Dear Gentlemen,

I am relatively new on this site.  And I have been only reading it before. I must note it is quite interesting to read what you AM think about us RW.  I feel as if I am on the enemy side and I am a spy:-)) But now I just can't keep silent:-)

What I want to say is that if a RW is beautiful and sexy in a way it doesn't always mean that she is a scammer.  For example, many people consider me to be pretty and men often tell me that. But I personally don't think so, I think that I am one of the beautiful ones but not the most beautiful and I usually behaive modestly and such.  So, please don't be afraid of beautiful women, they want to be happy too:-))

And one more thing.  Many of you seem to be very afraid of scammers RW and you look for red flags everywhere.  But you know I think it is wiser to use a personalized approach to the women you correspond with.  I mean that sometimes if you would look on a situation from a general point of view some actions or words of a RW would look like red flags but if you try to put yourself in her shoes then you would understand better why she does or says something. (This however is not an excuse for asking money.  I agree that asking money is not appropriate). Oh, I hope you understand what I mean.

Sorry for my poor English.

Best of luck to all of you!

... in response to Beautiful - doesn't always mean a scamme..., posted by Cinderella on Mar 3, 2002

...The beautiful FSU woman I ended up with is listed as a scammer on several websites. Whether she is or not is another story. I considered her (and many like her) easy pickings because, once they're tagged, most men avoid them like the plague.

Never been known to do things the "traditional" way, even this. I like a challenge and believe it or not, even scammers have a heart that can be won.

... in response to I agree...., posted by LP on Mar 3, 2002

You do know all the tricks of the trade.
So from a trick you made her a trick.
It is the only way to go.
But I am still wondering about her shortfall, the one from Cyprus,  we french do ot think that girls do have shorts,
it is always upon the man shoulders.
By the way did you take these photos, because on some of them, you did not do her justice, per say.
Perhaps the wine was too good,     some greek white wine is superb, right.

... in response to What fotos...., posted by LP on Mar 3, 2002

Thanks LP,  you don't seem to know that there was a lot photos on the link you provided,  only had to change the
numbers, at the end.  If my old memory doesn't fail me, eleven of them.
As for the rest, I am please of your concerns about my heart.  But three weeks ago, was 12 minutes easy on the
carpet, recuperated in 75 second.  If I did quit, it was because of the cold outside, living in Montreal, sometime
we do have winter, here.
But I would like to pretend that I do know that, as we get long on the tooth, we begin to look at the inside as
much as we do  the outside.
As for the rest, thanks for the answer and I shall e-mail you, soon, to pick your brain, some.

A la prochaine.

... in response to Re: Beautiful - doesn't always mean a sc..., posted by micha1 on Mar 3, 2002

Thank you all for your warm reception:-)))

Since you don't mind my English I would be writing from time to time:-))

... in response to Beautiful - doesn't always mean a scamme..., posted by Cinderella on Mar 3, 2002

If you are not getting many letters it could be the agency you are using.  Some agencies partner with American companies and get their best girls put on the popular American or European websites.  Other agencies keep their girls to themselves and they don't get seen.  Maybe nobody is seeing your picture.  

I was visiting a less well known web site today and noticed they had very few hits on many attractive ladies.  All of those women would have been screened out by me because of poor English skills.  But your main problem is that there are many Eastern European women chasing the few western men willing to take this risky venture.  One agency owner told me he had over 55,000 women in his database.  His agency will only list 1500 women a year in their catalogs.  

The only advice I can offer is that should enlist with a second agency to be seen on other web sites.  Your pumpkin is waiting Cinderella and better luck at the next ball.  

... in response to Thanks - I know, posted by Cinderella on Mar 3, 2002

In that man's case, he was hoping he had an exclusive relationship with the woman.  Considering the record of American and other men with Russian and Ukrainian women, they are looking until the ink is dry on the marriage certificate.  I can understand a woman's desire to keep trying, especially if she is getting older and wants to have children.  This happens to us often, even when we are serious about the woman.

... in response to Answer to your question, posted by greg2 on Mar 3, 2002

Thank you.  Your view on controlling men is very interesting.

I think the age difference is a very individual issue.  For some people it is exceptable to marry someone who is much older or much younger.  And some prefer someone closer to their own age.

However, I think that most RW would accept a proposal from a man who is 10-15 years older, because they think those guys have already achieved something and are more reliable and are more family-oriented.

Thanks again for warm reception.