... in response to A little update, posted by Philb on Mar 4, 2002I hope for your sake the results are good and you're satisfied with what you find out. The more I think about your situation the more questions I seem to have. Could it be that she realizes she is a mother and not getting any younger and maybe knows that many never visit so often without making a commitment. Could she be thinking she is only your vacation friend and wants more then that. Like a card playing phrase goes "think long - think wrong". She did let her family get to know you which is a good sign meaning she expects something to come of it. I don't know?? My money is on it takes more then visits and e-mail to win her love, and she wants a man that's going to marry her and take the risk and it'll be who ever files the I-129f for her that will find this out. ( which doesn't have to mean getting married ) I truely hope she proves to you, or you know inside that she is the girl for you.
Good luck
Mike
