The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys, get real here

[yc]

... in response to You've Finally figured it out guys, posted by JUAN on Jul 10, 2001

One other thing JUAN, just out of curiosity.  How receptive were these AW to being hit on by LM?  I hope you are not talking about "College Girls Going Wild!!!"

[JUAN]

... in response to Re: You've Finally figured it out guys, posted by yc on Jul 11, 2001

yc, some women weren't very receptive while others were, it depended  on the individual doing the pickup attempt.  

Most of the AW I saw with Mexican men were young, late teens-early twenties, some were very attractive but I also saw a couple of mid 30ish AW,  who looked good for their age with Mexican guys that looked to be in their early twenties.

[yc]

... in response to You've Finally figured it out guys, posted by JUAN on Jul 10, 2001

Hey, I don't have a problem with it.  If LM love AW, the more power to them.  Just because I find AW unsuitable does not mean I think she should be alone.  I try to be as objective as I possibly can.  If I desire a latina, she, the AW, should be able to desire LM or who she choose to desire.  To each their own, and every is happy.  At least in theory that is.

[rick13]

... in response to You've Finally figured it out guys, posted by JUAN on Jul 10, 2001

It really is funny how foreign men love AW,but none on this board wants to admit it. I find it quite puzzlig at times that the plain redhead is a knock-out to many of these foreign guys. In fact, if I were a slighly chubby blond chick, I would run over to LA and get myself a guy that would never look at me twice in the U.S.  Lots of Latinos love blond women with pale skin, so I really don't think Aw would really get jealous of AM with foreign wives.  Also,there are pleny of foreign
men more than willing to marry AW if nt for her exotic looks:) then for a VISA and a better life.Just as there are plenty of foreign ladies ready to do the same.

I truly believe women are more practical and logical when it comes to looking into intercultural relationships.Also, there is usually a stigma associated with a woman if she dates outside her culture or race. (that is unfortunate but true) I am sure many of us know of the reverse case where a plain,or older AW married a foreign good-looking man. My friend has an aunt who did just that last year. She is pretty plain and really spinster looking.

 The funny thing is, she is blond and he was all hot for her because in his country a blond white woman is the prize.  Now she is complaining he is out all the time and she is finding phone #'s from women all over. White women! I do no mean this as an insult to anyone, but i does seem in his country, he was impressed with her blond hair. But once here,he is begining to see she is not what is considered attractive by the average AM.And he is telling her how other women are always coming on to him and tell him he is good-looking. She is extremely upset by this,and cannot believe the change in a man who once declared his total devotion,and left his country and family to be with  her.
   I cannot see this union lasting much longer.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: You've Finally figured it out guys, posted by rick13 on Jul 10, 2001

The latino male,particularly in Colombia,seems to enjoy the challenge of trying to seduce a new woman.American women are viewed as not only exotic but easy,and this might be the case for an AW on vacation.Where an American man might get tired of rejection these guys just try and try.Its a fun game for them I think.I think they can even be quite charming and seem to have alot of confidence.I think they are raised differently.Males are put on a pedistall and and not reprimanded or critisized much,so they don't lack confidence.Also there is an attitude about women I heard where a Costa Rican father tells his son" you will not be able to have sex with every woman you you meet,but of course you must try."
My wife was telling me stories about what womanizers her grandfathers were,it was kind of funny to her in retrospect.Probably wasn't funny to grandma at the time.

Pete

Pete

[KADAMS]

... in response to The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys, get..., posted by newby Jim on Jul 9, 2001

I feel your pain, I have a mother and sister, (both divorced). Listening to an AW to me is like watching Sesame Street with the Sound off, lots of lip movement, but nothing worthwhile to be heard. You know like " you guys are desparte, she won't love you blah blah blah blah, .........." see?

Go ahead, pike and poke, I still be at the pool in Belize drinking a Pina and Ms. November will be oiling my back. And you can sit at home and watch your toenails turn yellow with age..

