Simulated diamond ring

[Pete]

Last week I saw some simulated diamonds, both loose and set in white or yellow 14ct gold. Both looked quite good; very hard to tell them from real diamonds. If you are thinking of giving a Russian girl a diamond ring, these may suffice without breaking your bank.
By comparison, a 1ct simulated stone in a white gold setting costs about $180, while a real diamond of the same size and similar setting would cost about $9,000.00. Might be worth looking at.

[Scaught]

... in response to Simulated diamond ring, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

I decided to buy a diamond engagement ring with platinum setting even though it isn't a FSU custom because she'll be living in the U.S. and women do compare these things. I decided to buy a real diamond because after researching how them I discovered how easy it was, in general, to tell the real from the fake. A real diamond that is well-cut seems to be alive. I don't know how else to put it. When a little light hits it, it sparkles like it is a living entity and it is fascinating to look at.

Most people posted about the importance of being honest. Whether you get a fake diamond or real one, I agree that honesty is the best policy because this gift is in the context of a loving relationship, built on trust (and other qualities). If you can't afford a diamond ring now, a first or fifth anniversary would be a wonderful excuse to buy one. But don't feel pressured or rushed to get one. And should you decide to get one, get whatever is appropriate for your socioeconomic status/budget. Diamonds just under a carat can be imperceptibly smaller than a carat but much less expensive and just as beautiful. Right-- no need to buy into the DeBeer's marketing bunk about three month's salary, or whatever crap propaganda they are spreading. Of course diamonds at best symbolize but can never be a substitute for what is in your heart.

A side note: My American friend bought a diamond ring for his American wife-to-be about ten years ago when they were getting engaged. She stipulated that she wouldn't marry him unless the diamond were at least one full carat in size! He proceeded with the marriage! Unbelieveable! He bought her a ring that cost about five or six grand. He had a serious music hobby and after marriage he "had" to store his whole studio and never use it. Thankfully, this nightmare didn't last more than a couple years although the scars are still healing. He's one of the top recording engineers in the U.S. now, no thanks to her!

Somewhat related: There was a thread about American women initiating divorces. Typical slanted journalist tipped in favor of spreading the female power myths!!! If you look deeper than the surface, I bet you'll find that it was in many/most of those cases the man who actually "initiated" the divorce (not the paperwork, but the REAL breakdown of the relationship) because the woman let herself go physically, made outrageously selfish demands, among a host of other reasons. You just KNOW this is true! This is exactly why I don't have a TV (and must watch the Super Bowl at a restaurant today).

[rojak]

... in response to Simulated diamond ring, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

Nothing wrong with this idea Pete, so long as you tell your girl that you are giving her a C Z. This look-alike product can be very beautiful. (And cheap.) But I am assuming you wouldn't try to pretend that it is the real thing. Would you? If so you are pond scum....ANY jeweler in any mall in America can instantly tell the difference...And so much for your sincerity in this pursuit.

[Natalya]

... in response to Re: Simulated diamond ring, posted by rojak on Feb 1, 2002

Good point Rojak!!!

[wsbill]

... in response to Simulated diamond ring, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

Just getting your lady a wedding band and nothing fancy at first, then after time.  You could redo your wedding vows with the real Mccoy.

If she ever had that fake diamond examined, you'd be in a world of hurt if she found out.

[Richard]

... in response to Re: Somebody once mention the idea of, posted by wsbill on Feb 1, 2002

I believe that some have spoken about having two wedding ceremonies: one here to satisfy the INS & our families and another one back in the FSU for her family.  The second ceremony might be an opportunity to introduce a new ring or set of rings if the timing is right and funding permits.

[thesearch]

... in response to Simulated diamond ring, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

There is a place for practical and there is a place that is not for that.

A Phoney stone may not be a big deal for you and I totally understand - you are simply being practical but for a woman it is important and not because of wanting something more expensive it is about what it represents. If you get her a phoney ring it is like telling her that she is not special, it is like verbally giving a commitment without backing it up with integrity plain and simple. Hey - do not argue with me - talk to women.

Pete, if you do not like the way women think marry a man. It won't be too hard to find a guy to agree with you. Pete, you ain't going to change women - sorry to break the news -

A woman in love will accept a small stone or just a gold band and as you can afford you can upgrade. Just tell her that this is all you can afford at this time and what you plan. Simply get your gem at a place that accepts returns for upgrades.

You can not afford to blow this one - trust me

[tfcrew]

... in response to Simulated diamond ring, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

.....you can get a very nice (real) engagement ring.
Second hand? Shhh... they should never know.
Some big expensive stone? Nah, not necessary.

[Ryan]

... in response to For the same $180..., posted by tfcrew on Jan 31, 2002

With the divorce rate in this country you should be albe to find that deal all day... Great suggestion..
Ryan

[tim360z]

... in response to Simulated diamond ring, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

yourself a life.  Go post on Bluelightdotcom---Cccchhhheeezzzz,  what a luser...........

[tim360z]

... in response to Mr. Zirconite,  Zirconium,  come on get, posted by tim360z on Jan 31, 2002

girl finds out (as eventually girls do)........she will think you are a lowlife scuzball...which you probably are.

[Pete]

... in response to Pppppssssss:  And when the, posted by tim360z on Jan 31, 2002

Mr. tim360z. Your obvious lack of education and command of English spelling makes your posts painful to read.
Do us a favor and return to a school where you can learn effective communication, common courtesy, manners, and perhaps how to be civil.

[tim360z]

... in response to Kindly do not respond, posted by Pete on Jan 31, 2002

furthermore,  you seem to be just the caliber guy who would try to peddle "paste" to some girl.  You deserve your just reward and results.  Whhhaaatttssmmattaa 'wit you postin' that drek...go back to your anonymous user aisle. Aisle#12

[Ryan]

... in response to Pppppssssss:  And when the, posted by tim360z on Jan 31, 2002

Chill-out my man...  And stop messing with my bluelight they are allready in chapter 11.  Hey and the stock went up $1 on Wednesday.  Mark my word they are comming back...  They are getting Disney line and I thing they still have Martha stuart..  They will come back...  Buy Buy that stock...

[tim360z]

... in response to Wow...., posted by Ryan on Jan 31, 2002

I was now really trying to slight KMart..they are good for some products...Diamonds---maybe not.