Latin Love Mates????

[Thomas]

... in response to Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by DaveyRich1 on Aug 9, 2001

Hey Beto. You werent happy with Latin Encounters or you just didnt find what you were looking for? I was planning on going to Cali in Oct and Latin Encounters is number 1 on my short list. I am also in my (late) twenties. Ive also thought about the issue of wheter the ladies are already talking to gringos or not. Im sure the best looking ladies get the most inteveiws etc. Do you recommend Latin Encounters for someones first trip? Its hard for me to imagine that you didnt find what you were looking for after being there twice. My mindset is dont even worry about whats on the websites and just judge when you get there.Thanks in advance for your help brother.

[Larry in Dallas]

... in response to Re: Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by Thomas on Aug 10, 2001

Dear  sir:

  I also love Latin Encounters.  The agency has great looking women.  Sorry, but i took the best one and she is now my wife in Texas!!!!!!!!!

                                   Larry in Dallas

[Beto]

... in response to Re: Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by Thomas on Aug 10, 2001

Thomas,
I had a great time at Latin Encounters. I met two great women and I had the time of my life dancing and dining out on my dates with my dates but the girls I met we went out got all close and then they are slacking on their end of the relationship. She has not written in over a month and I call her about once or twice a week. Margareth is great and she in my close friend. I highly recommend her agency. For me I feel that the lady for me is not there because I went on many dates and the majority seemed to like me alot because they are still asking about me(not to sound cocky). I had a great advantage because I am only 26 and bilingual. It was easier for me to be more intimate with them. I feel that I am going to try Latin Love mates but I don't want to pay a membership but I still want to stay in the agency and make a few appointments.  I am still young but am getting ready to settle down but I don't want to rush into anything that is not right. If I were to meet someone this trip that blew me out of the water I would think about an engagement but would not get married for some time. I am still a little confused about my feelings but maybe this trip will help. Take care

[Patrick]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by Beto on Aug 10, 2001

Just my opinion, but I think it's a bit harder for the young guys simply because they are dealing with younger women (at least, thats what I would hope). The younger ladies tend to be less serious about relationships, particularly long distance ones.  Going out with Americans while they're in town is fun for a lot of them, but actually settling down with one is another matter.  I think there's a fair number of younger ladies who join the agencies more out of a sense of adventure than to really find someone to marry.  When they just go in to meet some guy and are asked out for a date, many will accept, but when it comes down to continuing a long distance relationship, many don't make the effort.

[rafael]

... in response to Young women, posted by Patrick on Aug 10, 2001

While I agree that many of the younger women are less mature and serious, I think you will find that single or divorced Moms tend to mature a little bit quicker. Having a Child
tends to do that to people.

I also think that once an agency "scene" gets more known, the news spreads pretty quickly amongst the less serious, "free night on a Gringo" girls. that doesn't mean that there are not a ton of great ladies available, I just think that the more prevalent the agencies become the ratio of serious, versus "party girls" or GCS goes down.

[Edge]

... in response to Young women, posted by Patrick on Aug 10, 2001

I was just talking to my novia and she has a friend (amiga) who she is trying to set up because she has some other gringo friends.  My novia likes to play matchmaker here or there when she can.  One of the gringos is down in Cali now visiting her amiga.  Her amiga is 29 and my novia is coming to the conclusion that she is just not quite ready yet to get married.  She is still "adventurous" (the word my novia used) at 29 so you are probably going to run into this more with the younger women.  

[Beto]

... in response to Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by DaveyRich1 on Aug 9, 2001

How long ago was it when you were there and did you have to buy a membership which the guy in the Miami office told me was $550. Were you visiting other agencies while you were there or just Latin Love Mates. I am 26 years old and bilingual. I have been to Latin Encounters twice but did not find what I was looking for. The ladies on the website who are in my age group, there is no way of knowing if the girls on the website are already talking to a gringo. I want to call the agency in Cali to ask but I believe they will say oh no they all are not talking to anyone and then when I arrive they are not available. I do not want to pay $550 +50 a night if the ladies that interest me are already taken. Do you have any advice on how to go about this. There are about 5 in the 18-24 range most are 18.  I talked to the guy in the Miami office and he told me the last tour group six got engaged while down there in there first trip. Is this normal or do you find it strange?  Thanks again

[Patrick]

... in response to Re: Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by Beto on Aug 10, 2001

I don't think any agency can tell you if each of their female members is "talking to" someone.  Nobody could monitor the ladies' relationships that closely, nor would most of the ladies stand for that level of intrusion into their personal life.

I find the notion of guys getting engaged to someone they just met a bit disturbing, but maybe they were there on  repeat visits to the same woman.  Don't let fear of losing a lady because some other gringo may commit faster push you into making a very important decision too quickly or you could be making a mistake.

[Beto]

... in response to A bit unrealistic, posted by Patrick on Aug 10, 2001

Patrick,

I agree with you it is just difficult at times always wondering what they are doing while you are not there with others. I don't want to make a mistake by doing something before I am ready. Do you think it would be alright if for example one were to meet someone on a trip and proposed to the young lady and did not get married right away but gave it some time? You are right about the young 18 and 19 year olds. I don't know how to handle this because how do I know if it is for real or she is just having a good time? Being 26 what do you recommend for my next trip in November to Latin Love Mates? Thanks for your advice.

[Patrick]

... in response to Re: A bit unrealistic, posted by Beto on Aug 10, 2001

I really can't give you any advice for how to spot the more serious young ones.  You may have already hit upon it-  If they continue contact with you after you've left, then they're interested.  If not, then move on.

[DaveyRich1]

... in response to Re: Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by Beto on Aug 10, 2001

BetoHello My advice would to make reservations the first night at the windsor plaza and go personally to the agencies
you can make a better deal in person with cash in hand their was no one staying there and i had a friend with me no $550 fee just 100 for 6appts. good luck

[rafael]

... in response to Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by DaveyRich1 on Aug 9, 2001

Just a FYI, besides making your posts very hard to read, typing in ALL caps is considered "yelling" on the internet.
Just a little , "nettiquette" info for you.

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Latin Love Mates?, posted by DaveyRich1 on Aug 9, 2001

It's on the extreme left of your keyboard, third one up from the bottom, it says "Caps Lock", press it (once only, please) and those ugly upper case letters will go away and your posts will be so much easier for all of us to read.

Thank you, come again.