New bill in congress

[Landover]

According to the Atlanta Journal in 2002, 6,700 women applied to the INS to self-petition for residency as a victim of domestic violence. This is the process women waiting for permanent residency but supposedly in abusive relationships can apply on their own for residency. 2,500 applied in 1998. Sounds like an awfully high number.

[Pete E]

... in response to New bill in congress, posted by Landover on Dec 13, 2004

If there is a reason to claim abuse,as in she gets to become a pernmanent resident WITHOUT staying married to the guy who brought her here,and abuse can be construed as someting as simple as raising your voice,the horrible verbal abuse,you will gets lots of women trying that one.
Next it will be abuse if you don't give them everything they say they might have expected.Don't laugh,in the divorce cases she can ask for him to continue to support her in the lifestyle she had become accustomed to,as in the life he provided for her to be his wife,even if she choses to not be his wife.If it would work they would try it.
Join the ranks of the 10,000,000 here illegally.Makes you wish they would start sending some butts back home.
In Germany they actively seek out illegals to deport.I heard of 2 women who went to a Colombian celebration,were stopped by the police as they left and deported for not being there legally.
Actually I would hate to see that happen to Jose the hard working Mexican gardiner.But some of these dishonest scammers,their butt should be on the next plane.

Pete

[Troy]

... in response to He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Pete E on Dec 13, 2004

I wonder how many of these scammer women came over via men who were agency-hags and married the first young, cute, piece of azz that showed them a bit of attention.  The men who's pure stupidity, selfishness, and lack of judgment should be equally to blame for providing a vehicle for these type of immigrants to make it to our shores.  I blame the men for not screening these women properly and not being patient and disciplined enough to get to know the women, and thus uncovering their true intentions.  And then when these men get burned, it's everybody's fault except their own, right?

It's a two way street; scammer women who arrive here on the backs of desperate, weakminded men.

[Pete E]

... in response to Yes, but..., posted by Troy on Dec 14, 2004

Theres alot of truth in what you say.Sometimes it should be obvious what you are dealing with,other times not so much so.I certainly jumped in too fast.I don't consider myself desperate or weak minded,but I was ripe for what I hoped was the love of an attractive woman and my judgement was poor because of this.
But once the mistake has been discovered a little honesty,which is hard to come by when there is an ULTERIOR MOTIVE would seem appropriate.We hear charges of abuse primarily because it is openly stated as a grounds for the woman to stay permanently.And the Colombian underground,maybe too strong a term but the Colombian connection will fill her in on what to do to take advantage of that clause in the immigration rules.I bet there are more men that have gone to jail for claims of abuse than actual,abuse.And verbal abuse,well thats a catch all wide open catagory.Only verbal evidence.
But you are right,it takes 2.Usually one fool and one scammer or at least a person with less than pure intentions.We screw up,we pay.She scams,or even screws up,she benefits.
I subscribe to a BWHB policy.It doesn't work,her butt goes back.No benefits for a failed situation for either party.

Pete

[Sam Club]

... in response to He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Pete E on Dec 13, 2004

Pete - out of all the posters on this board you should be the last one blasting latin women who come to this Country with the true intentions of being with their husband/novio and rasing a family and making themselve better in the process.  Pete - YOU DON'T EVEN SPEAK A SENTENCE OF SPANISH - for all the drama you HAVE and will contiune to have in your life. "indicio"

It appears that many of you who are dogging me (which actually is sorta funny) are not interesting in finding a wonderful and loving wife...you are only interested in petting your ego and establish some "forum" friends on this board.  Why don't you get out in the real world and socialize?  Put away the woman arm cushion you sleep with and actually get out there and become a MAN!

I am not looking for people to agree with me or to be apart of a click - sh*t I'm not on this site enough to be into that sh+t.  I'm not asking which agency is the best (sh*t many of you have no clue anyway) I'm just posting some real life sh*t for you "busters" to learn!  Get it?!    

