Back ground checks

[Ray]

I really don't care what you egoists think about me, but, be advised, if you libel my good wife I will insist the forum managers sensure you for your posts.  You have already caused her a good deal of stress with your negative comments.  She is a good woman and truly does not deserve your wrath.  You have only given her further insight into the general  makeup and values of crass and self centered foreigners.  

My wife and I are now in the process of investigating several cases.  We thank those who have had the courage and courtesy of asking politely for help or further information.

I'm sure within a very short time you might see on these pages endorsements from your peers.

Ray, and the others,  please do not incite further hostility.  I have been warned through private mailings of your intentions to discredit my good wife and I for your own selfish reasons.

For clarity; no one is under any obligation to donate for this service.  If you choose to get ripped off by some of these girls, like thousands of foreigners, that's your business.  

It would appear that perhaps certain individuals on this site would love to see you loose hundreds or thousands of dollars to unscrupulous Asian or South American girls.  Perhaps these gentleman have their own little scams in the works.  I see foreigners hustling girls at the malls all the time.  I know of numerous foreigners who have been deported for nefarious business dealings.

There is no risk with my service.  You will receive a report of our investigation.  If you like what you read and want to hear more then you can donate to my wife and I.  If you would rather not donate, just as well.  

As other expats have expressed an interest in helping me and my wife with this service, let me suggest to those of you living in Asia or South America, or elsewhere, to contact me at c_bennish@hotmail.com.  I would love to discuss the opportunities.

OH boy, yet another flood of oral diahrea from the new troll.

Ray, and the others,  please do not incite further hostility.  I have been warned through private mailings of your intentions to discredit my good wife and I for your own selfish reasons.

Man, you are even a bigger idiot than I originally thought!

First, all of the hostility here is coming from YOU. You’re just a hateful little troll with the sole intent to disrupt this forum with your incessant attacks on everyone and anyone who dares to disagree with you.

And it is quite obvious to any fool that the only one out to discredit your good wife is YOU! YOU dragged your good wife into this, not me or anyone else bozo. After getting exposed for running an ILLEGAL scam enterprise, you then attempt to shift the focus away from your claims to be a real private investigator by stating that your wife is the detective. What a wimp! Have you no respect for your wife at all?

You live off her income while dragging her into some illegal scheme to separate Americans form their money. Does your good wife know that what you are doing is illegal in the Philippines?

You obviously have no respect for the laws of the Philippines, but don’t you even care that your good wife could get into trouble with the authorities. A criminal record could screw up her life but no, you don’t care, do you.

So quit with this stupid, ignorant nonsense that I or someone else is out to discredit your wife because that is pure horse crap and even you know it.

Oh yes, and you have been “warned through private mailings” (LOL!) As for your new-found little hate buddy that you are smooching with behind the scenes, you have been had bozo. You see, he doesn’t have the guts to do his own flaming here on the forum, so he waits for an unintelligent new troll such as yourself to come along, then he goes into action with his little e-mail games so he can sucker someone else into doing his flaming for him. He’s gutless and you’re stupid to fall for his games. Unless he is paying for you to do his bidding, you got suckered dude!  ROFLMAO!

[william3rd]

Talks alot about a good wife. . . . probably doesnt exist. Either the good or the wife is not there.

So- are these cases being investigated beer, wine, or something stronger? Poorchoice, you sound like a drunk. The good wife that you mention would thus be the bartender you met and married  on your first trip to Olongapo. Elementary, my dear watson.

A fine bartender with most of her teeth still in her head would be a great wife. . . . 

[robert angel]

Sounds like the same guy, who working out of Lagos Nigeria, was kind enough to inform me I had come into a large sum of money and that I needed to take action on it in order to secure my good fortune, and do that nation good as well.


"And I think to myself----what a wonderful world"

[crashfirepm53]

After I read the post from "Bychoice", I can just say wow!! I mean it does sound like a good idea.....................for some. There are guys that get head over heals for a young hottie and do all the wrong things, ignoring the signs. Others(I like to think myself) pay attention, review phone calls texts and emails and can make a pretty good decision on their own.
I do agree with Ray that your really just another American in PH making a buck without any credentials. I'm not concerned about legal or illegal in PH as much as what your background is. Just another x military in PH maybe?

