunctional attitudes that Black American women do.

Now of course, some Blacks don't hold up well and some lighter skin women do but your odds are better if you turn your telescope towards the dark energy in the universe.

And the thing is, some of these Black ladies would prefer a White guy to a Black guy like me, so make them happy.  Lighter-skinned Blacks, like Miss Ghana, hold up just as well as darker-skinned ones.

The most beautiful female I have seen since my divorce was a dark-skinned 42 year-old.  I recently met a Black woman who was 70 that looked 40 something - I kid you not.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: "Hitting the wall" at  an ..., posted by Phoenix on Jun 5, 2004

I have to agree with you here.A friend of mine who is black is 66 years old and looks about 50.His wife is 70,looks about 55.
Of course the person needs to take care of themselves,but the basic genetics are good,except for a couple of things they are prone to.This friend already survived prostate cancer,much higher in Blacks.I always wondered if this was testosterone related,perhaps blacks have higher testosterone in general,which would also explain their good athletic performance.The other thing,high blood presure could also be testosterone related.Even though he has been married 45 years this guy did like the ladies.When he got prostate cancer I told him he had to pay for all those hormones.

Pete

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: "Hitting the wall" at ..., posted by Pete E on Jun 5, 2004

It seems the lighter the skin color the less well it ages.

Pete

[Troy]

... in response to Re: "Hitting the wall" at  an ..., posted by Phoenix on Jun 5, 2004

Hey Phoenix,

Good to know that there is another black american man on this board.  I agree with your post.  In my opinion, Black latinas, particularly the brazilians, are by far the most beautiful women in LA, much more attractive then the blond-european wannabees.  The brown skin Indians (like my fiancee) are cuties too.

Too bad our black American women have such screwed up attitudes.

[Heat]

... in response to Re: "Hitting the wall" at  an ..., posted by Phoenix on Jun 5, 2004

But diet, smoking and genetics are the key too.

Look at the mother.  You end up with that.

[larrydarrell]

... in response to I agree in part., posted by Heat on Jun 5, 2004

Actually there is something far more important than any of these things.  Ask any Dr., or read a medical book:  SUN.

My brother is a dermatologist; he says that if we avoided sunlight entirely (I mean entirely) all our lives, our skin would at age 70 literally be about the same as it was when we were 5 years old.

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to "Hitting the wall" at  an earl..., posted by Chris F on Jun 4, 2004

Chris

I remember when I was in Cali looking at the albums I couldn't find many women that I wanted to meet over 30.  That was because I was eliminating the women with children.  It seemed to me that most of the attractive women over 30 already had children.  Maybe that made it harder for them to find another man in Cali.  After I decided to accept a woman with children the list of attractive women got much longer.

Steve

[zack]

... in response to The Children Factor, posted by DallasSteve2 on Jun 4, 2004

When I looked at the albums in Cali it seemed like most of the attractive women over 25 already had a child or two. A frustrating experience for those who want a woman without kids but in the 25 to 35 age range.

[wizard]

... in response to I would say more like 25, posted by zack on Jun 4, 2004

They are out there if you are patient and persistent...

[zack]

... in response to Re: I would say more like 25, posted by wizard on Jun 4, 2004

Agree completely. I seem to have already found her.