Cheers

[bret]

... in response to The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys, get..., posted by newby Jim on Jul 9, 2001

why would a pretty american girl want to marry someone 20 years older and 100lbs heavier, if it were not for a better life? american women marry for money and lifestyle everyday!

the goal in "the process" is to choose someone within one's age group, or near it, mos o menos.  anyone who marries someone much younger IS taking a big risk, no matter the nationality of the bride. of course, some of the marriges do work, regardless of the age difference or country.

but, as far as your BEEF is concerned, most american women marry in order to enhance their lifestyle. didn't your mother tell you to shop around, or did you go for the first loser/unemployed/fat guy to come along?

oh, by the way, some of us are young and in excellent shape!

[acatman]

... in response to The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys, get..., posted by newby Jim on Jul 9, 2001

Want a better life!!!! Yes you bet BOB...
Would you marry a man your age with a 6 grade education,
work at a job making $6:50 an hour. Rent a trailer and
watch fishing on TV.?? I bet you want a better life,
nice vaction, money in the bank and all the perk that
goes with success.

I have work all my life trying to have something and
now i have made it. I am marred to a beautiful Colombia
women for almost 3 years.  Some facts,,I am 40 lbs more
than her and 29 years older. As the song say " she light
up my life".
 
You should wish your brother good luck and let him
do his business,,,

[genode]

... in response to The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys, get..., posted by newby Jim on Jul 9, 2001

I'm going to throw a little water on this fire with some light heartedness before the flames get out of control.

Some of us are quite young yet and looking for that someone special our own age.  Actually, I still date AW occasionally.  And who knows, I just might meet that someone special tomorrow.  But I am most physically attracted to Latinas.

Besides, how can an exotically beautiful Latina resist a blonde-haired, blue-eyed, young Minnesotan stud such as myself.    Dontcha know, eh?

BTW...I'm coming home to MN from KC next weekend.  Single?  Would you like to go out and see for yourself?  jajaja

[Houndog]

... in response to Not all of us are 20 years older and 100..., posted by genode on Jul 9, 2001

Yea, I made the mistake of still dating AW, while writing foriegn women myself about 9 yrs ago. Oh well...live and learn.

HD

[genode]

... in response to Re: Not all of us are 20 years older and..., posted by Houndog on Jul 9, 2001

.

[Houndog]

... in response to The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys, get..., posted by newby Jim on Jul 9, 2001

Honestly most of us were Desperate to find women that were absolutely NOTHING like overwieght(or will be soon), materialistic, naggy, shallow, selfish, dishonest AW. And when we looked around we finally found the Mother Load of 'Dream Ladies'in LA...and words can't describe what a blessing Globalization is to guys that want a younger, slimmer, more beautiful, loyal and faithful loving woman as a spouse.

For the mere price of a plane ticket south we never have to date another AW for as long as we live. Thank You Lord !

HD

[pack]

... in response to Re: The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys,..., posted by Houndog on Jul 9, 2001

hound is right on target! thank you american airlines for setting us free!

[Diego A.]

... in response to Re: Re: The Desperation Factor.. C'mon g..., posted by pack on Jul 9, 2001


When you get the Latina bug it doesn't go away. the new
american dream is the south american(including central/mexico/spain) woman.  The dream of a wife that is younger, attractive, yes BUT also more traditional more family oriented kinder, SUPPORTING will love not antagonize her husband, in short marraige they way it should be instead of competition when compared to what we have experienced with the AW (especially those of us who have been married before) we could never go back.  Especially to find someone who can appreciate what
we have to offer.  After being mistreated by the American
woman we've had it! We're not having it. If my being an American can get me the wife of my dreams then I'm going to use it ya mi voy! Having seen the dream realized in others
We are ready to boldly go where few american men have
gone before: LATINALAND

[genode]

... in response to Re: The Desperation Factor.. C'mon guys,..., posted by Houndog on Jul 9, 2001

Nothing invigorates me more to go south than after dating an AW.  It just reminds me time and time again that going to Latin America WILL be worth the effort and it WILL be worth the time.

I get tired of the pettiness sometimes.