I'll agree that there are many types of guys here from controlling manipulative types to just suckers. I don't agree with Ray and others here alot and occassionally I think that they are asses but that doesn't mean they don't offer good advice too. This isn't a cut and dry process and neither is the advice here. Take a little or alot.

But honestly, reading your post sounds like a comercial. More importantly, the more you opened your mouth Bychoice, the more of an arrogant ass you appeared to be. I don't feel in my case that I need your services. Maybe they all say that too.But after your posts, I'd never utilize your services. You appear to be a huge ass. I don't know your wife and have nothing to say about her. She supports you and tolerates you so she must be a good woman. Good luck but I'd try a different approach.

[Dave H]

I'm thinking it might be worth the $29.95 if that includes doing a "pecker checker." I know some gays that could fool just about any Internet chatmate with their looks and voices.  

I was the principle sponsor at the "Miss Gay Universe" pageant (our barangay) the other night. We had front row tables and I was serenaded with a love song by "Miss Gay Michelle Obama." It is amazing what P1000 ($20) can buy in the Philippines! I may still have some  phone numbers if anybody wants them.

We had competitors from throughout the region and Philippines. I am telling you, there were some great looking, talented "ladies"! Some even had "bodywork" done. If you ever have the opportunity to attend a gay beauty pageant, don't miss it! I am still recovering from laughing so much and a little nauseous because some were so HOT!

Dave

[Ray]

Pay attention to what your Uncle Dave is telling you!

I’ve seen photos of some of those “Miss Gay Universe” contestants and believe me, if you have never been to the Philippines and are not familiar with this stuff, you could definitely be fooled by some of the female impersonators.

Be wary of overdressed, over-made up “ladies”! And don’t rely on a birth certificate to confirm or deny your suspicions because Filipino birth certificates are infamous for their frequent blatant errors, including having the wrong “sex” box checked off.

Keep those man-on-the-scene reports coming Dave!   

Ray

[robert angel]

It's amazing to me how 'nonchalant' pretty much everyone is in the Philippines about gay folks--heck, about sex in general. My wife spoke about lady boy beauty and talent contests in their small barangay and how they were a lot of fun--as if it wasn't that different than a Kansas church fair here with apple dunking contests.

I don't think I could ever describe the unique approach they have to sex and sexuality. It's a conservative country and yes virginity is valued and a 'reputation' is something valued by most--yet they're not that prudish about youngsters and them knowing 'the facts of life'--I don't even think nudity is some deep, dark secret, like it is here.

But then again, it's not like, say Brazil, where they're more likely to screw like rabbits and the weirdest, rankest porno comes from these days. Yea, it's not difficult at all to 'get laid' if you look around and really try in the RP, but it's different somehow than it is in other places. While pornography, as far as I know, isn't nearly as common there, I don't think most nude and even some screwing scenes in movies would have the same 'titillating effect on a kid there that they would here.


I think by taking the mystery out of it, but at the same time encouraging values and keeping social pressures up, they handle things pretty good.

Likewise, I know in a lot of places there, a six year old kid can go down to the store and get his old man a six pack of  beer, a pint of rum and a pack of cigarettes, but I don't recall seeing a young kid--at least out in the country side, getting smacko drunk on the sly, or smoking pop's cigs.

Then again, I've seen street urchins in the bigger cities, kids less than ten y/o who could whup my ass in poker, all the while chain smoking the Marlboros they won from the last hand played--go figure...

Maybe by taking the mystery out of it all, they keep the abuse factor lower than those countries and cultures that make such things seem like some exotic taboo -as in in the more 'civilized' western countries. Drugs? That's a whole different ball of wax and they've got problems more aligned with what other more 'developed' nations have, especially with boys, from what I see.

 Hell--I don't think I'll ever figure it out and it doesn't matter either way--it's just kind of interesting....

[ByChoice]

I'm pleased to report on the satisfaction of our first client, a single father, who requested we interview his intended in the City of Cebu.  Not only have my wife and I made a new friend but his donation was rather sizable; over twice the normal donation we request, and sent only after he read the report (see the transaction below).  He is proceeding with confidence to arrange a visit to the Philippine islands where he will meet the woman who gathered his attention.

