stay en los angeles or go to bogota?

[John W]

Rocket,
I'd like to hear about the two story finca with a pool that you rented for $20/day.  Were you sharing it with several other families?  Where was it located and how did you find out about it?  Was it in a safe area?  And the chica that had a two bedroom/two bath apartment with a balcony for $200/month, what barrio was that in and was it a safe one? 

[rocket]

The Finca was just outside medellin I remeber My girl Telling her Tia to set  up the reservation. I have all the fotos and info in my hotmail. I will have to search for it in the morning. The whole family went with us. We took a bus ride about an hour and a half.  slow bus . Came to a little town. very small up in the mountains. The weather was different. Very tropical.  Just out of the pueblo only about a mile was a track of fincas. All new. 1 was being built brick by brick . Very clean with paved new street. I have pictures.  We got are food from the town store.  The fincas all had Picinas. Pools.

 The owner lived in the only old house just before the fincas. At first he told my girls aunt he didnt know anything about a reservation.  An old man. She started yelling something in spanish and the next thing  he hands her the keys to the finca..  after 3 days It was time to pay the bill .  You dont pay before. It only came out to 120.000 pesos I was shocked.

I also will search for the apartment I found it thru poor but happy. I guy named  Jose.  His a very mice guy with his mom who answers the phone. He got a little mad at me . I locked myself out at 2 in the morning . The apartment has three rooms With 2 other guys from the states. It in the Salitre area close to Gran Plaza . and the United States embassy.  TJI Fridays. He wanted all the money up front.  when I got there. Has hot water and kitchen with furniture and all the utensels.  I stayed 4 weeks.

[rocket]

Here are the pictures of the finca Maybe someone will  know where they are.  I will find out. Rocket

[rocket]

finca we stated in 2 story.

[rocket]

the whole family was happy for very little money. Was a great time.

[rocket]

This very sweet girl stopped by .  the apartment. We got locked out at 2 in the morning going across  the street to buy beers  jose was called by the security  guard.  He was Pissed. , Hes a cool guy . He doesnt care who  comes by as long as your respecful and quiet. 

[Hector_Lavoe]

I have tried both to tell the truth. I started out by using latin american  cupid. I was 49 years old when I first went to Colombia . I am now 55. I am 6 ft 5 , 245 lbs . white guy born in Los Angeles.

I have a ticket to Bogota this november 29th. I always go for the Holidays.I love celebrating Christmas with a Beautiful girl.  I Really love the older girls I see in the stores and Gran Estacion in Bogota. But they are so hard to get to know.. So I always end up with a young girl. 19 years old 22 years At least 50 young ladies. I once stayed with a 19 year old in medellin. She had her own apartment. Found out right away she wanted me to pay the rent which was only 200 bucks a month 2 bedroom 2 bath .  with balcony. .. I also went to a finca with a 19 year old blond beauty. with a 2 year old.  Been to many a family presenting their  young daughter to me .   

Hey Rocky:  I hope you do whatever makes you happy. But I do want to ask you to clarify something. Please don't take any offense.

But in reference to the young girls in Medellin:  you mentioned at least one of them asked you to pay her rent.  So is that what you've based your relationships with these young ladies in Medellin on?  Helping them out with rent or childcare, etc.?  Again, I am just trying to understand how you've made this work for you (i.e., 55 yr old guy with hot 19, 20 yr old girls in Medellin).
 

 
 
 

[V_Man]

Go to Colombia, and in your spare time while you are at home hang out with the young girl, since you two enjoy each others company so much.  If you do not, ten years from now you will regret it.
I always have one or two hot young women in the states that I hang with when I am not in Colombia.  Best of both worlds.  Most here can not pull it off like me and you, thus the judgements. If they could they would be right there with you-

I am not even close to 55 but yes I could pull that off and my girl is well aware of it.
So no, I will not be "...be right there with" anyone.
Also I am not suggesting any western man should be married.
I am saying that I don't see the question.
He's 55, he is player. I gather he is happy being a player at 55.
These are facts. Not judgements.
So therefore why wouldn't he go to Bogota and bang some young girl from a poor barrio for awhile, once again?
I'm not being sarcastic.
I don't see the question.

[SkyNorth]

Rock...those eyes and lips are saying, welcome.  But those hips are saying, Danger - Will Robinson - Danger!!!
 
Just Joking - she looks angelic.

