I envy the laid back people

[sean126]

I envy some of the more laid back people here.

Being constantly on the forum board for a few years, I didn’t realize just how much someone could be sucked into the childish back and forth imbecilic rancor that sometimes quickly develops before you even know it.    You have many (but not all) toxic ex-posters who pathetically thrive on just how much chaos, lies and general ill will they can actually spread.   If it wasn’t for the fact that they actually think it’s funny and they enjoy it, I’d feel sorry for them.  They childishly cry, whine and complain about love and women while ignoring their own plain stupidity, immature arrogance, and cancerous personalities in general and then have the audacity to band together like a bunch of ragamuffin idiots without a village to discuss their “plans” for finding love.  Simply amazing.  Unbelievable in fact.  Unbelievable that a person…who thinks it’s funny to spread innuendo, to purposely generate ill will for general amusement, to antagonize people, to spend more time figuring out the best way to meet women than figuring out the best way to treat them…..would have the unexplainable surprised and bewildered look on their faces when wondering why they can’t find the right woman for them.  They don’t realize they have found the right woman for them.  Every single woman that has used them, lied to them, cheated on them, ect…is exactly what each and every loser chose and deserved.  Call it karma, chemistry, chickens coming home to roost or whatever….but that is their lot in life because of who and what they are.  Wrong city, wrong woman, wrong country.   I wonder if they will ever figure out the common denominator in their equation.   

It should come as no surprise when I hold a mirror up to them.  Well, to them it might.  They still think the emperor has new clothes…at least until one of their fellow losers decides to take the other followers in a new direction that particular month.   

I envy the more laid back people who let immature childish antics role off like water off of a duck’s back.  After being gone a while I have firm grasp on a useful tool.  Time.  Time away from childish people whose sole purpose is merely seeing how much toxicity they can spread.    Time away from Losers, especially those who try to drag you down with them.  They don’t feel like such a loser if they can band together with other losers. 

For anyone who catches themselves, let me offer the advice of taking a time out.  Don’t worry about what a bunch of losers have to say.  If you’re right then you can afford to keep your temper, if you’re wrong then you can’t afford to lose your temper.   At the end of the day I realized….it’s only a bunch of losers trying to get you going.  Tomorrow, they will still be losers….that’s what really aggravates them so much.

[Cbear]

Just curious, what brought this rant on?

[sean126]

Rant?  Not a rant, but more of a general "thinking out loud".  Some people, like myself, actually get too wrapped up in a kind of fantasy land on these forums at times and I was just posting some thoughts on the subject is all.  "Some people" might be an understatement....I'd say quite a few or a lot of people.

Definitely not a rant. I'm not angry at anyone or anything.  Sometimes I just like to tell it like it is on a particular subject and taking some time off was fresh on my mind.  Kind of like a trip report.

[Ray]

Damn it Sean, have you been hitting those Cuba Libres again?

I'll bet you are talking about Papi...

[piglett]

Gee Sean
Maybe you should share your real feelings with us
come on enough with the sugar coating & all  HE HE HE 


piglett

ps: it's good to find another who will speak his mine

[sean126]

Damn it Sean, have you been hitting those Cuba Libres again?

I'll bet you are talking about Papi...

hahahahahahaha....I almost slipped up.  I'll just say..."no comment".

[sean126]

Gee Sean
Maybe you should share your real feelings with us
come on enough with the sugar coating & all  HE HE HE 


piglett

ps: it's good to find another who will speak his mine

Well....I had to sugar coat it a little....I didn't want to come off as spiteful, bitter or vengeful.   

Besides...I didn't want Sir William or Soltero to think I was talking about them.  One more adjective thrown in and they might have gotten paranoid.  Hahahahahahaha.

[Dave H]

Hey Sean,

Lets get leady to LUMBLE!

[Dave H]

Or do you prefer our red and blue mankinis? I will give you color choice. Oh I guess you already chose blue. Why does my helmet have an "N" instead of "D" ? 

Dave

[soltero]

Well....I had to sugar coat it a little....I didn't want to come off as spiteful, bitter or vengeful.   

Besides...I didn't want Sir William or Soltero to think I was talking about them.  One more adjective thrown in and they might have gotten paranoid.  Hahahahahahaha.

LOL! Once "loser" came into it, I was PRETTY sure you weren't talking about me, Sean Diddy! 

[OsageDave]

Time away from childish people whose sole purpose is merely seeing how much toxicity they can spread.

7+ years ago, I used to love to read the drama. It was often very funny. When Dan took over here, and pushed out many of the people who instigated that stuff, I really thought PL would die. As the years went by I read here and on the other board. From watching on the sidelines, I realized that the drama really was pretty toxic. It was fun to read at a certain level, but it was also a downward slide that built on one hurt feeling after another. Since I was a lurker, I never really had any emotional investment, but to those who were posting, it became very personal.

The Internet allows people to be anonymous. Also, the written word doesn't allow for facial expressions and vocal inflections. The combination of those two, lends itself to a lot of misinterpretation, as well as acting in a way that people never would in a face to face conversation. Also, as Soltero has stated in the past, there are a lot of Type A personalities here.

Giving people the benefit of the doubt and ignoring those who are obviously trying to be difficult, is a good thing. It may make the board a little less colorful, but it greatly helps achieve the board's purpose. Now that I am actively involved in finding a wife in SA or LA, I appreciate that more.

[sean126]

It's good to see there are still adults here with common sense and mature attributes OsageDave. 

(even Soltero is coming along nicely. )