If you are in need of information regarding the woman you may have chosen as a life mate, then please contact my wife and I at, C_bennish@hotmail.com.  We would be pleased to assist you in verifying the nature and character of your intended.

There is no obligation or risk.  You are not asked to donate until after you have read the report.   Your satisfaction is guaranteed.  

Sincerely
Bychoice

SEE THE TRANSACTION BELOW!


Dear Bychoice,



This email confirms that xxxxxx xxxxx has sent you $70.00 XXX with PayPal.




To complete this payment, you must accept or deny it within 30 days by clicking here.



If you do not accept or deny this payment within 30 days, it will be cancelled and the funds will be returned to xxxx xxxxx account.



Payment Details
 
 
Amount:  $70.00 XXX
 
Transaction ID:  xAxxxxx9xxx1xxx243xxxR
 
Subject:   You've got funds.
 
Note:  Thanks Bychoice, I look forward to meeting you and xxxxx in the near future. regards, xxxxx
 
  


 

[ByChoice]

I'm still in shock, so, I have written only a portion of an event which took place in the very next apartment.  Ill try to get all the right words together by tomorrow; stay tuned.  And remember when you read this story....this could happen to you!

[piglett]

Well go ahead & lay it all out then & don't leave out the juicy parts 


piglett

[ByChoice]

A  non-fiction story

Soon after moving into this apartment so as to be closer to my wife's office we befriended our next door neighbors. I'll call them Bill and Hillary.  Bill was a Korean national who worked in the PI as a tour guide.  A nice man of 36 who didn't drink too much or make a lot of noise. He liked to gamble a bit but here that's normal. Hillary was younger, 20 or 21, from a poor province, and very quiet; almost too quiet.

Over the course of a year Bill and I developed close ties.  We would meet on the porch and share stories of the world around us.  Bills English was a bit rough but much better that my Korean.  He wanted to pay me for English lessons but I volunteered them instead.  Frequently he would favor me with Kim-chi which I love to eat.  It would seem that Hillary rarely cooked. The few times I was invited over for supper Bill cooked;  he seemed to know his way around the kitchen.

As time progressed it became obvious that Bill was not happy with his room mate.  He many times spoke to me in a low voice to communicate his dissatisfaction. Several times he said he would leave, and ultimately did.  As per my suggestion he gave Hillary a few dollars for her to travel back to her family.

Since Bill's departure I have watched with mild interest as Hillary reverted back to a previous life style and behavior;  probably assumed before she met Bill.  Within a few weeks she had other men sleeping over and a new female room mate.  Then the room mate got herself a local boyfriend who moved in with them both.

Because I've been in their apartment I know that Bill and Hillary had only a thin twin mattress without bed-frame. The mattress laid on the floor.  I remained friendly towards Hillary for neighborly reasons.  I asked her one day about her living situation; she said they all sleep in the same bed together, but that they don't have sex.

Over the course of the next 5 months the wild parties and loud drunken behavior grew worse; it about drove my wife and I crazy. Hillary didn't go out looking for a job like a normally scrupulous woman might.  

My wife had finally extorted a concession from the landlord which stipulated that we weren't paying the rent until he quieted the people living in the apartment next door. I cant tell you how many times we were woken out of a sound sleep at 2 or 3 in the morning.  My good wife cut off all communication with them and created a nick name for the girl;  slot machines.

 I managed with some difficulty to kept a dialog open, for Bill's sake. One day I heard Hillary talking to Bill on her cell phone. You must understand that I'm not in the habit of spying on my neighbors, but the average Filipino hasn't the same concept of privacy that perhaps Americans have.  Sometimes I can hear phone conversations from people a block away. Sometimes when my front door is open a strangers head will pop in to look around.

As the months progressed the girls next door behaved like drunks in a red light district; cavorting, male visitors, sleazy looking attire, and other nightly activities which would leave even the dullest mind with the impression that Hillary and her girlfriend were making some extra cash peddling flesh. Where the male room mate fit in I have been unable to determine. Their habits extended to not waking up until two in the afternoon.

Now, the interesting part.  The other day I was sitting at my desk near the open front door. I almost fell out of my seat when I looked up to see who was knocking; Bill.  Of course I was glad to see him and I asked numerous questions about his recent travels. He said that he was back for Hillary, and that he was taking her to Manila to process her papers,then marry her, and then take her to Korea.  The blood must have drained from my face because he asked me what was wrong. I said, "Are you sure about this?" He said that he already knew about Hillary's room mates.

