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Oatmeal
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« on: August 16, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »

I just wanted to bring this post up to the top.

I read your post below about asking about a womans age and if you should pursue a woman much younger than yourself.

So I just wanted to share some thoughts my father told me when I was looking for a bride.

DISCLAIMER:  Not all people fit the same mold, so this is a very generalized statement but I still feel that is holds a lot of truth.

When I was looking for a bride my father was actually encouraging me to look for a woman who was in her late 20's (I am 33 years old.)

His advice was sound.  My father relates people to animals alot in that, despite our ability to act unnaturally, we still have natural instincts as a species.

He said that generally when a woman gets into her mid to late 20's she goes into a nesting stage in her life where she feels the need to bear children and settle down.  Eventhough she may not be aware of it, oftentimes a woman will concentrate on fixing up the home (decorating, remodelling, etc..)and have a need to find a more stable relationship.  Things like stability and safety become more important.  

My father feels it's the natural nesting stage in a womans life.  In any case I personally feel that a woman nearing her late 20's is still worth considering if you can still keep up with her physically.  Believe it or not it is sometimes more difficult than it sounds.  I have only realized this myself in the past few months despite my successful marriage.

My suggestion:  If you are in pretty good physical shape and somewhat decent looking gentleman then I say, why not consider some lady who is 28 or 29 years old.  If the match is good then why not.  Just be very frank about your true nature when at home.  For example:  My wife is at the age where she really loves disco's more like I was in my early to mid-twenties.  Now I am at the stage where I more prefer to relax with good friends.  I still go dancing sometimes but less than before. So this is one area we both compromise on a little, sometimes I do what she wants, and sometimes we do what I want.  

Be ready for compromise.

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MarkInTx
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« Reply #1 on: August 16, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to To julio99, posted by Oatmeal on Aug 16, 2002

My disclaimer is that what I am about to say refers to AWs I have known...

The AWs I have known have gone through a profound change at about age thirty.

Often times, I see a woman in the age range of 29 - 31 go through a MAJOR change.

This has included things like changing sexual orientation (i.e. she's now a lesbian), or having an affair, or getting a divorce, or changing careers, or going back to school. I have seen it all and it usually happens at that magic age.

There is the old saying that men go through a "mid-life" crisis at about age 40.

Women seem to have a "crisis" as well, though I think it is driven by something different. At age thirty is about the time women begin to hit their sexual peak. I think that they are suddenly hit with feelings similar to the ones we had at 18 (remember that???)

Not all women go radical, of course.

But I have watched many marriages blow up about that time in a woman's life. It is anecdotal, but it is what I have noticed.

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Apk1
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« Reply #2 on: August 16, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to My Experience, posted by MarkInTx on Aug 16, 2002

I do not agree, woman do not peak sexually in thier early thirties...at least I never met any woman that was as horney as my 40 y.o. Russian wife! And I am not complaining (smile). If someone told me that I peaked at age 18...I would say that I probably could not keep "UP" with my current activity...at age 46, maybe I am a late bloomer..

My wife had a Moscow girlfriend who married an Italian 45 y.o. man a few years ago, she was told that men "that" age can only service them 2 or 3 times a month,she thought she could live with that no problem...she was not getting any younger herself.

Now(smile)...it is every day...(smile)

I am not bragging...or telling everyone to expect the same *experience* as I am having...but the sexual peak for a woman can is no magic age...it is different for each one.

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James B
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« Reply #3 on: August 16, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: My Experience, posted by Apk1 on Aug 16, 2002

I have to agree that age has less to do with sexual performance and peak than physical and emotional attraction. At 43 and my fiancee 36, I can say that I have never performed better and the incredible feelings of desire and love that we have for each other keeps both of us going day and night.  Yes, it's necessary to take a couple of days off once in a while, but a woman's natural physical difference takes care of that necessity.  I guess that the stage of decline will come with age, but definately not now.  When the love between to people is so strong and incredible, even a look, a touch, a kiss is all that is necessary to energize even the oldest man in the world.  

Just my thoughts at 43 and hope they never change.

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BrianN
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« Reply #4 on: August 18, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Re: My Experience, posted by James B on Aug 16, 2002

good post.
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MarkInTx
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« Reply #5 on: August 16, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: My Experience, posted by Apk1 on Aug 16, 2002


I am simply going by common medical guidelines.

Men hit their sexual peak about 18 years of age.

Women between the ages of 30 and 35 -- according to all of the studies I have read.

That does NOT mean, however, that a man who is thirty, or a woman who is 40 cannot have and enjoy sex frequently...

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