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Author Topic: why im MAD!!!  (Read 3976 times)
Thomas
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« on: November 15, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

LOL! First thanks to you all for the translation of the line
"Yo me casare contigo, porque estas enojado." I now understand thanks to you all that she is saying " I will marry you, but why are you mad?"
 I am not crazy and I was never mad at her. THis is another miscommunication based on her limited english and my very limited spanish. She is referring to an earlier email when I was asking her where she was the night before. She was not home at a time that I usally call her. I was asking because I was worried about her but she took it that I was angry with her.
  I will put a little more of the email here to put it in context because I still dont fully understand it. Were getting married in February and weve been engaged for 2 months so I dont know why shes saying "I will marry you" Maybe that will make more sense if I put more of the email in here (by the way for all you wise guys, Yes I am sure were engaged that part is clear in english and spanish lol)When we are together communication is good but its a nightmare over the phone and especially email! To all you cats interested in latinas learn as much spanish as possible.
  Hey Georgina I also live in Seattle and like I said Im getting married in February and she will be here in March. I noticed that you are 27. Im 29 and she is 23 maybe you guys can talk. As you know Seattle doesent have a large spanish speaking population so it would be real cool if she had a headstart as far as another spanish speaking friend especially someone who is in such a similar situation. If you are interested in that let me know and ill give you my email. Here is a portion of the email to put it in better context:

Hi my love, How are you.
I am sorry, el sabado fui a recoger a mi sobrina ya que queria pasar
conmigo
el fin de semana, estuve en el apartamento hasta las 8:00 de la noche
esperando tu llamada tuve que irme porque se me estaba haciendo tarde,
me
quede con ella el sabado y el domingo y el lunes estuvimos en mi
apartamento
ya que el dia lunes aqui en Colombia era dia festivo y pude quedarme
con
ella hasta la tarde, luego de que la deje en su casa vine a escribirte.  
Disculpame pero como nuestra comunicacịn es un poco limitada no podria
decirte donde voy a estar todo el tiempo, ¿Conf́as en mi? Yo me casare
contigo, porque estas enojado.
Te quiero, Jennifer


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Chris F
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« Reply #1 on: November 15, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to why im MAD!!!, posted by Thomas on Nov 15, 2001

Hello Thomas!!

I have been a reader ( and at times a contributor) to this board for quite some time and do notrecall reading about "your story" in past posts.....If you did not post before.......... do you mind telling us what agency you found her in as well as how many visits before you were engaged?

Any insight would greatly be appreciated!!

Thanks!!!

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stezo
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« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: why im MAD!!!, posted by Chris F on Nov 15, 2001

Yeah Chris your right Ive posted alot but I havent done a tru trip report. Ive planned on giving one since I got back form Cali since I like others so much but Ive been real busy (lame I know) so Ill get on that my brother.
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Georgina
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« Reply #3 on: November 15, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to why im MAD!!!, posted by Thomas on Nov 15, 2001

Oh, great. I also know a girl from Cali married to an American and living in Issaquah, so maybe I can also put them in contact. The girl I know from Cali is kind of new here. I would love to know your girl. Let's keep in contact.
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Sol
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« Reply #4 on: November 15, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to why im MAD!!!, posted by Thomas on Nov 15, 2001

Thomas, this sounds like a tiny mis-communication. I think what she's trying to say is that she thinks you're angry and wants the man who's going to marry her to not be angry just because you don't know where she is at any given point in time. Her perception is different from your reality. Maybe she's concerned that you might be too protective, or insecure or jealous or something like that. She feels attacked (her perception) and is going out of her way to tell you where she was during the weekend. She's concerned that you don't trust her. So, maybe what she's saying is "I'm the lady who's going to marry you so trust me. Don't get upset about not knowing where I am every minute." Again, her perception is not your reality.

Even understanding the Spanish it's still not a clear communication. This is more a communication problem than a language problem.

Here's the translation if that helps.

Sol

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Hi my love, how are you?

I am sorry, Saturday I went to pick up my niece, she wanted to spend time with me during the weekend. I was at the apartment until 8:00pm waiting for your phone call. I had to go because it was getting late. I stayed with her Saturday and Sunday, and Monday we were in my apartment since Monday here in Colombia was a holiday and I could stay with her until the afternoon. After I left her at her house I came to write you. I'm sorry but given that our communication is a little bit limited I can't tell you where I'm going to be all of the time. Do you trust me? I'm marrying you, why are you angry?

Love, Jennifer

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Hoda
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« Reply #5 on: November 16, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to translation, posted by Sol on Nov 15, 2001

I've gone through similar experiences at times with my lady. It takes time & patience, and you know what? The differences between us greatly reduces the "unnecessary" verbal clutter at times. It's still a learning process for the both of us. Sometimes a little frustrating, sometimes very funny. But it's something we both cherish & would never give up. Your insight regarding the "train of thought" of Thomas's lady or any latina should be MANDATORY READING for guys heading south....Well said, well done!

Peace...Hoda

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Georgina
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« Reply #6 on: November 15, 2001, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to translation, posted by Sol on Nov 15, 2001

I couldn't have translated it better than you did. I think you not only translated what she said but also expressed her feelings. I agree with you.
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