Staying On Topic - A Lurker's Request.

Guys,
I am a lurker and a wannabe. Please grow up and quit whining. There are lots of guys who read these posts (myself included) who hang on every word and are sharing your happiness vicariously. We all want to be in your shoes. I believe that I can speak for others who enjoy the trip reports and first hand accounts of those who have been through the process. When these flame wars start, it does everyone a disservice. And when it gets personal......whew. I remember the old adage "Critisize the Performance...not the Performer" I don't know anyone personally on this board, but petty crap is petty crap where ever it comes from. Try to elevate the dialogue for everyone's benefit, please.