Westerngirl; a tragedy in the making

[Westerngrrl]

... in response to Point moot...., posted by Carrisse on Jan 26, 2001

Love?  I don't understand how a 21 year old girl-woman can be in love with a man twice her age.

[Paulv]

... in response to Re: Point moot...., posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

Coz you don't understand much of anything in real life....

[Westerngrrl]

... in response to Basically....., posted by Paulv on Jan 26, 2001

Some of these young women just want to grab your $$$$$ and leave.  I don't think they're too different from me, if you look at it that way! :-)

[Anna]

... in response to No you don't understand, posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

So if its, the guy must knew the girl better. Or else he will be..... sorry...

   But you're right some but not all young women! People can't leave with out money but they can find it in a better way. Not just faking somebody and then leave..... or run away.

   As of now, people are more aware than before. So if you think that the girl is acting and asking some money they knew its the bad one.

Anna

[logan_jiang]

... in response to Re: Point moot...., posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

it happens I truly loved my last girlfriend and she is a beautiful woman of 43 I'm 25. In love age is no barrier.
(i'm such a poet )

[Westerngrrl]

... in response to Re: Re: Point moot...., posted by logan_jiang on Jan 26, 2001

Hope she had her fun.

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Point moot...., posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

You have had this topic explained to you very eloquently by several Asian ladies and many others on this forum. But you refuse to listen to anyone. “I don’t understand…”, “I don’t understand…”,“I don’t understand…”. You sound like a broken record.

If you choose to not listen to anyone who is trying to help you to understand, that’s fine. But please give us a break and shut up about the age difference thing.

And please answer Dave H’s question. Are you the same one who posted under the names “Asian Girl” or “Anonymous” a while back? Inquiring minds want to know.

Thanks,

Ray

[Dave H]

... in response to You don’t understand because you’re head..., posted by Ray on Jan 26, 2001

N/T

[Ray]

... in response to Thanks Ray! I finally got one right! )..., posted by Dave H on Jan 26, 2001

You're learning fast. If you stick around here long enough, you'll be able to smell a troll a hundred miles away :-)

Ray

[Westerngrrl]

... in response to You don’t understand because you’re head..., posted by Ray on Jan 26, 2001

I am.  Happy now?

[Ray]

... in response to Re: You don’t understand because you’re ..., posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

I'll give you credit for that much.

Hey, have you tried trolling the Russian board yet? They like young chicks over there too. Go get em!

Bye,

Ray

[Jeff2]

... in response to Well, at least you're an honest troll..., posted by Ray on Jan 26, 2001

We get the bitter, rejected New Yorkers...

Jeff2

[Ray]

... in response to No, she can't troll the Russian board..., posted by Jeff2 on Jan 27, 2001

Jeff2,

How come you guys on the Russian board always get the best trolls? I was just over there checking out the troll scene.

OK, we'll keep westerngrrl if you keep Cathy. Deal?

ROTFLMAO!

Ray

[Jeff2]

... in response to Re: No, she can't troll the Russian boar..., posted by Ray on Jan 28, 2001

I think that it has to do with the similarity in appearance and the personalities of the regulars.

Eastern European women tend to look similar to the "typical" western woman, so western women that do not like the idea of men looking outside the local area anyway can more eaily feel threatened or rejected; it becomes more personal and hurtful.  It is not as much of a rejection when men look for Asian or Latin women because the differences in appearance are greater; the western woman can rationalize it because the man is "only going for appearance."

As for the personalities, a while back there was a post in this forum discussing the types of men that tend toward each of the areas.  Those interested in Eastern European women were said to be the eggheads (I do not remember the exact term that was used) and those interested in Asian women were said to be the easy-going types.  My experiences tend to support this categorization.  When the Russian board gets a troll we tend to refute and argue even though that is not the best way to handle a troll; here trolls are often ignored or not bitterly attacked so they leave for more fertile grounds.

And while I framed this regarding western men looking overseas, I do not exclude Lori or others like her; I like what I have read from her.  Trolls normally attack the men involved, so I looked at it from that perspective.

At least the trolls here tend to be literate and not overly vitriolic.

Regards;
Jeff

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: You don’t understand because you’re ..., posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

Hi Whatevergirl,

You don't understand why 20 year-olds can fall in love with guys 40 +? That's because you haven't met me yet. ;o) Tell me, what does a 20 year-old guy do with the other 23 hours and 59 minutes of the day after he has "made love" to you. I know, he sleeps, eats, craps, and cleans his car. There are a whole bunch of 30-40-50+ guys here that would treat you like a lady, hold a conversation, and not use you for a human condom. I bet you would learn to love it!

Dave H.