I must tell my story.  I'm Dolphin.  I went to Barranquilla this past June and met "Jane."  Things went well and I believed she was truly interested in me.  I asked her to marry me after ten days and she said yes.
    After I got back to the States, I started sending her $120.00 a month for English classes.  In the mean time, her e-mails to me were usually brief and not very personal.  Also, whenever I would call her, we would get disconnected every two minutes.  I did not know if she was hanging up on me, or if we were getting cut off from service.  She did use a cell phone.
    I finally confronted her about it and she said to me, "don't worry, I love you."  When she said this, it did not sound sincere to me, so I called a friend in Barranquilla to talk to her for me.  This person talked to "Jane" and said that she did not say much and that she should not talk to me.  "Jane" then sent me an e-mail saying not to talk to this person.  She also said in this email that she was going away for awhile and that now she was not sure about me.  This is one day after I Western Unioned her $120.00.  When I read the e-mail to my friend in BAQ, she said it sounds like "Jane" is trying to dump you.  Isn't that great!  Man, you really better watch out with this stuff.  I got F_ _ _ _ _!!!!! and it is not fun.  Trust me.  Anyway, thanks for reading my post.

Dolphin

If not, don't feel bad.  The process worked out like it was supposed to. The fact that you asked her to marry you means nothing.  In my case, I had filed a K1 and it was almost ready to be issued before my lady backed out on me.  Now that hurt.

But even if you did file it, you can cancel the process but I wouldn't worry about a thing if it hadn't been filed.  

JUST FIND YOU ANOTHER LADY!!  

As noted by others you could use some hand holding support and you may want to consider Calipro offer for help.

By the way Traveller I love hearing about your business experience with Colombians I can laugh because they happened to you. Now it’s your turn, I win more than I lose but here is one of each.

Win:
I get a bill that is almost 200,000 pesos more than the negotiated rate. We call the sales lady and she says sorry but we can not do anything about this because the invoice is all ready in the system. Well I know systems and this is a ridiculous answer, so I have someone call them back again and they still won’t budge. Now this is for my DSL so I can’t just not pay and risk getting cut off. So I collect the amount I should be paying them and have someone go their office and demand to speak to someone who can change the “system” because the owner is not going to pay more than the negotiate rate. All ends well but see the effort for something that should be cut and dry.

Lose:
Karina negotiates a rate with a hotel and after giving them business for about 10 months I am asking for lower rates. We make a deal they cuts my expenses 5% and they tell me I have the lowest corporate rates possible. So I am pleased, about 1 week later I see my rates went up as before; and I say what’s going on I just negotiated my rates down one week ago. And they say yes we know, but the rates went up this week.

Instead of calling Colombia a “third world country” they should be calling it an “out of this world country.”

Jamie
Engage the Exotic
Http://International-Introductions.com

I'm sure dolphin is a nice person, but he's pretty foolish when it comes to interacting with women (we all are, to an extent)