another post about infidelity

[pat]

This is so true, and actually i was kinda dissapointed about this this summer...I met about 10 russian girls(20 to 32) in moscow,(not by agencies and not in a marriage mind, but mostly through peopole i met at the university), and i haven't seen a single faithful one!!
this is not to say bad things about RW, but this is only what i've seen with my own eyes..

But the thing that stunned me more:

I was with my girlfriend, and those who have read my trip report know a little bit of the story.This was the last day we were together, and i had just cam back from Yoshkar-Ola, where i went to meet a girl i had been corresponding with for about a year.
Nothing happened in Y-O, but i'm pretty sure it could have.Anyway, i told this girl i was with at that time(marina) that i had a gf in moscow, so nothing would happen between us.
And there i was back with my gf(who by the way was professing her deep love for me at least 3 times a day), showing her pictures(because i had told her i went there, but i had also told her that we were friends only with marina and that i would be faithful. SHe asked me many times to "be a good boy"(i was actually younger than her, for 6 years:))
So, she was looking at the pics of me and Marina, and she said:"what a nice couple, she's cute , and you look really fine together.So was it good?", but with no anger tone at all in her voice.
And i told her that nothing happened , that i had even told Marin about her and so on... SHe just couldn't believe me, she thoughti was lying, and when she saw i said the truth, she added:"i really can't understand you, she's beautiful, she's 10 year younger than me and you haven't f *cked her, i can't beléieve it!"

So basically i asked her if that meant that's what she would do when i'll be gone even if we decided to stay together(in that case we were supposed to meet 3 months later), and she laughed like i asked the most stupid wquestion ever and that was it...

And this summarize quite well what i have seen with other girl i have not been with, and even the WIFE of a russian firnd who was getting phone calls from an american in presence of her husband and was suddenly feeling really embarasssed, and i have still plenty of examples...

HOnestly, i think i have found a sincer RW, this girl in Y-O, but if it doesn't work with her, i'll give up and i'll just go to RUssia for s*x!!

[BrianN]

... in response to another post about infidelity, posted by pat on Dec 12, 2001

about the suspect attitude, and assumptions that they can make.

so many of these women think all AM, are just like the russian counter-parts... simply amazing to be lumped in with all the rest.

bt, dt...

[Stevo]

... in response to another post about infidelity, posted by pat on Dec 12, 2001

You guys can believe it or not, but RW EXPECT you to have sex with other women. It is almost some kind of bizarre badge of honor with them. If you can attract other women, then it confirms your desirability and manliness in their eyes. Just remember, spend your money on your wife, not your 'lover woman'!
When my wife found out that I had a Norwegian blond 'goddess' (23) staying at my house several months before she came over here, she was incensed that I had not 'f****d' her as 'payment' for letting her stay with me free of charge while she was attending the local comunity college. After all, what kind of man was I? If this girl was staying with me free of charge, she should have expected to give me sex in exchange...that was only natural.

Now you won't believe this, but my blond friend from Norway flew over to attend our wedding and when my wife found out she was going to be there, she blew her stack (easy for a RW!). My wife didn't want to see her at the wedding. Now get this, she told me that if my friend showed up, the only way she would be allowed to attend the wedding was if I 'f****d' her beforehand!

Any way, my friend got sick and couldn't attend, so everything worked out in the end.

Stevo

[WmGo]

... in response to I posted this last year...sounds similar..., posted by Stevo on Dec 12, 2001

in Russia last summer, one women I met was convinced that I "must have 'had' a thousand women." She asked this question with a sense of pride to the effect that she was proud to be with such a studly man. When I told her that the true number would be significanly lower than her estimate she was visibly dissapointed...LOL

[BubbaGump]

... in response to another post about infidelity, posted by pat on Dec 12, 2001

Things might have gone a whole lot differently then.  I posted an article a few weeks ago about sex on the first date being a popular Ukrainian custom.  I think Ukraine will be my next destination.

[Scaught]

... in response to another post about infidelity, posted by pat on Dec 12, 2001

xRG

[DR]

... in response to another post about infidelity, posted by pat on Dec 12, 2001

n/t

[DR]

... in response to Un-F'ing-believable!  D@mn!  n/t, posted by DR on Dec 12, 2001

Maybe it's the way you phrased the following passages, but your story sounds screwy:

"I had just cam back from Yoshkar-Ola, where i went to meet a where i went to meet a girl i had been corresponding with for about a year. Nothing happened in Y-O, but i'm pretty sure it could have. Anyway, i told this girl i was with at that time(marina) that i had a gf in moscow, so nothing would happen between us."

If you had a *serious* girlfriend, why did you go see this other girl on YO?  Why didn't you take your *serious* girlfriend with you?  You admit you *could have* had sex if *you* wanted.  That being the case, why did you go in the first place?  As a general rule, I stay away from fast and free women; why tempt myself?

Your entire argument is perverse in that you lament:
"i haven't seen a single faithful one" when, in fact, it seems you were the unfaithful one; you ditched your *serious* girlfriend for *a girl i had been corresponding with for about a year*.  Why did you continue to write this girl when you had a girlfriend?

Doesn't anyone else find these facts a bit strange?

[pat]

... in response to Clarification on 'Un-F'ing-believable! D..., posted by DR on Dec 13, 2001

WTF r u talking about?? i'm tired of these people trying to make assumptions in order to prove idon't know what, but it just bores me out of my mind this is why i post so seldom here...

BUT..i'll explainmyself...i was writing to MArina way before i met that girlin moscow. I was suppposed to ge see MArina, everything was planned, and after that i met this girl in Moscow, and what happened happened. MArina seemed real nice, and i thought i had to go see her anyway. MY plan was i f we really hit off, i would have dumped my moscow gf... actually i think i really should have dumped her 1st and be with Marina after that, that was my biggest summer mistake!!
clearer now?

[pat]

... in response to another post about infidelity, posted by pat on Dec 12, 2001

oops actaully this was 1st meant to be an answer to another post but i forgot to change the intro