... in response to Re: Re: Questions about documents., posted by JJ27 on May 10, 2003The main advantage of a fiancée visa is that it gives you a little more time to be sure that you both are really ready for marriage and it gives you a chance to “live together” for up to 90 days if that’s important to you. It used to be that the fiancée visa was much faster as far as getting her here. With the new K-3/K-4 visa categories, the wait for a visa after marrying overseas should be at least as short or usually shorter than the wait for a fiancée visa.
If you are both virtually certain that you are want to marry and you are both comfortable that you know each other well enough to make the commitment, then a wedding overseas can be wonderful. Most Filipinas will want a nice church wedding with their family and friends present and a traditional Filipino wedding is a blast. A “large” church wedding in the Phils will run about $2,000 to $6,000 depending on the venue and how big you want it. A comparable wedding in the States would probably cost 5-7 times as much. If you both want a simple civil ceremony, then it can be done over there for about $10 to $15.
If you marry over there, you will file a petition for an immigrant visa (CR-1/IR-1) with a Form I-130. A week or two after you file the I-130, you will receive a receipt notice (NOA-1) and then you can file a K-3 petition, which allows your wife to enter on a temporary visa while the INS paperwork is being processed. With the K-3 option, you are probably looking at a total wait of about 4-6 months for her to get a visa. With the fiancée visa, you’re probably looking at 6-12 months to get a visa since you’re using filing through Nebraska.
Either way, you can look forward to long separations, tons of paperwork, many sleepless nights, spending lots of money, and about 3-4 years of putting up with the immigration B.S. Yes, it’s all worth it!
Ray