Where should I look?

[Cinderella]

Hi dear gentlemen,

Again I wasted a lot of time on a man who lied to me several times.  I wonder why does this constantly happen to me?

Well, anyway I am searching again.  Could you please advise what are the good sites where you (American men) are particularly searching for Russian girls?

And one more question?  It seems to me that most of the young men (under 35) are looking for ladies without children.  And most of the older men... I am not interested in... sorry.  Am I right with this statistics?

[MarkInTx]

... in response to Where should I look?, posted by Cinderella on Jun 2, 2002

You say this man "Lied to you several times..." But, you don't tell us how he lied?

As for the children issue... I am assuming that you have children? Some men are looking for women with children. (I was). But many of these men have children also. Is that what you want?

To be honest, there aren't many men under 35 looking. Most men under 35 are either A) On their first marriage to an American Women (statisticallyl, it stands a 50% chance of failing) or B) Has not given up on American Women yet of C) Does not yet have th emoney neccessary to undertake looking for a woman in another country.

If you expanded your range to 40, you would probably find many sincere men who would be happy to find a young woman with a child.

Of course, I do not know how old you are. Perhaps 40 is too old...

[Oatmeal]

... in response to Where should I look?, posted by Cinderella on Jun 2, 2002

It is always terrible when you feel someone lied to you and that you wasted your time.

I also spent about 5 months on a girl who I felt never really had any serious intentions on marriage.  I also felt that I had wasted time there but in the end I was successful.

There is no way to be sure about someones true intentions from the beginning.  It always takes a certain amount of faith in the other person.

If this board is any indication I am seeing that more and more younger men are looking overseas for brides.  I think that a lot of men in the beginning are looking for a lady without women but after some consideration they change their minds.  I hope you don't loose faith and also hope you have some success in your future.  I will keep my eyes and ears open for you here.

I wish you luck.

[dexion]

... in response to Re: That sounds terrible., posted by Oatmeal on Jun 3, 2002

Keep it up, I am 32 and children are not an issue.. We do exist.. There must be more.
dex
This is not an invitation in any way. I am happily chatting with a girl I think could be the one....I just wanted you not to give up hope.

[Mark H]

... in response to Where should I look?, posted by Cinderella on Jun 2, 2002

nfda