My Ex

[Pete E]

Some of my friends will cringe for sure.
But,I had dinner with my ex last night.I really like so many things about this woman.She is cute,charming,and has a very sincere manor,even though I know truthfullness in all things  is not one of her virtues.
She looked good,a few lbs heavier but in the right places,the ones I was always attracted to.She just got hired to a new job yesterday.She did this 6 month medical assisting program.It sounds like the nurses are so expensive they are splitting out some of their duties to medical assistants.She got hired at a good hospital,$19 an hour.I would have hired her too.She is so genuine and so possitive.Might  sound like a contradiction for someone who would decieve,but mostly she is very real and genuine.And such a
likable person.
I am happy for her.Long gone is any thought of wanting her to fall on her face because she rejected me.It just was not to be and mainly my fault for ever happening.I talked to my girlfriend just before I went.I said no preoccupation baby,its all in the past. I just still care about her but the relationship is long over,I tried WAY TO LONG to make it work.She said I know,I am not worried.
Wow,its just amazing to me the people whoes lives we affect just living our life.Thats so powerfull.So amazing.I am not sorry I affected this woman,her son and her family in a possitive way. I am just thankfull I was fortunate enough to be able to do so.I mean that in a sense I had to be pretty fortunate to start with to even be able to have a possitive effect.

Pete

[Heat]

... in response to My  Ex, posted by Pete E on Jul 20, 2005

I am your friend but I can not understand what you do this to yourself for. She is a user, plane and simple. She married you with the intention of green card sharking you. Why do you even talk to her?
She never once loved you.

You have Andre your Colombian "friend" working for you who talks behind your back to everyone. Overcharges you. Is a complete liar and thief. But yet you defend him and keep him around to use you some more. That guy is pure crap.

Your X girlfriend robbed your ATM card and cleaned you out.
Yet you still talk fondly of her.

Yet you have a real nice girlfriend now with a heart of gold and you don't really seem to understand that.

Pete, I really like you but you should listen to the other gringos here.

You are blind in so many ways.

[thundernco]

... in response to Re: My  Ex, posted by Heat on Jul 20, 2005

Well put Heat.  I haven't met Pete, however many of my "gringo" friends in Colombia have.  I hear the same thing over and over again: he's a GREAT guy, but somebody who allows himself to get suckered time and time again.
-TNC

[mudd]

... in response to My  Ex, posted by Pete E on Jul 20, 2005

"I would hire her too, she is so genuine and so positive"
You got to be kidding, oh yes, she is just so genuine that the sea parts when she walks, "very real and genuine” sure, now that she took some sucker to the cleaners, got her visa and had her feet planted in the USA at somebody else’s expense. Why wouldn’t she be positive, DUH!!!!  Pete, when you post junk like this, you make yourself look like a pathetic idiot. Some info you should not post.

[Heat]

... in response to Re: My  Ex, posted by mudd on Jul 20, 2005

I am your friend but I can not understand what you do this to yourself for.  She is a user, plane and simple.  She married you with the intention of green card sharking you.  Why do you even talk to her?  
She never once loved you.

You have Andre your Colombian "friend" working for you who talks behind your back to everyone.  Overcharges you. Is a complete liar and thief.  But yet you defend him and keep him around to use you some more.  That guy is pure crap.

Your X girlfriend robbed your ATM card and cleaned you out.
Yet you still talk fondly of her.

Yet you have a real nice girlfriend now with a heart of gold and you don't really seem to understand that.

Pete, I really like you but you should listen to the other gringos here.

You are blind in so many ways.

[stefang]

... in response to Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by Heat on Jul 20, 2005

I agree with Heat why would you even talk with her. Is she that good looking that you can't see how fake she was before and probably still is? It's good your not angry about it anymore go back to the woman you have now and give her your attention not the ex.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by stefang on Jul 20, 2005

I totally agree about giving my girlfriend  my attention.I talked to her about 2 hours ago.I was talking to my friend at my apartment first.He said there is this girl here with a big smile on her face jumping up and down who wants to talk to you.Heat has her pegged.She does have a heart of gold and totally loves me.
I just had to do one more round putting my ex in perspective.I am way passed the being pissed feelings,but that can be healthy at the time.

Pete

[stefang]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by Pete E on Jul 20, 2005

It's hard to know how people handle their experiences, maybe your finally closing out your past life good luck on the new path.

[papi]

... in response to Re: My  Ex, posted by mudd on Jul 20, 2005

Mudd, I am really surprised that you would write this - you seem like a man in the know.  Pete is anything but a pathetic idiot. Have you met him? I have and can tell you that you got it wrong

[mudd]

... in response to Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by papi on Jul 20, 2005

Are you kidding, have you read all his posts on here, about getting burned by his EX Shark. And yet, (this still amazes me) he still talks to her, talks highly of her, and brings it out in the open for everyone to read. I have no sympathy for guys, who are totally blind, get burned over and over and over and just keep coming back for more. If you  post krap on here, what do you think everyone is going to think, especially after reading his history on this girl. I have no bad feelings for Pete at all, but if you post info like this, you have to expect some criticism from the board.

If somebody wants to talk krap about me, no problem, as long as its justified and i post about something.

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by mudd on Jul 20, 2005

hey, we are all human. but the ATM story i just read about is troubling. i would not be a happy camper if that happened to me

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by papi on Jul 20, 2005

The ATM story is a misunderstanding.It was not her,my girlfriend from last year,but she did steal money from me.
Guess I better not say anything about still liking some things about her.But she was way worse than my ex.

Pete

[mudd]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by papi on Jul 20, 2005

thats just the"norm" for what he puts himself into. somebody need to go "postal" :-)  just kidding, at least kick a little butt. yep we are all human

[fathertime]

... in response to Re: Re: My  Ex, posted by papi on Jul 20, 2005

I remember when my wife would bring home anger about her older sister.  She would expel and release a lot of that anger by utilizing me as a sounding board and she would end up feeling better about her sister.  Well the byproduct of that was I had an intense dislike for that older sister.  I had no way to release the anger and the sister did not do anything directly to me. I was angry FOR my wife even though she was over it.  
I think you should let Mudd release whatever anger he has since he and all of us have been a sounding board and have been angry FOR Pete. Of course names are silly but the place he comes from I can relate to.  
Fatherime

[Patrick]

... in response to Re: My  Ex, posted by mudd on Jul 20, 2005

Rather than looking like a pathetic idiot, I'd say he looks like a mature, realistic, positive man who's moved past his divorce.  Would you prefer him to dwell on the negative and bitch and moan the rest of his life about being used?