... in response to Re: Re: My Story Part 9, posted by Pete E on Jul 23, 2001HD,
Love and desire is great,I'm all for that,thats what we are all looking for.About the therapy,it worked,so I suggest it to anyone who has any issues at all in their marriage.Also we had lots of sex before this,it just got better and more frequent and more in line with my expectations.I have no regrets.What allowed me to move so quickly with my wife is I could tell right away she was a very good person,and that has proved to be exactly true.
Wether your marriage was proceeded by alot of letter writting or not,its an ongoing process of discovery with each other.Being carefull may increase your chance of success,but were you really that carefull?Sounds like you just went for it with maybe a little more time getting to know the person.How many days did you spend with her person to person before the marriage?In my case it was 18 days.How are things to this point?I spilled my guts alot,and very honestly.I certainly wasn't bragging but admitting problems.I felt particularly motivated to do that because we had seen no other imput but the red hot latina to that point.Some of these girls are also very conservative.We need more feedback on real situations.
Pete
