Purpose of the Board

[outwest77]

some thoughts on the recent board exits by jim in the phils
and Carisse,

It seems to me that the trouble started when jean came to the board,
carisse, seemed to get madder and madder at her and her posts
and her unsolicited emails to her,

The coming of jean started a war on the board, that has not stopped
since,

two suggestions, one for patrick and one for board members.

1)For Patrick, I dont think you should allow, postings, from
people promoting their sites, and, although Jean had some
other posts which were disguised as helpful, almost all of her
posts ended with her website url, .....irritating and a conflict
of interest to me.............
    I dont think site promotion should be allowed here patrick
and you used to not allow it, but seem to have eased up on your
position.

2)For those board members who post thier email address in their
profiles, I think that is not a wise practice, and if you started
recieving spam from Jean, even though it may not have been her
site directly, she is linked up with so many of those penpal sites
and I am sure they have an email list which they pass around, I
am fairly sure that she simply went to the profile page of most
of the board members and put their email addresses on her spam list.
I dont post my email on the board for that and several other reasons.
I even recently took my public profile off yahoo for the same reason.

[FilipinaCupid]

... in response to Purpose of the Board, posted by outwest77 on Jul 29, 2001


I see this BB serving many purposes from spirit lifting humor, to support of newly weds adjusting to cultural differences and settling in a new land, to courtship issues and the ever changing INS methodology.  I know your time is limited Patrick, but you should be proud of the service you are making available.  

What hurts any BB is unfounded accusations and mean-spirited wording. From OutWest saying matter-of-factly I sent unsolicited email to Carrisse or that I and other site owners pass around some sort or harvested email list to SPAM you with, to Hum calling me the B___ word, saying my sites are "trashy" and basically accusing me of everything bad short of Evil itself.  

Guys, No one has in the 2+ years I have had a site passed me such a list or I have ever harvested ANY emails - too many easier, more time productive ways to promote a legitimate site than that.  And my "Tag line" URL was to my personal page, not to my sites' start page or home page, or commercial pages like book store or services, etc.  "Irritating" - Give me a break!  Maybe it promotes my site, but you're intelligent people and  know what blatant site promos look like and know that was not the main purpose of my posts.

And Hum, your secret is out.  behind that fuzzy-face wired-differently mind of yours is the heart of a truly good guy; a hurting, opinionated, and sometimes disguised as an obnoxious guy, but a goodguy just the same..  It saddened me as well to see Carrisse and Jim in the piss leave the board, but I didn't drive them off.  I left 1st, remember?

Actually, Carrisse and I agreed on much more than we disagreed and poor Jim took the arrows that should have been shot at Humorturd, when he jumped on his mean-spirited snipewagon.  Sorry Hum, I will spell it right if I post in the future, but you can be a "funny sh__" sometimes.  

Well, I just wanted to say I know you have a great group of members here, warts & all, and I truly wish you the best of everything.

Blessings,

Jean
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[outwest77]

... in response to Re: Purpose of the Board, posted by FilipinaCupid on Jul 30, 2001

We need women on this board, and you can take Carrisses
place as the queen of the board if you like, i think
everyone would vote you in, as long as you and Humb
can iron out your disagreements.
    Personally i like ur site, although i was going
to write to some of the free ones but i thnk most of them
are taken already,
   Anyway dont let my occasionaly rantings keep you from
the board, ur welcome to slap us in the head when we need
it whick is most days....)
    Hopw you stay, and i aplogize for jumping on you,
sheesh i thought i could throw in some zingers, little did
i know you would come back and hammer me, lol

[Stephen]

... in response to ok ur forgiven, posted by outwest77 on Jul 31, 2001

we need good friends and neighbors..it's just sad to know that some people take it soooooo seriously.

Good to see you back Jean. By the way Jean, are you still in Hongkong? We are planning to take a short trip to Hongkong in January. How about getting together?

Tess

[PrincessUrduja]

... in response to we don't need queens here.......tess, posted by Stephen on Aug 1, 2001

Yes we do and she's coming back soon so you guys better not dethrone her or do a coup d'etat!

[kevin]

... in response to Re: we don't need queens here.......tess, posted by PrincessUrduja on Aug 1, 2001

Please don't talk about this too much, or that's one way to guarentee that she won't come back.

- Kevin

[FilipinaCupid]

... in response to we don't need queens here.......tess, posted by Stephen on Aug 1, 2001

That would be great if I am still here!

jean

[Dave H2O]

... in response to Tess, Yes you & Stephen come on over..., posted by FilipinaCupid on Aug 1, 2001

Hi Jean,

I noticed from your profile on your personal homepage (which used to be tagged below your name) that your mother is Chinese. Do you speak one of the Chinese dialects or languages?

Dave H.

[Lori]

... in response to ok ur forgiven, posted by outwest77 on Jul 31, 2001

You can not replace the queen...she is "on vacation"...she's not dead.