[rocket]

In response to the rental question in medellin. Yes I did pay her rent . She had 2 rooms . I could have my own room for a very afffordable rate and My own bathroom . It was a deal. And we became very good friends when she had confidence I was not going to pressure her for sex. I didnt. Thats one of the good things when your older. You dont have that driving sexual drive.  I would answer alot of questions about the USA. I live in Los Angeles. So there many things to explain about Hollywood, Disneyland, The Beach. Santa Monica. We had great conversations. I would Youtube all the sites and places..
She would never leave the apartment I noticed. It was king of strange. As long as her rent was paid and  I provided food I quess she had no reason to go outside I dont know.  She cooked Breakfast lunch and dinner for me. Her aunt had a hair salon down stairs. She  would go down stairs to talk to her . She tells me I need a hair cut and color. So i said alright no problem.   Dam they turned my hair pink it was horrible but they insisted it looked nice.

It was kind of funny because she had one of those steel doors for her room. and in the first couple days she would close and lock her door. Then as couple more days went by she would leave her door wide open .Run into my room and tell me to wake up. She called me a lazy american.  I said hey I on vacation. I think she was starting to wonder why I wasnt asking her for sex.  Im  telling the truth she started coming out of her room with short shorts on . I would never go for it.  she would sit in my lap the whole thing But I wouldnt do it. I got pictures of her in shorts  and cooking in the kitchen.     
You know why I do this? Because I know she has heard all the stories of these sexual predators called mongers out there giving everybody a bad name. Giving americans a bad rap. The whole community knew I was up there with this young pretty girl just waiting to say I told you so. The americans are all the same all they want is sex.  Then they leave and you never see him again.
I would walk outside and the kids would talk to me in their  broken english . I was a football and basketball player and can still play above average basketball.  I had to explain the wars we are always in as a country, The music. Everything . It was really alsome when they would hear   the news how I never direspected  her. You know she talked to her aunt everyday about it.   

[rocket]

Gents I fiqure when I travel. I represent my country. being an older guy where supposed to have some wisdom right?. Lets face it  The United States has alot of responsiblity. and I am just a fraction of their production. My education. My morals all come from my country, parents and education in the United States. thats why no matter where I go . I respect the girls.doesnt matter if its a date or if I go to a strip club.  Now when I go to a strip club yes now and then I take a peek. The girls are not supposed to but they always do walk up and say Where are you from? I I say Los Angeles. I dont say United States.  Then its do you want to go up stairs? and I say No I dont do that it to dangerous. Then they say so what  do you do? and I answer I go out on dates with girls or a girl. thats it.. Nothing can make me go in a little fea room. Its not like I never had sex before.
Represent    thats it.    My generation has seen alot . born in the fifties with rock and roll music. Hot rods. Korean war, vienam war. President Kennedy killed. space program. landind on the moon. Disco era. Girls everywhere. Hotpants miniskirts when in high school. More wars. computer invented. cell phone invented all in the USA. Hell and Now? 

[SkyNorth]

Rock...you have excellent taste in ladies.  And I respect your non-player approach to relationships.  I am in my mid 40s do run into a lot of nice 30-40 year olds or is that not your gig?  I ask because that's more my idea mate (I think).
 
Or is there a reason to go younger other than looks?

[Hector_Lavoe]

In response to the rental question in medellin. Yes I did pay her rent . She had 2 rooms . I could have my own room for a very afffordable rate and My own bathroom . It was a deal. And we became very good friends when she had confidence I was not going to pressure her for sex. I didnt. Thats one of the good things when your older. You dont have that driving sexual drive.  I would answer alot of questions about the USA. I live in Los Angeles. So there many things to explain about Hollywood, Disneyland, The Beach. Santa Monica. We had great conversations. I would Youtube all the sites and places..
She would never leave the apartment I noticed. It was king of strange. As long as her rent was paid and  I provided food I quess she had no reason to go outside I dont know.  She cooked Breakfast lunch and dinner for me. Her aunt had a hair salon down stairs. She  would go down stairs to talk to her . She tells me I need a hair cut and color. So i said alright no problem.   Dam they turned my hair pink it was horrible but they insisted it looked nice.

It was kind of funny because she had one of those steel doors for her room. and in the first couple days she would close and lock her door. Then as couple more days went by she would leave her door wide open .Run into my room and tell me to wake up. She called me a lazy american.  I said hey I on vacation. I think she was starting to wonder why I wasnt asking her for sex.  Im  telling the truth she started coming out of her room with short shorts on . I would never go for it.  she would sit in my lap the whole thing But I wouldnt do it. I got pictures of her in shorts  and cooking in the kitchen.     

So you flew all the way to Medellin, paid her rent, and did not have a physical relationship with her?  Nothing wrong with that but I assumed from your initial post that you were in a physical/romantic relationship with your "girlfriends" in Colomiba.
 
