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Author Topic: Please, please someone help me fall asleep!!!  (Read 7154 times)
Nico
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« on: August 25, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
I had this dream last December.  Before I went to sleep I was in Denver, Colorado out trying to meet a women. The result was always the same. Rejection, Plain and simple. The women formed these disgusted smirks across their faces and these painfully squinted eyes as they breathed the familiar tunes like’ “Uh I’m not looking (for a boyfriend right now)” or “Uh I have a boyfriend/husband”, or last but not least, “Uh your just not my type/I don’t feel the same about you as you do about me”.
 
 I went to sleep that night hurt and dejected, only to wake up in this wonderful, fabulous place. The difference in this place was dramatic. Those same disgusted female smirks across the faces of the Denver women were now replaced with these warm friendly smiles and inviting eyes of these pretty, young Latinas. What a shock. ”Uh I’m not looking right now was replaced with. “I’m very interested in meeting someone now.”  “Uh I have a boyfriend /husband.”, Was replaced with, “ No I’m single, are you too?”  “Uh your just not my type/I don’t feel the same way for you as you feel about Me.”, was replaced with, “ I thought about you all day today.” “I missed you!”

Pretty women were now actually interested in me! Can you believe that! My hotel was ringing off the wall with prospective girlfriends! I had a date every night with gorgeous women! I was higher than any drug or alcohol could ever take me. Is this all real? Why is this happening? I asked an acquaintance in this dream whether or not he knew if I could play any musical instruments, for maybe it was that I was a rock star in this dream. It sure as hell felt like it! The flyer in my hotel room said that I was In Cali, Colombia. Well in midst of all my fun and romantic trysts, I all of a sudden felt myself boarding an airplane. Something deep down told me that I shouldn’t be on this plane. I think I’m leaving this place.

 I woke up. As am walking down the street those sneering ugly faces and elusive eyes are all back. No woman is paying attention to me anymore. I’m back to being the invisible man. I’m back in Denver. I panic. My heart starts pounding, a bead of sweat rolls down my face. I feel like I’m locked in a closet! I want out! I hate this place. I’m lying down now, struggling to fall back asleep. Please, please someone help me fall back asleep!  I WANT TO GO BACK WHERE I WAS BEFORE!!!
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Pete E
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« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Please, please someone help me fall asle..., posted by Nico on Aug 25, 2002

Ah---which is real and which is the elusion?Both are real,
(except for a bit of an exageration about american women,they usually don't bother to sneer),so get that plane ticket back to paradise.When you bring your lady back and walk down the street with her on your arm the same American chicks will probably be jealous,not to mention the guys.
So in order for the dream to not end you need to find one you can bring back,or stay there forever.Since you are probably not ready to retire its seems its the former.
Its been about 8 months since you were there,where are your priorities?


Pete
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Nico
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« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Please, please someone help me fall ..., posted by Pete E on Aug 26, 2002

Hi Pete! My entire trip is hinging on a house that I remodeled,with the intention to sell.It is under contract. The inspection was today. I should find out tommorrow what the buyers requests are and then of course on to the appraisal and such. Its been rough because this enron,worldcom and stock market business all hit about the same time that I put this property on the market. Anyway if I successfully close (the 13th of next month) then I'm gone.
With regard to my priorities well I say I would like a wife,and would like a wife and would marry the right one, but man the hunt is so intoxicating.I don't know where does that put me ?


                       Nico


               
   


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Pete E
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« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: Please, please someone help me f..., posted by Nico on Aug 26, 2002

Nick,
Alot of guys go from looking for a wife to thinking its more fun to just be looking,there is always another pretty girl.Its an individual thing,when you meet the right one you will know so might as well enjoy yourself in the mean time.There is no one right way to do it.Alot of our Veterans around here will admit I think they passed on alot of good girls,it just didn't seem like time yet.Of course if you can go alot or stay months that is easier.If its 2-4 weeks a year you are back in AW country the other 48-50,so you make the call.One friend of mine went once a month for about 3 years,then got married.He said later that he could see he wasn't going to be able to keep going soo much or he might not have got married yet,I think he still misses the hunt a little.Myself I never really got in to enjoying it that much.When I met the right girl I was ready,and that was pretty quick.
I know about those escrows.One of mine was tetering today and the seller made big concessions and we put it back together.I let out a $10,000 whoop about the time I hit end call on my cell phone,then I thought I hope I didn't do that too early,he would know we were a little too happy with our negotiation and he might want to reconsider.
Sounds like yours will work and you are off.Its about time.Should be fun and maybe very rewarding.Thats what so great about this latina shopping.Its fun and then it can get better yet.

Pete
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DallasSteve2
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« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Please, please someone help me fall asle..., posted by Nico on Aug 25, 2002

Spanish title: "No nos digamos mentiras"
English translation: "Don't tell ourselves lies"

I like that phrase mucho.

When I was in Cali in June I stayed at All Colombian Girls for a week.  I saw a wedding picture on the wall of a balding, 50ish man with a very young, very beautiful bride.  I asked the owner, Ricardo, about the couple.

He told me the girl was 18 and she married the man for his money, but now she loves him.  She had returned to Cali to visit and had spoken to Ricardo.  She told him she missed her husband and wanted to return to be with him.

I asked Ricardo if he thought they would stay together.  He said, "Who knows?  She loves him now, but she is very young.  In 5 years she may feel completely different."

Ricardo said, "No nos digamos mentiras.  These girls are looking for a man who can give them a better life."  My commentary: If their idea of a better life is getting a visa to the US, the man that she shows so much attention to in Cali may find himself with little attention in the US again.  That happened to me.