He asked me to fill him in on what had been happening.  Because I think of Bill as a good friend I left little to his imagination.  He told me that he had consistently sent Hillary rent and food money...etc.  I told him that Hillary and company had obviously not spent his money accordingly because they were in the hole some 28,000 pesos, a figure derived from my friend, the rent collector.

I noted how the pain and anguish on Bill's face came and went as we talked privately in my apartment. Several times he left, then reappeared to ask more questions. He said he had already bought the airplane tickets to Manila and asked for suggestions.  I said, "By all means, take her to Manila, have your way for a few days, then avoid the marriage thing and go home to Korea.  

The last I saw of them Hillary was pulling her small suit case along the driveway about 5 steps behind Bill. I wished them luck.  

I don't know what will happen.  Maybe they will have a perfect marriage, but seeing as how Bill has a job which requires extensive travel I cant help but wonder what she will do when he is not there. I figure that if he is smart he will once and for all leave her in Manila and move on.

I suppose people make their bed then lay in it.  I wouldn't want to take away anyone's right to choose. As someone once said, "You have a right to make your own choices, but you do not have a right to choose the consequences."

The average wage amongst the working class here is about 300 pesos a month; that's about 6 dollars. Most Americans wouldn't flinch at loosing lunch money. But here when a girl gets a foreigner or, more likely, several foreigners to part with their lunch money, well,  they feel that's a pretty good hall for the day.

Sometimes government organizations can be as discriminating; they exact higher fees from foreigners. For example: there is a bird sanctuary on the Island of Olongo which charges Philippine nationals 20 pesos to enter;  foreigners are charged 120 pesos. Try doing that in America and see just how quickly the courts are thrust into adjudicating a civil liberties case.

The Philippines is not for the faint of heart. Its a wonderful place if you find the right girl with a good family.  If you are unsure of the legitimacy of your girl and wished you had a friend here to give you his opinion, then you are in luck. Write to me at c_bennish@hotmail.com.  Ill be glad to send you a report derived from our observations.

Keep your chin up. there are many more good girls here than questionable ones. The good girls rarely use the internet to find a boyfriend, and when they try they are quickly disenchanted when asked to bare their breasts. In my opinion, any potential girlfriend who shows her breasts on a web-cam is not worthy of consideration.

I wish success to every decent man who chooses to reach across the Pacific to find a healthy relationship....But be careful; there are perhaps thousands of divorced ex-PI-hookers roaming America, and other industrialized nations.

Do you realize that the documented number one way for women in America to achieve wealth is through divorce?  And statistically, the most dangerous place to live in America is in a woman's womb?  Just give that some thought and compare it with Philippine values, then decide whether a Filipina is right for you.

Best Regards

[thekfc]

That sounds like a script for a movie. 

[Dave H]

Hi ByChoice,

I am surprised that "Bill" would talk to you and open up like that. Did he cook you Bi bim bop (good stuff!)  My next door neighbor is Korean and he won't say hello, even when you find yourself standing face to face and say 안녕하세요. I have found the Koreans here to be among  the least friendly people, who keep to their own. Come to think of it, most weren't very friendly in South Korea either!    Many Filipinos don't seem to like them very much and say that they are very arrogant. Sure the Filipina teens are crazy about Korean stars and Boys Over Flowersand of course I wouldn't kick the Wonder Girls out of bed for eating Kimchi in bed! As for Chinese-Filipinos feelings about Koreans...I would say it cuts MUCH deeper than "dislike!" I really expect a  bloody "turf war" one of these days! Koreans are often the main topic of discussion at the local Filipino-Chinese Chamber of Commerce.

"The good girls rarely use the internet to find a boyfriend, and when they try they are quickly disenchanted when asked to bare their breasts."

I think there are some good girls who use the Internet They seem to think that is the way all Filipinas met their foreign husbands Unfortunately they often hook up with some real wingnuts! They really get confused when asked to show their "pussy!"  

"But I don't have a "pussy cat."


Dave


What do you think? The Korean Wonder Girls VS Thai Venus Flytrap

Wonder Girls


Venus Flytrap (The Wonder Boys)

[stevjulietb]

Hey DaveH...whats a beaver?