 

[Micky]

I have no idea what Rocket is up to,  for now I will take him at his word.  Some of what he says seems a little muddled.  The posted foto about the girl in Med,  caption says that it is a foto from Buca?  Maybe just a mistake in labeling.  With the story of the girl in L.A.,  and a couple of the girls in Colombia,  all 18-20 year olds.  The posts are a muddled conflict of father figure/potential lover.  Just not very clear to me at all.  I could care less what anyone does,  as long as it is not abusive and it is honest.  That said,  I know of NO 55 year old man in a relationship with a very young girl that it is NOT about money.  Also,  a pretty,  19 year old in her shorts,  sitting on my lap,  alone together and I am NOT going to get wood?.  I am a few years older than Rocket and I get wood thinking about it.  Rocket can say more on this,  I am not calling him a liar,  but it just does not seem kosher to me.

Micky

[rocket]

Hello Sky. I do like the older ladies. I see them all the time But there all tied up with their  beautiful kids and husbands.
I do look for them but so far not much luck. Its not impossible but its a different game, I try Latin cupid . and I dont see many. At the malls and Exito markets you see very good looking 40esh woman. In my opinion you would have to live in Colombia in order for them to commit to you. They just have so much love for their family. Not all but most.

Also in response to not having a physical relation yes I did not But this week I am going back to see her again, Shes going to be all over. She sounds exited to see me. and hinted about sex. Now that she knows me and I have a respect ful relationship with her I can  have a much better time. Its not easy dont get me wrong. But at my age its easier its not like I havent had sex before. 

Rocket

[Micky]

Rocket -


There is not much clarity in your story.  It is possible that I am just not following it as it is intended.  I need several things explained.  And if it is that you are just coming to Colombia for sex with young girls or to play Santa Clause,  I do not care,  but I am more than just a "little"  confused.


ONE - The girl and the apto -  She lives there alone,  she is 19,  does not leave the apto,  so she does not have a job to go to.  The caption says the foto is Bucamarunga,  not Medellin,  maybe that she is from Buca?
The apto is not estrato 3,  probably 5/6.  I can tell by the finish work,  brick etc.  Also the buildings in the background have estuco and paint,  not buildings one will find in common barrios.  Here and there a little, but not as I see in the photo.  19 year old girls do not,  can not live by themselves,  it simply does not happen.  Upper estrato apto,  no job,  by herself?  The only remote possibility is if she is from a VERY wealthy family,  but if that were the case,  she would not have a temporary gringo roommate,  period.


TWO -  You say that it is too hard to find a date with an "older"  women here.  I find that it is slightly easier than shooting fish in a barrel.  There are something like an "unlimited supply"  of nice looking available 40 something women here.  MANY of whom would love to have a date with any man that is breathing.  But it is EAISER for a 55 year old gringo to find a date with 19 year olds.


Your stories are saying 2 & 2 and my answers are coming up 47.  My math is not that bad,  but my understanding of your rap is VERY clouded.  Please clarify these things for me.



Micky

[davidgm50]

What exactly happens with the older Bogota women?    The dates go bad?  why?
 

[buencamino]

I'm no expert on medical facts but it's my understanding that an eighty year old man is biologically capable of getting a sixteen year old girl pregnant if he could get the sperm in her. It's nature and must have a function in the scheme of things such as a small population where most of the young men are killed off early in war. I don't think there's anything unusual about older men being attracted to younger or much women. Societal approval or disapproval is a cultural thing.

[V_Man]

Rocket I am not telling you that you should not chase young women, since you seem to be happy doing it. Frankly - why not? - would be my answer.
What would you have to gain by some other course of action? May be a better question. Not that you asked for anyone's approval or anything.

You just aren't being very clear. Personally I never understood your question from the begining. Was it rhetorical? Sorry, but I'm still confused on that point.

It's not like you said:
 "I am looking for a wife."
Or actually any goal at all.
I have to assume you are already doing what you want to do and you just want to share some of your experiences. That is quite alright with me.
What confused me was your question.

Like Micky I find a lot of the details confusing to be honest. Not that it matters to me, it is just difficult to put your experiences into context.

[htown]

It looks to me like the man just like to hang out with hot young chicks.  Nothing more nothing less.  Maybe he sleeps with them, maybe he doesn't.  Who cares?  He seems pretty damn happy and I would be too.

[SkyNorth]

Nothing wrong with hanging with the HOTTIES.

[Gato4Astrid]

Rocket

Would you, if you had a 19 years old daughter/grand-daughter like to date 70 years old men??

[Gato4Astrid]

The apto is not estrato 3,  probably 5/6.  I can tell by the finish work,  brick etc.  Also the buildings in the background have estuco and paint,  not buildings one will find in common barrios. 


Micky

My ex-novia from Bogota has the same finish work, brick etc but she is in Estrato 3 !!!   New build can be in Estrato 3 !!!

[Gato4Astrid]

Nothing wrong with hanging with the HOTTIES.

That's explains why you are STILL looking!

[SkyNorth]

Gato...you could be right there, but pretty ladies are fun.  Plus, I was marrried a long time.  And I don't go SOB to monger, I play in my own backyard.