chating with latinas.

[HansErich]

Hi guys,

as you know since i broke up with my braseilera and moved back to Germany (the moving back part was the most painfull..;-)I have been chatting with many latinas.

And it is a revelation compared to the cold,b*tchy and materialistic and demanding German women I met in chatrooms here in Germany.

Going "private"with a german woman within 3 minutes after entering a chatrrom???

FORGET IT!!!
They will (most likely) simply block you or just ignore your lines.

How different are latinas!!!!
Sure once in a while i met also a nasty one that dib't answer. But they never block me!
Most of those gorgeous creatures just also chat back in a very open manner!

Allthough again I must say there are differences here too.
Peruvians,Bolivians,and latinas from Central-Amerika are more likely to be "conservative" about many things.
Well......as for the colombians,the venezuelans or the cubanas.....well.....they are very open and somehow more "liberal".:-)
I noticed that in general they all seem to have more gsoh then Braseileras:-)

In all this time I found 2(that is tWO) girls that spoke English. That was a lawyer from Bogota and a civil engineer from Baranquilla....! Both good women,but NOT my cup of tea.

Please guys...chatting is a good way to find a woman. But do learn spanish!!!! Most online translators are a pain in the A......LOL. Most of the times the women will not understand,so you have to think yourself of the lines in spanish!!

I wonder what other men experiences are about this??

Chaooooo y un beso para las mujeres aqui.

Hans-Erich.
El culito desde Allemania:-)

[Michael B]

... in response to chating with latinas., posted by HansErich on Aug 3, 2003

Really? I've tried a few Spanish language chat rooms, just to kill a little time, and found them full of young rude punks, flooding the text with sexual come ons, and really not worth the bother (just like many English language chat rooms). But then there are hundreds of chat rooms, maybe I just hit a couple of bad ones. Now, if you are using a chat program such as Instant Messanger to chat one-on-one with somebody you've already met on line, that's a different matter and is very usefull for getting to know her better.

[HansErich]

... in response to Re: chating with latinas., posted by Michael B on Aug 3, 2003

Hi Michael.

There are plenty of good chatsites...trust me. Only thing is LEARN SPANISH!! Besides that they have another "way"of chatting then we do.
Subjects like: sex,relationship troubles or just what kind of girl you like are more common then in the west. Sex is a normal thing in SA. Here (especialy in the usa) it seems more and more that some medieval Inquisition Politicians take over.....:-( That worries me a lot.

BTW what you describe as "rude"is for most latinos common (male) behavior. The women don't even hear it.....and probably would be very surprised if you never brought up any sexual item. (again: IF you know them better...NOT on the first contact offcourse)

Many latinas (if you see them the second or third time and they like you) even start the subject.
Giving a girl a compliment on her great A.....or her nice T..s is not a bad thing.
Why should it??

Try that here....and you be banned in most chatrooms before you can say : What happend!!.

:-(

Untill now i always had a great time in latin chatrooms.
Most european/US rooms are quite boring and full off selfish,materialistic, sex-o-fobic men and (especialy) women!!!!
Even in socalled SINGLE chatrooms the room is full of married women who have relationship problems. "my husband" doesn't understand me anymore...or crap like that.
Single chatrooms should be for singles that are looking for a date....and NOT for spousal marriage problems!!

Viva Colombia!!

Hans-Erich.

[lswote]

... in response to chating with latinas., posted by HansErich on Aug 3, 2003

Depends on who you are chatting to I guess regarding using translators.  I used to chat with my wife for one or two hours every night using only translators as at that time neither of us knew the others' language.  I hated it in many ways because I had to make what I said very middle of the road so that the translators could make sense of it.

Which actually leads to an interesting story.  I told her one time that the weather in Florida was very hot and that most of the time I wear just shorts and a t-shirt.  Well the tranlator program translated shorts as underpants.  And to make it worse, I had a friend staying with me and I had mentioned how shorts and t-shirt are the norm here and that is what my friend wore too, so she had this mental image of my friend and I walking around the house in t-shirts and underpants.  She actually told her mother about this and they both were trying to figure out what to do.  Fortunately I was able to straighten this issue out pretty quickly before she decided to end our relationship but it does go to show you there are definately disadvantages to the translator programs.