I talked about 2 guys who came here and howethery were doing.I got busy on some other things but also wanted to see how it would play out,one guys experiences were all over the place.
My friend Charley from San Jose had not been here before,He was enjoying everything but also I think he was sort of on hold with womnen,waiting to see how it would work out with the womnan he would be meeting in Baranquilla he had beem mailing for months.He should have gone their first,because it held him back here.
He went to A quince anos celebratrion for Beatriz's niece with us.Beartiz's 41 year old attorney sister really liked him.She has never been married,no kids,doesn't want any.Nice looking for 41,slightly heavy but volumtious.They saw each other a couple times,he really has a good time.He is looking for a subsevient type wife,fears she is too strong for him.Says the age and appearance not an issue.He is 56,looks about that.
He went to Baranquilla,metvthe 24 year old he had been mailing.She is very shy asnd he was thinking not interested but yesterday they had a long talk,this guy gets right down to it in what he wants,ect.She liked that,warmed up.I talked to him last night.He is heading home this morning.They will mail.Its possible after meeting the mail relationship might get even better.BUT,long distance long shot I think.Its tough if you can't spend alot of time here.
The other guy,also from SAn Jose but we had not met before an interesting situation.I call him Ted,I never did ask if I could use his real name.I was guessing his age,then though the numbrer really doesn't matter anyway,its how you are percieved.I thought 50.He is 58.A good looking with it 58.Sharp guy,in sales but still does part time acting and modeling.Looks WAY better than alot of guys who
tell me they are 40 somthing.
He is going for the hot model type.I see lots of guys look at agency books,pick the hottets girls,go for them ewihout any thought if they are really a candidate.This guys is,marginally,because of the 30-37 year age difference of the girls he was pursuing.I can here some of our youngs guys now,like Sake I think that thinks you have to be much closer in age and this kind of difference is purley an asault on the wallet,and that is usually true,but I can tell for Ted its A possibilty.And my 23 year age difference is no problem,but Beatriz is 39.
OK,the night they get here Ted has this young hottie in tow,she met him at the airport.They had been mailing for a couple of months,through Cali VIP,I mentioned if you do it that way at leasst you get alot of pictures,know what she looks like.They seem to really be hitting it off.I am thinking it could be just that simple when you each find the person you think you want.She is back over the next day with her cute little girl.This woman is 28 I think but looks about 22.Lots of hot photos on Cali Vip Exclusive gallery,but I will not say who she is.Mike even warns him,she doesn't have a job buts seems to be doing well,perhaps there is a guy taking care of her.
So,its looking real good.We go off the the quince anos party,stay out untill 3AM.I talk to Ted the next morning.He is bummed out.The woman did a 360 on him,abruptly changed,he does not know what is going on.And she then becomnes impossiblec to get ahold of.I tell him forget her,she WOULD NOT do thst if she was interested in you,and type do not have to understand why,move on.He does,reluctsantly.This is Sunday by Monday he hass several more hot ones lined up.Bottopm line,all seem similar,show inituial interest thenn fade on him.He is really getting frustrated.I tell him it comes with the territorry.They may be interested in the total package but not you perhaps just TOO much age diffence,plus the hottie has options,is probably a bad bet even if you are 35.
.Finally we get ahold of girl no one.She has a whole list of complaints about him.I am thinking that might be true,but I think thats an excuse,there is something,like another guy going on.She is stll hard to get ahold of.Yesterday he is trying,its his last day.We go off looking at Realm Estate,return about 6.30.He has another girl here,one the girls he was hot forvhere.She has faded on him.Also.Beatriz initially likes her,then too much percieved as a lie for her to accept.But I feel for thre girl,she has it tough,no job also.But not tough enough apparently to wants Ted,but Tells Beatriz she would consider marrying him,but does not want sex before.B tells Ted,he says no way I sam doing that.I say good,I did that,real stupid.He then head out about 8 PM to see girl no one.He come bask all excited,they have patched it up,are hot for one another,will mail alot.My take,she may want him aqs a long distance sugar daddy,not want him when he is here getting ihn her way.
OK,my thoughts,unless are young and hot you better leave the young hotties alone,and might want to even if you are young and hot.They have too many choices,like AM,and get used to using guys.One I didn't mention,a real ice queennstuck on herself,no expression,then comes on to Ted when he enters.I would KICK HER TO THE CURB IN 30 SECONDS.Butv he likeshere,because she is hot.My opinion,back off a notch away fom the model types to women who are still attactive and not spoiled.And if you are 50 plus look 30 plus.You will find some real winners who will treat you right.
Jesse is talking about returning to Medellin not Cali next month.He thinks he has fished out Cali.Not even close.He hasn't even scratched the surface,and that surface has more girls than all the agencies in Medellin.I like Medellin too.I think Cali has at least 10 times the opportunities.
A thought.Seems no on is going to Latin Encounters,maybe perrhaps the $500 minimum ?? charge?? They have about 1350 girls.Lots of good ones.If after trying the other places you might want to cough up the $500.Its not that much comapared to things like moving to another city.But mostly I think Jesse is running from 3 relationships here.He can't make up his mind,probably because none of them are it for him,but he keeps analysing instead of moving on.The main one in my opinion totally incompatable personality with him but he keeps seeing her.Maybe he doesn't want to say o more.He has done that,but then goes for it when they come back around.
OK,about me,Beatriz wants to move in.She is here about 95% of the time ass it is.I may7 break off my othr limited time relationship.Maybe just keep her for a lunch date occasionally.If it wasn't for her I would have told Beatriz Ok.Beatriz really loves me I am tottally sure.And e have not hasd one fight in our one year pluselationship.And no kids doesn't want any.I didn't efen think that was possible in Cali.
Yesterday at lunch a friend took our photo.I am not liking my picture.She is saying hermoso,I am thinking feo.Then I look atv her,cute as ever.
She is LE 0110 on LatinEncounters.also non Cali Vip.I have not asker her to remove her pictures because I have not commited to her.Plus worry not at all,I am that sure of her.We were looking at lots to build custom Houses on down By Jarmondy south of Casli Yesterday,another post.She really liked the idea,was glowing.
I couldn't do any better than her,I just need to not talk myself in to it untill I feel sure,but I am pretty close,at least to a live together situation.
Pete