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Sam Club on Dec 14, 2004

I not even going to bother with cut and past to show what a idiot you are... your
post are so far out in left feild it makes me wonder who you really are... You
have posted something and failed to follow up on anything else to do with this
Crime against Latina womanhood. If you are so worrried about thses woman
then post the guys nick and stop hiding...

[buster40]

... in response to Re: He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Sam Club on Dec 14, 2004

It takes a real man like you to come on a message board and judge a bunch of strangers.  What's made you so hateful?

[Ray]

... in response to Re: He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Sam Club on Dec 14, 2004

I think maybe your tampon is too tight... LOL!

[Sam Club]

... in response to What an arrogant ass!, posted by Ray on Dec 14, 2004

Raymond - thank you so much - you've impressed me!

[Ray]

... in response to Re: What an arrogant ass!, posted by Sam Club on Dec 14, 2004

You're welcome, you "fat, lazy, socially unacceptable, old, balding" girlie man! :-)

[Heat]

... in response to Re: He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Sam Club on Dec 14, 2004

Pete is a real man.  Not some feminazi wuss like you.  Get a life troll.

[Sam Club]

... in response to Pete is more of a man than you'll ever b..., posted by Heat on Dec 14, 2004

Thank you Heat for your very informative post!  And you contribute byyyyyyyyyyy?

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Sam Club on Dec 14, 2004

My spanish is not good,but its not true I do not speak some spanish.
My story is true.My wife spoke english and I don't think I missunderstood what was going on.
And  I don't know if you have some real examples of abuse or wether you are like the feminatzis I refer to,raise your voice its abuse.My post was a response to people who think like that.If it fits you I don't know.
And I am a little tired of excuses,lies and manipulation.If they don't like it they can go back where we found them.Do they want to do that?Oh no,they want the goodies.They would rather complain and  manipulate all they can to stay in the country they choose to enter with a person they choose to come with,even though they now want nothing to do with him.
There are probably some real cases of abuse.There  are probably hundreds of cases of false abuse for every one of them.But,if you have some real stories,give us an example of abuse so we can tell which sort of of person you are sticking up for.You can withhold names and even change little details if you keep the basic story intact.
AND - I did not insult you,unless the feminatzi comparison fits.You are the one over the top here.
So enough general BS,give us some imformation or drop it.
Maybe we overeacted a little,but guys are TIRED of bugus abuse stories and  manipulative scammer women.

Pete

[kented]

... in response to He yelled at me !  Can I stay now ?, posted by Pete E on Dec 13, 2004

My wife came to the US knowing this strategy.  She called 911 more times than I rmember us having fights.  [She enumerated all the times she called 911 in our divorce roceedings].  911 was called at least a half dozen times, the police only came twice and one of those two times I was the one who made sure they came.  No arrests were ever made since there was no abuse.  

My wife has an elaborate plan B which is exactly like you described.  She asked for spousal maintenance which was denied.  The police ignored her, the courts ignored her but I'm not sure if it will help her adjustment of status when (and if) it finally comes up.  

By the way, a woman who does this is trying to stay here legally and it has nothing whatsoever to do with people who are here illegally.  Germany is a good roll model.  Another holocast would be politically incorrect so this is the next best thing.  The United Staes definately needs to emulate Germany as to how to treat people.

[Locii]

... in response to absolutely, posted by kented on Dec 14, 2004

It is a crime to publicly challenge any 'held' belief about the 'Holocaust' in Germany.  It is a serious, jailable offense.  That group of laws is a an enemy of free people everywhere.  It is the same as the laws that forbade any public critical speech or writing about Chinese or Russian leadership.  Laws like those only serve some small special interst who have something valuable to lose.  I will leave it up to the reader to determine who that is and what they have to lose.  (I beleive France has similar laws)

That said, I am not sure what you were referring to about "Germany being a good (role) model".  Maybe you had a good point, and I don't get it.

I agree with you that "Germany is a good roll model".  Nothing like tuna salad on a kaiser toll with dill.

Ciao