Steveb

[Dave H]

Hey DaveH...whats a beaver?

Steveb

Hey Steve,

I am not really sure I want to know...especially after my Cuban-mother-law (ex now) tried to get me to take a picture of a "beaber in the riber, in the goods."

[Ray]

That sounds like a script for a movie. 

More like another cheap commercial...

If you are unsure of the legitimacy of your girl and wished you had a friend here to give you his opinion, then you are in luck. Write to me at c_bennish@hotmail.com.  Ill be glad to send you a report derived from our observations.

The whole point of the "story" was to get your money...

[ByChoice]

Hi ByChoice,

I am surprised that "Bill" would talk to you and open up like that. Did he cook you Bi bim bop (good stuff!) My next door neighbor is Korean and he won't say hello, even when you find yourself standing face to face and say 안녕하세요. I have found the Koreans here to be among  the least friendly people, who keep to their own. Come to think of it, most weren't very friendly in South Korea either!    Many Filipinos don't seem to like them very much and say that they are very arrogant. Sure the Filipina teens are crazy about Korean stars and Boys Over Flowersand of course I wouldn't kick the Wonder Girls out of bed for eating Kimchi in bed! As for Chinese-Filipinos feelings about Koreans...I would say it cuts MUCH deeper than "dislike!" I really expect a  bloody "turf war" one of these days! Koreans are often the main topic of discussion at the local Filipino-Chinese Chamber of Commerce.

Having traveled to many parts of the world I really have lost most of the prejudices my father tried to hammer into me as a child (Black and hispanic mostly).  I really get along with a great many people of many different races and cultures.  For years my two favorite lunchtime restaurants in Florida were owned and operated by a Filipina and a Korean.  It is rather amusing really to think that although I try to accept everyone for who and what they are, I find the Americans to be the most self righteous, arrogant, and just plain obnoxious people I know.  Not all are that way, of course, but enough to have cultivated an anti American sentiment in many industrialized nations, as well as in the smaller hubs of human activity.  

From what Ive read and heard over here I get the feeling that some of the Filipinos regard the Americans like a pest management specialist; they were glad to have the Americans around to help eradicate occupation pests, but like the pest man in your neighborhood, you're glad to see him go home when he's done.

The British use to say about Americans during WW-2: "...they are oversexed, overpaid, and over here."

My better half has mixed feelings about Koreans. She tends to think they are cheap and loud, but fortunately "Bill" was neither.   My wife preferred to isolate herself from the girlfriend, but she liked "Bill".

[Dave H]

Hey ByChoice,

I guess I was fortunate as my parents never hammered any prejudices into me! We were invited and  attended many Hispanic and Black functions when I was growing up.

I have some good Korean friends myself in the US and one happens to own a restaurant, the other was my university professor and mentor. I personally have no problem with the Koreans...but was referring to the fact that Chinese-Filipinos do NOT like them and most other Filipinos seem to have "mixed feelings about Koreans" like your wife.

Remember, the Philippines is not what you see on TV broadcast from Manila or quotes from Manuel Quezon (or his elite peers) or the modern Tagalists! I think that the majority of Filipinos would love to be a US state and be done with all of the empty promises of the wealthy, powerful Chinese and Spanish mestizo families! Most Anti-American protests are led by the leftest and/or communists. The reason that the Filipino communists don't like the Americans is because we support and finance the governments of the elite Filipinos. Most of the "anti-American" people you see on the news are the many cheap "professional protesters" that they hire for a few pisos per day. If you give them a few more pisos, they will be working for the opposite side tomorrow.  

I think you are very wrong about the American sentiment in the Philippines! Most of the Cebuanos and Visyans that I know don't like Tagalogs very much, but love Americans. Did you know that for many years there has been a big movement to succeed form the Philippines (Luzon ruled government) and start a new country including the Visayas and parts of Mindanao?

You sound like Jimmy Carter! I am very proud to be an American (more so when Obama is retired)! I think that Americans are some of the most generous, least prejudice (pop a baby out in the US and it is a citizen, try doing that in most countries of the world), and most vilified people in the world! I suppose most of it is due to jealousy. Most people on earth, including Muslim jihadists, biggest dream in life is to live in America and become successful! Unfortunately, most are left with their "second choice" which is to die in a holy war, go directly to heaven, and collect 72 virgins!