[FilipinaCupid]

... in response to ok ur forgiven, posted by outwest77 on Jul 31, 2001


I wish I knew your name, but I appreciate your desire for privacy and I wish I knew how to get My email address off BB profile. SPAMMERs use software "spiders" to harvest emails from BBs.  But, uggg, I hate spiders - so, no worry from me, OK?

You say about my friends. Please write them, I try to post note or delete them if they are taken.  It is amazing how few letters even the free addresses listing have received except Aurora - everyone in Western Hemisphere has written that girl!!!

I just add 2 new women to my Clubs today with address right under her picture.  I hope you consider writing them.

Hum and I will be fine I believe.  I do not know how often I will post, so not even Princess role for me. hehe

( I just put hammer back in shed :-)

Best wishes,

Jean

[Jimbo]

... in response to Re: Purpose of the Board, posted by FilipinaCupid on Jul 30, 2001

You've got him pegged Jean!  Huma may be a loose cannon but he's also a charming rogue with a heart of gold.  That's why the gold diggers find him irresistible! LOL!

Jim

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: Purpose of the Board, posted by FilipinaCupid on Jul 30, 2001

Welcome back! I enjoyed your posts a lot - even though some disagreed with you. As Dave & Kevin discussed below, remember that for every active poster, there are dozens of lurkers who read the board for information but don't have the inclination to post.
-- Jeff S.

[humabdos]

... in response to Re: Purpose of the Board, posted by FilipinaCupid on Jul 30, 2001

Good guy ? Gee  thanks! :-)

Jean I was looking back at all of these Yahoo sites That girl pisces girl and Mylene have some shocking sites with nude pics and bar girl pics from AC. I noticed you belonged to a few of them. Thats why I ask you a few questions about it. Why whould you aline yourself with a site like that ? is that the kind of man you want to introduce to your friends?  Humabdos

http://clubs.yahoo.com/clubs/sexypinoyasian

http://clubs.yahoo.com/clubs/sexhotyoungpiscesgirlfansclub

http://clubs.yahoo.com/clubs/hotfilipinaasiainphotosonline

http://clubs.yahoo.com/clubs/mylenefilipinaasianfriendship

[FilipinaCupid]

... in response to Re: Re: Purpose of the Board, posted by humabdos on Jul 31, 2001


Hum, it is my understanding that Mylene, is a Filipina student living in NYC.  She said she is trying to get a modeling career going and has started MANY clubs using MANY Yahoo Ids.  I noticed some of pictures not really look like her but then I guess NYC make-up artists are very good :-)  

I guess she is getting exposure for help with modeling career as many of her Clubs seem the same to me.  It is interesting that some clubs get better indexing in Yahoo Club search than others, so maybe that is one reason she has many.  That IS My reason.

I do not know her personally or take time to look at all pictures in her Club Albums or have visited or joined ALL her Clubs.  She sends me invitations and I join if: (1) they are Asian in theme; (2) have over 500 members or new & growing very fast.  I also joined the large Club: "Asian Girls & White Guys" but I hope you do not label me racist?  

Fact is, I join many clubs and if there are a few partial nude pics but that not focus I not worry, as they will probably be deleted soon by founder, and, frankly, in my humble opinion, nice guys enjoy looking at nude pictures too - like you for example!

I have received few inappropriate emails as a result of my posts.  In fact most offensive emails so far came from a simple personal ad on "Love at AOL"  So, I do not believe in prejudging "kind-of-man" as I know for sure some nice guys find my site from this such links.  I do not post links on truly “adult” sites.  I do peek sometimes – do you? :-)

Now, you ask about Golddiggers?  I do have men that hire me and friends to verify info about women they are involved with, and have questions about.  I also feel it is big enough problem, I spend time on subject in my eBook.  I do not know of any scam Mylene is doing.  Has she ever ask you for money?  Or you just do not like her more liberal clubs?  I choose not to post "bar" girls on my websites, but that does not mean some would be good wife.  I just conservative on that issue.  I do have a friend that has such friends but she not do herself.

I do not know Mylene personally, but since she has many thousands of members in total, I was considering offering her a commission to offer my ebook in her clubs' newsletter.  So, if you know something negative I should be aware of please email me details.  Thanks!

Ok, let's see - last issue - many Yahoo IDs.  That is just good marketing exposure the way Yahoo structures it's member directory and search results and also with each Yahoo ID you get free webspace on their GeoCities site. Oh, my ghost-writer: sometimes Teri, Tess, or Mr. Steve help me with wordings, but my most frequent help comes from MicroSoft Word's thesaurus, spellchecker and grammar checker. Then I cut-&-paste to web.

Hum, if you ever receive request for money from any woman you write of my websites or even if she just post in one of my Clubs.  Please send me copy of her letter and I will remove her.

Hum, I hope this answer your questions,

Jean

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[Jeff S]

... in response to Humabdos, You ask good question so I ans..., posted by FilipinaCupid on Jul 31, 2001

We prefer "pigmentally challenged" to white.
-- Jeff S.

I hope you realize I'm just teasing you. )