sex is a major issue

[mck]

This is my second week living with my novia and I can say the main issue has been sex. She wants sex 4-5 times a day and I simply cannot keep up with her sex drive. Now I realize it is not just the compatibility part of the relationship that is important but it is also very very important that you and your novia have equal sex drives. I will not go into to much detail on this subject but I am sure you catch my drift (especially for the women in the 28-40 age group.)

[wizard]

... in response to sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

All I'm going to say is be carefull what you wish for... From your posts it sounds like this latina has more than a few issues of her own, or can you say baggage... If this is what it's like after one week, imagine what it will be like after one year, or longer... Does she consider what YOU want??? I wish you luck...

[zzzz]

... in response to sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

Maybe is becouse the first two weeks with u...but with the time i would be less.....I don't know.....is my opinion!

[outwest77]

... in response to sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

reminds me of several of my ex gfs, one from india in particular yelled at me and pouted if she did not get any when she wanted, gets old after awhile.

[mck]

... in response to Re: sex is a major issue, posted by outwest77 on Jun 10, 2002

Yes I know it reminds me of several American women I have met to. I am not sure if I am going to get married to her but at least I will have a nice fling, have my house cleaned, and have dinner waiting for me on the table as soon as I get home, over the next six months and I am just happy that I am not married to her. I could not imagine spending all that money on a lawyer to bring a girl like this up on a k1 or marry a girl like this in there own country and have her fly up and realize what a mistake I made. On the other hand I do think it is worth the investment of $500-$1000 to bring a latina up on a tourist visa and have her live with you a few months and have fun with her. She is not losing out on much back home because she was unemplyed when I met her.

[zzzz]

... in response to Re: Re: sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

It sounds rude!......but u have your own feelings.

I hope that she get the same feeling or poor "novia"....But also good for her

[Pete E]

... in response to sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

Get her a vibrator.But then maybe she will decide she doesn't need you at all.
Again I find you hard to believe.Not that this isn't possible but something about your posts doesn't sound right.

Pete

[mck]

... in response to Re: sex is a major issue, posted by Pete E on Jun 10, 2002

I am dead serious, last night she wanted me to put out and I refused because I said I was tired and she started yelling at me for 3 hours in Spanish because she was horny. I offered to buy a vibrator but she says it doesn't feel as good as the real thing. I am 27 and she was yelling at me in Spanish saying that I should be able to keep up with her sex drive because I was so young and she said there was something wrong with my shlong if I can't do it 4-5 times a day. This story is very true and very frustrating for me.

[zzzz]

... in response to Re: Re: sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

Your girlfriend should be like half race of the tile, but that doesn't mean that you sew him your but you become intimate things to all world...... (that are you also become intimate of her)

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: sex is a major issue, posted by mck on Jun 10, 2002

I feel a little silly here responding to something that has a high likelyhood of being a total farce,but just in case.
Yelling at you for 3 hours because you wouldn't have sex after several times already that day?Saying there is something wrong with you sexually?This girl is bad news.
Sex and stress don't go well together.If she keeps yelling at you you won't be able to do it once a day.And good sex is the best thing about this relationship?
But if you want to try and keep her happy you could:
1.Take Viagra.You don't have to need it for it to help.I use it even though I can function without it,but with it I am better than when I was your age.
2.Buy one of those vacumn pump devices.(search under sex toys)
3.Buy a strap on dildo(same search)
3.Become a pimp.This girl could be a gold mine.

If you are serious you have serious problems here.Its not just the sex issue,this girl is far too pushy,demanding and
controlling.Put that together with weird and watch out.Looks like it will only get worse from here,and how would she react when you say adious?You better not sleep in the same house that night.
I think you are a very creative writter with a big immagination and no Mexican girlfriend who loves to put people on.Hilton was 10 times as believable as you and he was putting us on.
!!!!!Are you hilton?
I don't know if I should say thanks for the intertainment or not.

Pete

[zzzz]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: sex is a major issue, posted by Pete E on Jun 10, 2002

t doesn't care quantity but quality...

[greg]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: sex is a major issue, posted by Pete E on Jun 10, 2002

toooo Calm..tooo Cool...Talks too Nice. I don't understand why he went all the way to Mexico for this kinda Woman, when he can find her Kind right under His nose. Even AWs will keep a Guy's home clean, Cook tasty meals, Give lots of Sex...For free food, room and board...Especially if the Guy allow Her to use Him as a door mat..Walking all over Him. I agree with You...Something Smells Fish about Mike's Posts. greg

[zzzz]

... in response to Hey!! Pete...Mike's, posted by greg on Jun 11, 2002

Something that I learned in the agencies is that the men American youths don't want to marry..... and they always look for a good excuse it stops at the end of being the girlfriend in US not to marry.

[Pete E]

... in response to Hey !.Greg and Pete!, posted by zzzz on Jun 11, 2002

Even if you are very serious and bring her on a fiance visa the first few months are difficult and some guys might just not marry and send the girl back without the commitment of marriage to hang in there to make it work.
Fiance visa's are great for the guy,not so great for the girl,especially if it doesn't work out.They have been refered to as the 90 day test drive.
Also,a friend of mine brought his fiance here on a fiance visa and then married her 2 weeks later.Its almost a year and she still doesn't have adjustment of status to work,travel,get a social security card or drive.With a spousal visa you get the SS card in 10 days,a drivers licence right away if you pass and the green card with permission to work and travel in 4-8 weeks.
MCK's girl friend has a travel visa.I guess these are easy out of Mexico but almost impossible out of Colombia and some other countries.He is really getting a free test drive here and for his situation its a good thing.I guess his girl friend is getting a free test drive also.I hope she doesn't crash him.

Pete

[burbuja2]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: sex is a major issue, posted by Pete E on Jun 10, 2002

Yes Mr. MCK, Petey, I mean Pete E is correct.  You thought your whack job of a girlfriend was utopia for a few days, but now the bloom is off the rose.  Wasn't this scenario pretty much the unanimous assessment here when you reported this girl's bizarre behavior months ago?  Now you have a problem, and the problem is that she is in your house rather than simply telephoning you from Mexico.  Whatever happened to "Si, mi amor?" I guess even total appeasement can't prevent all arguments.  I'm curious as to what your exit strategy may be.  You do have one-don't you?