Unfortunately, most Filipinos assume that all white guys are "Kanos," when in fact many are obnoxious Europeans.  I wouldn't lose any sleep over what the British or French think! You probably mean "English" since the other "British" (Irish, Scots, and Welsh) hate the English and love Americans! Australians seem to love Americans as well! Most of the English are jealous of America, having lost the wealth of "the colonies" and their former glory! As to France, I have no clue as to why we are always bailing their collective azzes out of one mess after another? I believe that most of the "real" men left France hundreds of years ago or more!  I put banana or tomato Ketchup on my "French" fries and anything else that sounds like it may be French, just in case a Frenchie sees me...including the French-Canadian young lady that I once dated.  She didn't seem to mind, but I have always gotten along famously with French and French Canadian women!    I enjoy it when French "men" have tizzies!   Crepe with ketchup anyone?

Dave

[robert angel]

What Dave says is very true:

>>Most of the "anti-American" people you see on the news are the many cheap "professional protesters" that they hire for a few pisos per day. If you give them a few more pisos, they will be working for the opposite side tomorrow<<

When my wife sees Filipinos protesting on TV, she comments that it seems they always have some protest going on somewhere and that quite often, the protesters are paid to protest, just as they're paid to vote.


My wife's father was Captain of his Barangay for many years, until someone with very deep pockets came in and bought enough votes to take the office from him.

Never mind that he was instrumental in bringing the large water tower/reservoir that ensures that they have water and water pressure, that he helped get two, full size basketball cement slab court/general recreation areas and upgraded and extended the electrical lines further as well as helped bring vitamins, prenatal care and nutrition programs, he was still  'sold out'.

He never was able to take his 7 children to a movie theater or to Jolibees and the meager moneys he may have earned from his farm all went to ensuring his children were educated. Sometimes all they had was rice and water to survive on and the kids prepared the rice before they left for school each morning.

The new guy  who's Barangay Captain doesn't do squat and the same people who sold their votes come instead to my father in law and ask for favors--for help in 'getting things done'. It annoys me that he still helps them. He still commands a great deal of affection and respect from the villagers, as well as in surrounding cities and towns, as they pretty much all know what happened and who really cares for the people. Even the communist NPA respect him, as well as the church, most certainly.

In a way, I can't blame the people--they have almost nothing and when someone comes in with big promises and offers them money that will buy much needed food--and your kids are hungry--it's hard to turn down.

Meanwhile, here in the USA, my wife sees the brick public housing projects where they tear up the nice landscaping, which is promptly replanted here--paid for by the govt., the people in there with food stamps, air. con., cable TV, many of them fat and driving old cars, as their kids are getting free breakfast and lunch at school, then before and after school daycare programs free of charge and how they always seem to have extra money for ice cream and other treats while wearing their $100+ Air Jordan sneakers.

She says how such a lifestyle in the RP could only be had by the very few privileged and wealthy Filipinos.

A different culture indeed...

[Ray]

Right on Dave!

All of these leftist anti-American elitists, like Jimmy Carter and PoorChoice, who think that their shyt don't stink, can kiss my American Ass!



Ray

[Dave H]

I am proud to be an American! I feel very blessed and fortunate, not superior like Jimmy Carter, B.O., The Clingons, Algore, Sean Pencilneck, Susan Sarandon, Johnny Dipp, Michael Mooron, Courtney Hate,  Arianna Huffandpuff, and the rest of those self righteous, elitist, "do as I say," liberal, commie, Chi Guevara idolizing, apologists! They wouldn't survive a day in the real world if America (including the laws, military, police, CIA, Secret Service, security services, and the American people) weren't protecting their phony azzes!   Those duchbags can all move in with Hugo Chavez and see how long they like it!  

Dave

[Staggo]

Has any real person used this guy's services? lol. 

Dear strange man, I am unsure about someone I have never met in person.  Could you another person I have never met please look at them and tell me what she is like?  lol Oh by the way here is some money I have left after paying for college, medical bills, and food that I had in my account.

What a crock.  I think this guy is related to the Nigerians who say my second cousin's aunt left me some money  lol.