There is an old saying.......

well there are many, but the thing about all of this talk, hair pulling, name calling girly stuff is it really does not matter. If guys are apt to get the short end of the stick-it is for a reason. The reason I did not fail in my search was 1. I was not looking for a wife. and 2. I do not Lose-------ever. Sometimes I fall short, but there is always another road. So the reason that many guys here disagree with me here is that WE SIMLPLY HAVE DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES. And there is nothing wrong with that. I have been a renegade since I can remember. I have owmed my own company for years and I have made it---------by myself(now with the help of my wife)and with many people telling me "Joe you never will make it". When guys talk to me like they do on this board-------it is like Jet Fuel for me. I can conquer the world just because someone says it cannot. I do not believe in failure and do not accept it------if I make an error in judgment, I shake it off, learn from it and move on. I never never take the same path twice----life is too short.
Is this for every one.........for God's sake NO. Few people can go through what I have and not be a criminal or politician. So just remember that for the strong, insults and petty accusations filled with animosity and fear-------will just make us stronger.
Yes, many guys will get hurt-------they will get hurt just as bad here and they will not even get to appreciate the journey-that is too bad. Others will go and find a wife or not and still revel in the fact that they had a life changing experience-----and that is what is important. What is that worth? I would not change it for a winning lottery ticket.
Good luck to those who venture and my condolences to those who do not.
Peace Joe