This will be my last message on this board.
I have been completely defeated by my wife Natasha, she has won the final battle, I give up now, as I should have long ago. People gave me advice not to try to get even with Natasha, not to even think about Natasha, but as always, I didn't listen.
Here is what happen to me: I had staked out our apartment and was successful after waiting some 14 hours for her to come to the apartment, at which time I was able to snag the car our from underneath her, I parked the car in a safe place where she wouldn't be able to find it. I kept the car hidden for a week or so.
Yesterday, Natasha came over to the apartment and told me that she is out of money, that her boyfriend Christopher had broken up with her, and that she had no place to stay. She proposed that she move back in, get a job, pay for half of all the bills until our lease expired, live as roommates, but not see any other guys. Also she indicated that her mother is coming from Russia soon, which was further proof that she would stay at the apartment so her mother had a place to stay.
Needless to say, being the fool that I am, I believed her. She gave me back my computer that she took out of the apartment, she moved her stuff back into the apartment, at which time if I had wanted to, I could have easily taken her suitcases and her clothes and left with them, keeping the car and totally screwing her. No doubt she would have had to go home at that point.
But she talked me into this deal, so I gave the car back to her at about 5:00 yesterday, at 10:00 pm she said she wanted to go workout, I thought that was sort of odd to go workout so late, but still I believed her, after all her stuff was still in the apartment. She never came home last night; she took off with the car. So I took her suitcases and put them into storage early this morning. Today she came over with the car, I saw that I had the opportunity to take it once again; she was demanding to get back her stuff.
I saw that if I played this just right, I could once again take back the car and have her stuff at the same time, totally screwing her. So I told her to meet me at the apartment at 2:00 pm, she agreed and I went to the storage the got her things, and the agreement we had was that I give her things back, she sign off on the lease, taking her name off of it. Once she did this, I would attempt to take the car back.
Well that completely backfired on me, on my way back to the apartment, she spotted me and made a u-turn and got right behind me, her things were in the back of the truck. I parked and grabbed her suitcases and started walking up the stairs with them, telling her that she has to make good on our deal before I give her suitcases back to her, she said no she won't do that and grabbed the suitcases, I let her have one of them and then I tried to make it upstairs with a 100 lbs suitcase, she chased me again and grabbed the suitcase again, I could have gotten it from her, but I didn't want to get too physical with her. So I ran to the car and attempted to get inside, she ran right behind me, and as I opened the car door and got inside, she literally jumped into the driver seat with me screaming at the top of her lungs, scratching my entire face up, at which point I could not do anything unless I wanted to hurt her. The car blocked my truck so that I could not even leave with me truck.
The neighbors hearing the screaming came outside by the dozens, they called the police, the police showed up and by some miracle, did not arrest me. I should be in country jail right now, but instead I'm free but will have to show up to court for this. The officer informed me that they have been out to the apartment before where Natasha claimed that I abused her.
I had changed the locks, but the officer made me give her the key, so now Natasha can come and go again anytime she wants in my apartment, free to take anything she wants. She has the car again, she has her stuff again, and I have been completely defeated by her. Now I'm the bad guy since the police have been called out twice for alleged abuse.
I've been defeated, and I'm very depressed about it, she has completely ruined my life and gotten away with it, my credit will be destroyed now.
This girl has been my worst nightmare of my life, she has a 20,000 dollar Mitsubishi Eclipse, and her stuff, a free pass to come and go in my apartment all she wants, a boyfriend to sleep with whenever she wants, and I'm totally screwed.
I give up, from this day forward, I will only think of myself, I will try my best to piece my life back together, but today is the worst day of my life, I cannot believe this has happened to me, I cannot believe Natasha has done this to me, and I cannot believe she will end up getting away with this.
I never knew a person could be so evil, but now I do, I'll never forget this.
To any of you like Oscar who keep saying my story is not true, I wish more than you could know that you were right, but most unfortunately, it is true, and I have been played the fool so hard, so many times now, that I have nobody to blame but myself, and I do.
To all of you that are happily married, you are very lucky, I can only wish I were in your shoes. This is my last post, please never do what I have done, please do not be a fool like I am.
I hope that things will get better for me, I really do.
Take care guys,
David