Mexican women why so few?

[Frank O]

HellO! I'm new to this forum. I was wondering why are there very few Mexican women on the agencies/sites? I live 8 miles from Reynosa, Mexico & a Mexican lady would be more convenient & accessible than a Colombian or Brazilian. Can anyone recommend any sites with beautiful Mexican women. The ones I HAVE found pale in comparison with the ones from other countries. I was seeing a GORGEOUS Mexican unfortunately now we're just "friends".

[Jeff S]

... in response to Mexican women why so few?, posted by Frank O on Oct 3, 2002

Here's something from the Asian board on how it has worked for many:

http://www.planet-love.com/wwwboard/asian/messages/35851.html

- Jeff S.

[Patrick]

... in response to Mexican women why so few?, posted by Frank O on Oct 3, 2002

I originally got interested in Latin women after I had a relationship with a Mexican woman I met beside a pool here in San Diego while she was on vacation visiting her cousins.  Neither of us we're willing to move to a foreign country for the other though, so it ended.  There's plenty of Mexican women who would date a gringo, it's just a matter of access.  I think very few of them are willing to join an agency, so meeting them on your own is probably the best way to go.

I placed a personal ad in newspapers in three Mexican cities back around 1995 and got a very good response.  Maybe you could try that, or you could look into studying Spanish across the nearby border.  I would definitely recommend studying Spanish.  It'll be the key to meeting and getting to know women outside an agency.

[Frank O]

... in response to Many Mexican women are interested, posted by Patrick on Oct 3, 2002

Spanish was my first language English my second. I'd considered putting an ad on a paper. I guess I'll wait till after my trip to Ukraine & see what happens there. I wish I could have worked things out with the MExican lady I"m seeing as "friends". She gave me this crap about I deserve better than her. Well let me be the judge!
Anyways I'll wait till after Nov I just thought perhaps an agency would hook me up with some available to facilitate things.

[Bueller]

... in response to I'm fluent in Spanish..., posted by Frank O on Oct 3, 2002

...going to Ukraine? Ah, well, do what you want, but I've been to Ukraine, I've been to Latin America, and to me there's no contest. There are all kinds of advantages to you spending time across the border meeting women in a language you already speak, instead of flying halfway around the world spending money and getting jet-lagged in one-week chunks.

 Really. It's not that there are no good women in the FSU, but the agency scene is a viper pit. Your time there is limited, so your ability to really evaluate a woman and her sincerity is limited. You get little chance to interact with her family, and you don't speak the language. Then you get married, and there are phone bills, travel expenses to go back at least once a year, cultural challenges, etc., and that's if you find a good one. Meanwhile, you have plenty of nice ladies, beautiful nice ladies, practically within walking distance, whose language you already speak.  

 Go south, young man!

[Frank O]

... in response to Then what are you doing..., posted by Bueller on Oct 3, 2002

Ukraine where did you go & what happened? Any advice. As for Latin America where & how did THAT go? I've looked into Colombia but man Mexico is right here man!

[Frank O]

... in response to Then what are you doing..., posted by Bueller on Oct 3, 2002

honestly I WOULD rather find one here. It's just that all the ones I've found are in a "party" mode then you have your "scammers" who just want you to pay their rent etc JUST LIKE UKRAINE! It's almost the same except I speak the language & go there several times a week! LOL! The deal with Ukraine is I COULDn"T finda any Mexican ladies so I started corresponding with a Ukrainian lady. So far so good. However the reason for my inquiry should anyone be wondering is IN THE EVENT that things don't work out in Urkaine (I've heard their is an 11% success rate when you only go see 1 lady!) I want to be ready to move on. I've looked at some of the pages but man there really aren't any that interest me. There was one she was 21 but had a kid. I've gone that route & if the kid is a litle older like above 6-7 they have a hard time accepting you. THere are MANY pluses to a Mexican lady for me but I just need the introduction as I can take it from there.
As for going south man I do that EVERY week!

[Patrick]

... in response to well..., posted by Frank O on Oct 3, 2002

Why not try a couple of personal ads somewhere in the REAL Mexico (i.e. away from the border)?