What I'm saying is, it's very easy to get a date with a beautiful woman in Colombia, even young ones.  That doesn't prove that the women here are wrong, or that the women there have different standards.  It's just the current environment.  If you choose wisely, you can find a good wife.  But as Han Solo said, "Don't get cocky, kid!"  Or as Ricardo said:

"No nos digamos mentiras."

Steve
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hombrecaliente
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« Reply #5 on: August 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to No nos digamos mentiras, posted by DallasSteve2 on Aug 26, 2002

Steve you're quire right.

A better life can mean many things.
The easiest way is for them to marry an (older) well of dude with serious $$$.

On the other hand a latina also could marry an average dude with a normal job. Then offcourse she also has to get a job to make more money!! Right?
That is the way which I prefer. I am not a milionaire,and I only have a normal job.
Question is: what do most latinas we meet down there want?Huh
So I realy am not looking for 18 year olds "which realy love me so much"...;-)
I met many girls in LA who were so pretty that it was very hard for me to believe (8.5-9) BUT most of them ONLY want to become a mother (preferably of 2-3 kids!) stay home...that's it.
I can take care of myself,so I need an equal partner and not a replacement mother lol.


They think they can live like a latina HERE,but that's impossible,and you know that too.


HC.
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Patrick
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« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to No nos digamos mentiras, posted by DallasSteve2 on Aug 26, 2002

Did she end up staying here in the US with the other guy?

That's a good saying by the way.  I'm (pleasantly) surprised that it came from an agency operator.  Too many of them push the old sales pitch that anyone can find a beautiful young wife to love them forever regardless of their age, income, looks, etc.
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DallasSteve2
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« Reply #7 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Que paso con la ex esposa?, posted by Patrick on Aug 26, 2002

Patrick

My ex is still in the US and has hired an attorney to petition for removal of the conditional status of her residency.  I don't know if she has had her appointment yet or how long it will take.  Our divorce was granted last month.  

My ex has been an occasional reader of this forum in the past, although I have no idea if she still reads it.  As such I don't want to say any more about the process until it is complete.  When it is complete I will post the outcome here for all to see.

Whether she is still with the other guy: I don't know and "no me da ni frio ni calor".  (Translation: I couldn't care less).  I haven't called her since March although she calls me every few weeks.  I think that I have a good woman now.  I know now that my ex is not a good woman.  If she is still with him, I don't think she is ready to be faithful to him yet either, so he can deal with that.

About the owner, I think Richard is a good guy.  We developed a good relationship during my time in Cali and so he was very honest with me.  I don't know if he would be so honest with everyone else, but I think he is a good guy.  And his agency has a lot of beautiful woman.  (He also runs a modeling agency.  :-)

Steve
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Cali vet
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« Reply #8 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Que paso con la ex esposa?, posted by DallasSteve2 on Aug 26, 2002

I've always thought Ricardo has had a good handle on what American men are looking for without imposing  the "mothering" and restrictive advise sometimes encountered at other agencies such as his ex's.
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robbysanjuan
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« Reply #9 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to No nos digamos mentiras, posted by DallasSteve2 on Aug 26, 2002

God bless you for telling it like it is!
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jim c
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« Reply #10 on: August 25, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Please, please someone help me fall asle..., posted by Nico on Aug 25, 2002

I had a simular dream after returning from Cali three years ago. It was the first night I was home. I woke up in the morning and immediately began planning my next trip for forty days later. That evening I went to a club and experienced the AW's attitudes. I drank my drink, smiled at the hogs and left, knowing, that there was a place where I could find better. Since that time I have smiled at the AW"S knowing they were not necessary for my happiness. For some reason they now find me attractive, but, who cares!!!! jim c
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Hoda
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« Reply #11 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Please, please someone help me fall ..., posted by jim c on Aug 25, 2002

JC & others...

The same ones who wouldn't give you the time of day, if your life depended on it...NOW, find you attractive...lol! How many times has that happened to guys here? Jim & others, you're giving off the "I've found happiness & love, despite your best efforts to try & keep me miserable" hormone....lol! It happens once you decide to go south & never look back...

Happy trails....lol
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Pete E
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« Reply #12 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to They can sense, that you've found happin..., posted by Hoda on Aug 26, 2002

Howard,
Yup,there is something about not giving a da-m that gets their attention.Its the opposite of being desperate and needy.And wait till you go out to dinner with your lady here and all the tables of 2 or 3 single women are giving you the eye.Same chicks that wouldn't give you the time of day before.You get the last laugh,like I might have even settled for one of you but since you treated me like s--t I did a whole lot better.
Don't fight,switch!The poor guys who haven't figured this out yet,still beating themselves against the wall like a wind up car.

Pete
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pablo
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« Reply #13 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Please, please someone help me fall ..., posted by jim c on Aug 25, 2002

I didn't have to wait for my first dream after returning home Jim.  It was on the second leg of my flight back after landing Stateside.  Sitting directly across from me on the other side of the aisle was this overweight AW wearing bluejeans and sporting a short haircut.  I honestly could not tell if it was a guy or a gal until she spoke to the stewardess.  Oh, how I wished the plane was heading back south instead of up north.  

There is a great side effect to visiting a LA country...the new confidence you have with women and just waiting for the time you can be these marvelous LW again.
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Nico
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« Reply #14 on: August 26, 2002, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: Please, please someone help me f..., posted by pablo on Aug 26, 2002

Thats right pablo,A trip down south does do wonders for your confidence.I'm counting the days man.
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