I just wanted to add a couple of thoughts to this thread...
I think no matter the method you go about finding her is not near as important as the mindset you keep while you are in the process. It is very easy to get caught up in the moment when you are experiencing a fresh bond with a new woman. Hey we have all been there. We get super excited and I think sometimes it is during this time we are the most vulnerable to make bad decisions/mistakes.
It is important to keep a cool head and resist the temtation to leap without looking. I have seen it happen to my friends and in the end it just leads to more hurt. I truly believe we attract like minded people. So if your mindset is that you are only looking for the hottest women that will satisfy you most immediate needs... then i think you are going to find a woman who will end up being less than perfect for you in the end.
If however you trully are looking for a true life partner and are willing to treat her with respect and admiration then you will find a woman who will support you and be a good life mate. Time and time again I have seen men head south of the border to find a novia only to return and after a time of living in reality after the state of euphoria has left you realize perhaps you made a mistake.
So remember take your time. If she really loves you today she will tomorrow, next month and in 6 months. It is only just the beginning when you first get together. You will both face challenges seperate and together. As you go through those things your love will either grow stronger and your bond deeper or you will state to pull apart.
Time is the only true measure of the state of a relationship. If you are genuinly both working at your relationship your bond should only be deepening. If not then I think that answers any questions one might have as to wether she is the one for you. So continue to be with her and invest in the relationship... if it bears no fruit then it is time to move on.
There is no substitute for a truly classy woman... those of you who have met one and know one... know exactly what I am talking about. those of you who havn't can not understand because you really have to see it to fully understand it. And yes it has nothing to do with money as the wise man previously stated!
CK