Pick some larger cities, place a detailed personal ad, and see what happens.  Since you habla español, no debes tener ninguno problema.

I'd suggest Guadalajara, Monterrey, and perhaps Chihuahua.  Get ads placed in all three cities and see what happens.  It's certianly cheaper than traveling to the Ukraine.  Unless you think you'd enjoy a trip there without finding any special lady, you might find it to be a long expensive trip.  Since you speak Spanish fluently, I sure wouldn't give up on Latinas yet.  Men who can speak Spanish well don't even need an agency.  You'll also find it MUCH easier to get to know a woman you can talk to than one you don't share a language with.

If you want to try another country, I'd suggest placing a personal in Guayaquil Ecuador.  I know there's lots of interested ladies there because we've advertised there before with results second only to Colombia.

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: well..., posted by Patrick on Oct 3, 2002

from Ukraine. I already bought my ticket so I'll see with how things pan out over there. It sure would be more convenient not to mention "easier" since no language barrier & all the other probs. Thanks.

[Bueller]

... in response to well..., posted by Frank O on Oct 3, 2002

I have been to Kharkov and Kiev a few times. Long story, but let's just say there is plenty of potential for problems, and I had my share there. I have been to Baja California, Venezuela, and for the past six months have lived in southern Brazil. There certainly are plenty of pluses about the right kind of Mexican woman. I know nothing about Reynosa, but despite being a border city, with 400k in population there have got to be plenty of good women there. If not, try other cities. When you say you've met mexicanas "here", do you mean in Texas, or Reynosa? There is generally quite a difference between those in the U.S. and those not.

  Anyway, I do recommend you stick with México because of proximity, language, and overall pleasantness of the women. Have you thought of running a personals ad? Just one of many things you can try. Randy ("Alteño" or "Alteno") is a big fan of Guadalajara and surrounding towns, and he also sent me a list of other cities he favors. You could look him up in the archives and ask him for advice.

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: well..., posted by Bueller on Oct 3, 2002

When I say here I mean Mexico. I'm 8 miles away & spend so much time there I tend to refer to it as hear. I'll try perhaps placing an ad in he Reynosa paper & the Monterrey paper. I haven't been to Monterrey in about 20+ years so it's totally different. I guess I'll have to wait till I arrive from Ukraine in Nov to see what happens.

[Michael B]

... in response to Thanks for the advice..., posted by Frank O on Oct 3, 2002

DF, Puebla, Chihuahua, Monterey, S.L. Potosi, Taxco, Cuernavaca etc. etc. and my personal favorite, La Villa Rica de la Vera Cruz........your possibilities are endless.  Try this: Ride a bus to DF, talk to one or two of the ladies ridding with you......you don't have to propose to her on the trip, just get to know her. And if you strike out, well, you still have to ride another bus back.

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Thanks for the advice..., posted by Michael B on Oct 4, 2002

about goint to DF. They by they I mean Mexican said ANYWHERE is find BUT NOT DF!!! LOL!!!They said it was literally dangerous. Like I said I'll wait till after Luhansk & Kiev.

[Wayne1]

... in response to I was SERIOUSLY warned ..., posted by Frank O on Oct 4, 2002

Frank,

I said it above, but I just have to say it again.

You could be about to make the largest and most painful mistake of your life heading off to the Ukraine.

You meet one of those tall beauties, and all rational thought begins to fade.  You don't speak the language, so you don't know what dark cave you are venturing into.

The odds just aren't in it my friend.

Wayne

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: I was SERIOUSLY warned ..., posted by Wayne1 on Oct 4, 2002

EVERYONE is warning me about this. Crap I already bought my ticket & I HAVE TO GO! I'm prepared for the worse man.If things don't work out I'll spend 2 weeks in Kiev. At worse I'll have fun with the escort girls! LOL! I know it sounds crass but I'm going over there with a positive attitude. I will know between 1 to 3 days max if there is ANYTHING there. I'm very up front so I could just turn her off right off the bat. That's what I love about my Mexican girl she is tough man. SHe loves a healthy debate & doesn't fold easily. That's my girl!!!