... in response to What do you guys think?, posted by Jeff on Aug 6, 2002Is that this guy supposedly married this girl at age 36, and she would've been 20.
She's got a lot of growing up to do, (well maybe, ya never know), and he, as a self professed loser at 36 may have some growing up to do himself. I'm not bashing age differences for the sake of it, but if you're 36 years old, and willing to take the risk of marrying someone that much younger, then you got no one to blame but yourself for crappy results.
The dude sounds real, and I think he's an honest john on the surface. Only the likes of Jack et-al could determine if it's a claire sub whatever making this post. This guy sounds a lot like me (if he/she is a guy). But in my opinion, he's actually being grateful for what he has by posting. However, to be read as some scammer idiot claire posting, he's going after American divorce rate. Obfuscating his issue by making pointers to it from the aspect of being a Canadian.
Maybe your wife is right, and you should be like Rob. It takes years to get to this point Jeff, and if your age in your profile is correct, then consider the age and life experiences that figured into this assumption.
You gotta remember a couple of things though... and that
1. Always respect the lady, (wife), as an individual person with her own specific needs. (That alone could take 4 - 40 pages of writing.)
2. Be a man.
That's a tough mix but it can work.
Good luck.
PS: If you're not like Rob, then what are you like?
